Where do male-for-male professional dominants advertise?

[Just Chuck]

I haven't found a good website where male professional dominants advertise.  

Female and transexual dommes advertise on www.dickievirgin.com.  

You can search for male BDSM providers who see men on www.tryst.link but only find a handful world-wide.  

www.rent.men has "S&M" and "Bondage" available as searchable preferences.  But they generally return a lot of escorts who are open to some kink scenes rather than professional dominant men.

Do you know of another site that I'm not aware of?  

 

[+ Pensant]

Interesting question. Years ago, when one would meet up via 800 numbers, I ended up with a stable of twinks and college boys who wanted me to dominate them. I had all the gear: boots, riding crops, chastity devices. They’d do just about anything. It seems the online world has banished those connections to the ash heap.

[+ robear]

Have you tried ?

Recon | The Fetish Network‎

WWW.RECON.COM

---

Recon is an online community of Gay Men interested in fetish and kink.

Recon is of course a hookup/networking site, not a renter site.  You would need to be careful and discreet in inquiries and communication, but I bet that most working doms have profiles on there and you might be able to suss them out, perhaps by cross-referencing with rentmen and social media.

[+ Tygerscent]

On 6/9/2023 at 4:26 AM, Just Chuck said:

I haven't found a good website where male professional dominants advertise.  

Female and transexual dommes advertise on www.dickievirgin.com.  

You can search for male BDSM providers who see men on www.tryst.link but only find a handful world-wide.  

www.rent.men has "S&M" and "Bondage" available as searchable preferences.  But they generally return a lot of escorts who are open to some kink scenes rather than professional dominant men.

Do you know of another site that I'm not aware of?  

 

I’ve noticed a current trend… Age group 30’s and early 40’s guys who like to be gagged, butt plugged, tied up, fitted for a chastity belt and then left to simmer for 20 minutes. When the timer rings, flip over and cook for another 45 minutes. At some point you might want to add stuffing, but be sure to really grease up your paw~ Fist jacking seems to be really popular~   
 I think this is a common theme on Twitter trash and FFO channels~   
🫶☺️

Edited June 12, 2023 by Tygerscent

[Just Chuck]

3 hours ago, Tygerscent said:

I’ve noticed a current trend… Age group 30’s and early 40’s guys who like to be gagged, butt plugged, tied up, fitted for a chastity belt and then left to simmer for 20 minutes. When the timer rings, flip over and cook for another 45 minutes. At some point you might want to add stuffing, but be sure to really grease up your paw~ Fist jacking seems to be really popular~   
 I think this is a common theme on Twitter trash and FFO channels~   
🫶☺️

What’s an FFO channel?

[+ Tygerscent]

1 hour ago, Just Chuck said:

What’s an FFO channel?

For fans only 

[Just Chuck]

10 hours ago, robear said:

Have you tried ?

Recon | The Fetish Network‎

WWW.RECON.COM

---

Recon is an online community of Gay Men interested in fetish and kink.

Recon is of course a hookup/networking site, not a renter site.  You would need to be careful and discreet in inquiries and communication, but I bet that most working doms have profiles on there and you might be able to suss them out, perhaps by cross-referencing with rentmen and social media.

I used to have a Recon account. While I had a few fantastic connections there, I got frustrated at how frequently somebody would leave me with a room all set up when they no-showed and ghosted me.  I think the majority of people I interacted with there were into the fantasy of meeting up, but didn't really want to meet up.

[pubic_assistance]

3 hours ago, Just Chuck said:

I think the majority of people I interacted with there were into the fantasy of meeting up, but didn't really want to meet up.

I think there's a lot of that in general when you're dealing with gay men on meet-up sites. 

I have been  ghosted on Grindr by people who spent an hour telling me how hot I was and how they wanted to submit to me and let me have my way with them. Clearly jerking off at home and with NO intention of actually meeting up.

That component of gay life seems unavoidable. You just have to dig through the bullshit every time you go shopping. Think of it like one of those discount stores where you have to sort through endless rubbish until you find a shirt you like 

[Guest]

Recon can be good but a lot of flakes and some hardcore people.  I only met one guy on there but it was amazing.  In the late 90s there was a professional dom in SF who I almost met up with but I forget how I found him.  There is a BDSM place in my town but it's mostly women and the one guy they gave is not very attractive.

[+ robear]

Stating the obvious perhaps, there ARE pro doms who advertise on the usual rentman sites. 

MrKristofer - Male Escort, Gay massage - San Francisco | Rent.Men

APP.RENT.MEN

---

MrKristofer Gay Escort in San Francisco, California, available for Gay Escorting,Modeling,Erotic Massage. | Find all the best Male Escorts at Rent.Men

It just takes sorting through and networking.  In my limited foray into the BDSM world some years ago, it was always stressed by veteran players that community and communication were key, whether searching for pros or playmates.  Anyone can hang out a shingle (or run an profile on RECON etc.), but the real deal takes a LOT of experience and talent to be worthwhile, and safe. 

[Bokomaru]

I doubt there will be a site specifically for SM dom providers. For instance, Whosnext (Sir Kirk) in NYC markets as a pro dom  yet has only the usual listings on his linktree: RM, A4A, JFF, Twitter.

It’s so disappointing how few providers specialize in this. The frequency of seeing in RM profiles variations of “I can be very dominant or very loving” is frustrating. I know that they are trying to appeal to a wide audience but part of me screams, “Pick a lane!”

[+ Charlie]

2 hours ago, pubic_assistance said:

I think there's a lot of that in general when you're dealing with gay men on meet-up sites. 

I have been  ghosted on Grindr by people who spent an hour telling me how hot I was and how they wanted to submit to me and let me have my way with them. Clearly jerking off at home and with NO intention of actually meeting up.

That component of gay life seems unavoidable. You just have to dig through the bullshit every time you go shopping. Think of it like one of those discount stores where you have to sort through endless rubbish until you find a shirt you like 

Yesterday at Target I sifted through the rack of all the shorts on sale ("30% off!"), but when I finally found a pair I liked, it was the wrong size, so no sale.

[+ Pensant]

22 hours ago, Bokomaru said:

I doubt there will be a site specifically for SM dom providers. For instance, Whosnext (Sir Kirk) in NYC markets as a pro dom  yet has only the usual listings on his linktree: RM, A4A, JFF, Twitter.

It’s so disappointing how few providers specialize in this. The frequency of seeing in RM profiles variations of “I can be very dominant or very loving” is frustrating. I know that they are trying to appeal to a wide audience but part of me screams, “Pick a lane!”

You’d be surprised how many twinks and twunks I’ve turned into doms, although not hardcore. It’s role play and some have gotten quite good at it. Of course, they love to switch and be a Daddy’s boy from time to time. I’ve never had any issues training them.