Too Much Information From Clients?

[hairytxn]

For Providers: What do you consider "too much information" from a potential client? I like to be upfront and honest about things (size, medical history, etc) that might affect our meeting but worry that if I'm too honest there won't be a meeting at all.  So, what's too much and what type of personal information would you want or need to know during the hiring process?

[+ Jamie21]

Think of it this way, if you didn’t tell a provider something because you were worried it might mean he declines you how comfortable would you feel when actually meeting him? 

Aside from medical conditions that might mean he declines you (for example I won’t see clients who have a medical condition that is a contra indication for massage) if you’re seeing a serious provider then he won’t be concerned about things like age, body size etc that you might be concerned about. It really isn’t a consideration for good providers. 

I do like clients to share anything they’re concerned about because then I can reassure them that it doesn’t matter. But if they just want to give their name when booking and nothing else then that’s fine too. The only thing that I think is too much information is a picture. But that’s just because clients who send pictures tend to not end up as bookings. They either never get around to confirming or they cancel or no show on the day. 

 

[SirBillybob]

I cannot speak for providers, only that I have received no protests from any, but I share SOME degree of physique visual representation and offer a full frontal non-nude body photo with face clearly depicted. 6’ 180. I am not uninked. They inadvertently will know my true name, and I theirs, prior to meet-up. The latter same as any type of hook-up past half century, transactional or not, except first-run baths encounters in uni. I provide any medical info requested including health status and STI prevention playbook.

These fundamental descriptors are not contained in the same communication passes as service details and remuneration. I have had no complaints over decades in terms of info insufficiency or over-inclusiveness. I cannot think of one time when I myself did not follow through on booking after having commenced sharing of personal details.

Most recent, began with my navy briefs, in contrast to the model sporting same (appended). Blue bathing suit example, worn, on request. Emphasizing they are clean laundry unlike the ‘zine caption. Then added the clothed body&face portrait, offering more details if needed. Spent all of 10 minutes total to seal the deal. An hour later: in; an hour after that: done & dusted. 

I instructed them that I had CAD$200 and I did not mention awareness of the ad reflecting USD$350 in a recent American city. 

I don’t know what they want but they are not put in a position of running up against resistance regarding their curiosity or imperatives. 

I believe in normal common parlance this is termed 😘 💋 K.I.S.S.

Edited July 5, 2023 by SirBillybob

[SirBillybob]

26 minutes ago, Jamie21 said:

But that’s just because clients who send pictures tend to not end up as bookings. They either never get around to confirming or they cancel or no show on the day. 

My god. How do you do it?

[+ Jamie21]

58 minutes ago, SirBillybob said:

My god. How do you do it?

Usually quite well

[jeezifonly]

I never book overnights or travel. So that limits a lot of information I might share with a friend over the same duration. For providers of either massage or more, I add 4-5 lbs to weight and 1-2 years to age. When I show up they’re expecting worse. I have sent a recent face pic when asked.

[SirBillybob]

9 hours ago, jeezifonly said:

For providers of either massage or more, I add 4-5 lbs to weight and 1-2 years to age. When I show up they’re expecting worse. I have sent a recent face pic when asked.

Both sides be like …