Robyn Ward in NYC

[+ daytongay]

I recently left a three-star review on RM about Robyn Ward, and since then he's lit up my text messages and my RM inbox reacting as if I'd left a one-star review and said horrible and untrue things about him.

 

I said he was an hour late (true), he hadn't been able to perform (he kept getting soft), that he must have been having a bad day, and that he seemed like a nice enough guy (I'm not so sure about that any more). I also paid him the full amount for our encounter without complaint because he needs the money more than I do.

 

He has a bunch of five-star reviews and one three-star review (mine). Yet he said he didn't want things to get ugly and that I should remove my "unfair" review. I told him he can say whatever he wants in response. He said I was a troll hiding behind a screen and that he wonders if I'd be so brave if he were in my town. I told him to look me up based on my phone number and that he can say whatever he wants about me to whomever he wants because I trust that nothing he can say will change the opinions of my family and friends about me.

 

At any rate, I now think that he falls under the don't let crazy stick their dick in you rule and that his reaction to my review serves as a much more negative review than I wrote.

 

https://rentmen.eu/RobynWard

[Harryinny]

What led you to hire him?

[KeepItReal]

11 hours ago, daytongay said:

I recently left a three-star review on RM about Robyn Ward, and since then he's lit up my text messages and my RM inbox reacting as if I'd left a one-star review and said horrible and untrue things about him.

 

I said he was an hour late (true), he hadn't been able to perform (he kept getting soft), that he must have been having a bad day, and that he seemed like a nice enough guy (I'm not so sure about that any more). I also paid him the full amount for our encounter without complaint because he needs the money more than I do.

 

He has a bunch of five-star reviews and one three-star review (mine). Yet he said he didn't want things to get ugly and that I should remove my "unfair" review. I told him he can say whatever he wants in response. He said I was a troll hiding behind a screen and that he wonders if I'd be so brave if he were in my town. I told him to look me up based on my phone number and that he can say whatever he wants about me to whomever he wants because I trust that nothing he can say will change the opinions of my family and friends about me.

 

At any rate, I now think that he falls under the don't let crazy stick their dick in you rule and that his reaction to my review serves as a much more negative review than I wrote.

 

https://rentmen.eu/RobynWard

I am sorry to hear about your experience. Hired him a number of times before Covid - have recommended him a few times when asked.  This included group settings too. He played well with me and in a group, always delivered and did not set off a "crazy" alarm. One of the 5 star reviews is likely mine and I stand by it, given my experience.  His rates were always super reasonable too, for what he offered. 

[Bokomaru]

His profile says satisfaction is guaranteed. Maybe he was just having an off day. The easy way out is to ask him to stand by that guarantee. If he gives the money back, agree to rescind the review. Win-win. He keeps his reputation and you don’t have to put up with the threats nor pay for an encounter which didn’t satisfy. 

[+ daytongay]

On 8/18/2023 at 4:28 AM, Harryinny said:

What led you to hire him?

He was available, nearby, had a couple videos showing him doing what I wanted him to do to me, and he was positively mentioned on here.

[rvwnsd]

On 8/20/2023 at 7:22 PM, daytongay said:

He was available, nearby, had a couple videos showing him doing what I wanted him to do to me, and he was positively mentioned on here.

There is no excuse for an escort to hound a client over a less-than-five-star review. I'm sorry to hear that he chose to react that way.

Having said that, a quick question and three suggestions.

The question: When you contacted him did you state what you were looking for (i.e., what you saw in his videos) and ask if he could accommodate or did you assume he would do what is shown in his videos? 

Suggestion #1: It is best to state what you are looking for and ask whether the escort can accommodate rather than assume based on pics/videos. In my experience it makes for a better session. Everyone knows what everyone else wants and expects. If a guy can't or doesn't want to engage in one activity or another then no harm no foul and I get to decide whether to hire him. That said, if you did ask, he agreed, and then couldn't do it, everyone is aware there's a problem.

Suggestion #2: When an escort says "satisfaction guaranteed" and you aren't satisfied let him know. 

Suggestion #3: When presented with a  situation where:

On 8/17/2023 at 3:21 PM, daytongay said:

..he's lit up my text messages and my RM inbox reacting as if I'd left a one-star review and said horrible and untrue things about him....he said he didn't want things to get ugly and that I should remove my "unfair" review. I told him he can say whatever he wants in response. He said I was a troll hiding behind a screen and that he wonders if I'd be so brave if he were in my town. I told him to look me up based on my phone number and that he can say whatever he wants about me to whomever he wants because I trust that nothing he can say will change the opinions of my family and friends about me...

the best approach is to not engage and to avoid escalating. Ignore the messages and block him if necessary. It saves a lot of aggravation.

 

[Guest]

You are his only 3 star review and the only person who says "would not recommend." I understand why he is pissed. There are two sides to every story.

I can't read your RM review but you were clear you gave him a bad review because he was late and he wasn't as hard as you like.

I think its unfair to give a guy a negative review based on dick performance. I think as guys we all know how that works. Sometimes things just aren't lining up. These are people, not robots or sex toys and sometimes things just happen or the chemistry isn't there. So maybe yea it is a little unfair to be trashing this guys performance because his dick wasn't super hard the entire time. Leaving a review that disses an escorts dick performance could cause them trouble and I would avoid trashing anyone's dick unless they were lying about it or sending an unsolicited pic of it.

In terms of lateness, that depends. Sometimes things can happen and if a person is communicative and professional about it, we should be understanding. We're all people and things happen outside of our control to a degree.

None of us know the whole story. It could be a fair review it could be an unfair review. However coming on to another review site to escalate this doesn't help your case in the court of public opinion.

[TorontoDrew]

1 hour ago, BiDude420 said:

 

1 hour ago, BiDude420 said:

I think its unfair to give a guy a negative review based on dick performance. I think as guys we all know how that works. Sometimes things just aren't lining up. These are people, not robots or sex toys and sometimes things just happen or the chemistry isn't there. So maybe yea it is a little unfair to be trashing this guys performance because his dick wasn't super hard the entire time. Leaving a review that disses an escorts dick performance could cause them trouble and I would avoid trashing anyone's dick unless they were lying about it or sending an unsolicited pic of it.

If I hire a top I expect him to perform.  Otherwise its a waste of my money.  Cialis/Viagra are easy to get.  The provider should invest in some. 

[NyGold]

16 minutes ago, TorontoDrew said:

 

If I hire a top I expect him to perform.  Otherwise its a waste of my money.  Cialis/Viagra are easy to get.  The provider should invest in some. 

Provider should also turn down work if unable to perform. This isn’t a boyfriend experience in the genuine sense. 

[NyGold]

Providers’ obsessions with reviews indicates they are actually impactful.

I’ve never left one, and my conflict with providers on this matter is usually they want me to. Even when I tell them I don’t have a premium account. 

And I’ve heard providers say things like (about a client leaving a bad review) “I know where he lives, I can cause him a lot of trouble …” - very confidence inspiring.

[coriolis888]

On 8/22/2023 at 4:33 PM, NyGold said:

 

And I’ve heard providers say things like (about a client leaving a bad review) “I know where he lives, I can cause him a lot of trouble …” - very confidence inspiring.

If the provider had performed as advertised and AS CHARGED THE CLIENT, a bad review would not have be given. 

To threaten a client because the client paid the provider for less than satisfactory service then wrote a truthful review about the unsatisfactory service is absurd.  

It is a two-way street - the provider supplies a service and the client supplies the money.  If one does not perform, what is the purpose of a review except to call it like it was?

[omgazn]

On 8/22/2023 at 7:13 PM, TorontoDrew said:

 

If I hire a top I expect him to perform.  Otherwise its a waste of my money.  Cialis/Viagra are easy to get.  The provider should invest in some. 

Many Excellent points here on the forum, honestly if I was hiring a top and he didnt get it up. I would be massive disappointed.

Everyone is entitled to their own opinions, their review is up to each individual hiring the provider. They shouldn't be threaten when they are expressing their personnel thoughts and opinion.

[NyGold]

On 8/22/2023 at 5:41 PM, BiDude420 said:

I think its unfair to give a guy a negative review based on dick performance. I think as guys we all know how that works. Sometimes things just aren't lining up. These are people, not robots or sex toys and sometimes things just happen or the chemistry isn't there. So maybe yea it is a little unfair to be trashing this guys performance because his dick wasn't super hard the entire time. Leaving a review that disses an escorts dick performance could cause them trouble and I would avoid trashing anyone's dick unless they were lying about it or sending an unsolicited pic of it.

In terms of lateness, that depends. Sometimes things can happen and if a person is communicative and professional about it, we should be understanding. We're all people and things happen outside of our control to a degree.

 

If it were my bf or hookup in this context - I might agree. But Isn’t this rather like saying a doctor or dentist or lawyer had a bad day so despite paying them for services advertised / promised / expected I shouldn’t be complaining about them if they failed in the task at hand?

we hear from providers they want respect as professionals.

Let them be judged to professional standards.

 

[+ FrankR]

40 minutes ago, NyGold said:

If it were my bf or hookup in this context - I might agree. But Isn’t this rather like saying a doctor or dentist or lawyer had a bad day so despite paying them for services advertised / promised / expected I shouldn’t be complaining about them if they failed in the task at hand?

we hear from providers they want respect as professionals.

Let them be judged to professional standards.

 

I dont think anyone is saying you cant give a professional (doctor/lawyer) a bad review. But it is not a good comparison. And context is important. A doctor/lawyer can have a bad day and still provide adequate service - it is rather different when it comes to…getting it up.  Keep in mind professional standards differ between various professions, lets first agree on what professional standards should look like for eecorts before we judge. No doctor would want to be judged by lawyer standards, nor would an escort want lawyer standards (though both are arguably hired to screw someone!) 🤭

[coriolis888]

It is what it is!

You hire someone to do a particular job.  You pay their asking price.  

The person that is hired failed at what they were paid to do. 

Why should the buyer not be truthful about the failure?

If a buyer is not allowed to report the truth, why even have reviews?

[NyGold]

10 hours ago, FrankR said:

I dont think anyone is saying you cant give a professional (doctor/lawyer) a bad review. But it is not a good comparison. And context is important. A doctor/lawyer can have a bad day and still provide adequate service - it is rather different when it comes to…getting it up.  Keep in mind professional standards differ between various professions, lets first agree on what professional standards should look like for eecorts before we judge. No doctor would want to be judged by lawyer standards, nor would an escort want lawyer standards (though both are arguably hired to screw someone!) 🤭

A doctor having a bad day could kill me through incorrect diagnosis and a lawyer could have me end up in jail!