Do escorts get lonely?

[Guest zipperzone]

I have noticed recently that many of the escort reviews when showing the city where they are working also ad "formerly of San Francisco, Atlanta, Toronto, & London" or words to that effect.

 

This has made me wonder if there is a lonely factor built in to this occupation. If I was moving form city to city I would find it difficult and time consuming to always have to make new friends every few months. And for me, true friendship takes time to build and nourish and doesn't happen overnight.

 

I know some might think that if the escort is seeing new clients all the time, there will be no time to be lonely. But I don't think this is the case. We all know that you can be lonely in a crowd.

 

So - tell us, is escorting a lonely profession?

[seaboy4hire]

Yes it can be.

 

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Greg

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[+ Lucky]

Isn't loneliness common to all humans at different times in their lives?

[Guest msclonly]

For me, some cities are MORE lonely or is it boring, and it gets time to move!

[Rick Munroe]

>So - tell us, is escorting a lonely profession?

 

Not when you choose to do it with your best friend.

[mattsmojo]

Yes, it can be lonely at times. on the other hand i have also been in a very satisfying relationship with another escort in the past. the few times i have been in relationships with people not in the adult entertainment world i usually have taken some time away from escorting and done something else if it is something they would not be comfortable with me doing.

 

as for the idea that an escort who is constantly meeting new people might not be able to be lonely - well, one can be lonely in the middle of times square i would imagine...

 

i think when the escorts list "formely of..." it is for two reasons, one, they may be known as "joe from nyc" and want former clients or those reading reviews such as on daddysreview.com to be able to locate them, and also, in the cases of cities with a certain amount of glamour appeal like nyc or l.a. etc it might also be to help their listing stand out.

[Okliehomo]

Are you referring to Barbie or Derek?

 

Ok, ok. I know what doll you mean.

 

Okie

[Rick Munroe]

>Are you referring to Barbie or Derek?

 

Derek's a doll, but he's more like "UPS Billy." :9

 

http://upload.wikimedia.org/wikipedia/en/thumb/7/7a/Upsbilly.jpg/150px-Upsbilly.jpg

[Guest zipperzone]

>>Are you referring to Barbie or Derek?

>

>Derek's a doll, but he's more like "UPS Billy." :9

>

>http://upload.wikimedia.org/wikipedia/en/thumb/7/7a/Upsbilly.jpg/150px-Upsbilly.jpg

 

You mean he wears brown shorts? Could he deliver a package to my door?

[+ purplekow]

>>>Are you referring to Barbie or Derek?

>>

>>Derek's a doll, but he's more like "UPS Billy."

>:9

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>>http://upload.wikimedia.org/wikipedia/en/thumb/7/7a/Upsbilly.jpg/150px-Upsbilly.jpg

>

>You mean he wears brown shorts? Could he deliver a package to

>my door?

 

I can attest to the fact that Derek can indeed deliver. But unlike UPS Billy, a big tip is not the end of the delivery but the beginning. UPS Billy does bear a striking resemblence to Derek though

[Ethan]

Darling, we all get lonely. It is so ironic because I ABSOLUTELY would not change careers because I love this job, However, I have been on a world tour since September. I have been home three times for no longer than 3 days. And while I am blessed to have been able to experience all that I have been able to experience, its not all glamourous like everyone believes. In the beginning this the tour created a lot of hotel down time......VERY LONELY. If you are ever lonely, feel free to call me 4155593838 or blog with me on my blog at rentEthan.com.:9

[Tristan Waters]

Escorting can definetly be a lonely job. Especially if you do a lot of traveling. I try to always travel with another escort tho, so I have someone to explore the different places i go.

 

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[AaronEdwards]

WOW... I saw this question and started to respond, then stopped, then thought about it for a while and then decided to respond to it. I guess it is a sensitive subject in some aspects or at least it can be. I originally wrote out a very long message about this and decided it was not needed. Therefore I will just say that I am one of those escorts that has moved around. I am also very discreet about my business. Therefore most of my friends do not know that I offer the services I offer. That alienates them and can make a person lose friends fast. With that said, yes it can be quite lonely.

[Guest ncm2169]

Zip, I've watched this question hang out there for long enough, and I can't resist.

 

To me, it's like asking an escort (or anybody for that matter), if he gets hard, does he want to shoot his load. }(

 

Sorry for the interruption. Continue with your comments. }(

[+ Lucky]

...speaking of being lonely.

[Guest zipperzone]

I thought this thread had died a natural death way back in March.

 

The reason I asked the question was because, although I'm not an escort, I used to work for a multi-national company who was into promotions that usually meant a change of location as well.

 

After having endured three of these promotion/location changes, from Toronto to Winnipeg, back to Toronto, then to Montreal and then to Vancouver, I finally said enough is enough.

 

The company always thought it was easier (and cheaper) to shuffle me around because I was single. What was never taken into account was that when you transfer a married man, at least when five o'clock comes, he goes home to what he has always had - his wife & family.

 

But when you transfer the single guy - he goes home to zero. An empty apartment and no one in the city he can call as he knows nobody.

 

Usually in a new job in a new city where you don't know anyone, the first place you make friends is at work. However if you are there as the boss, this is impossible as you can't be seen as playing favorites.

 

Trust me, it can be a hell of a lonely life. And I was wondering if escorts who seem to change local or travel often experience the same feelings of being all alone?

[+ Tygerscent]

Intersting question~ You gotta know that given schedules, traveling, events and things that friends have to be very okay with not hearing from you or seeing you for extended periods. So, for me at least, Friendships tend to be a rare and most often fleeting thing for me outside of work. My best Friends and sense of Family come from my Clients, some whomm I have seen for a number of years now. Time I am not working is time I am out in the mountains with my wolf and we are running around in the wilds of Oregon, in craters, sand dunes or on the ocean. He scouts around and I get naked and take photos.

I like developing close relationships with my Clients. After all... at some point I may not be Escorting and would really hope to have Friendships with these guys and continue to visit and share life together.

I've found it challenging to have a partner while Escorting. I mean... who likes to hear that you can schedule some fre time for them sometime in November once all of the travel and events anf filming settles down. Takes a very special person to understand all of that.

It can definately be a profession where one finds ones self alone a lot. I have three room mates and virtually never see them. In spite of their good efforts to get me out of the house. I generally am busy working on emails, photos, travel plans, scheduling, paying bills, eating, working out, quality time with my wolf who runs around with me while I do errands. My social contact outside of work is relatively minute~ Hence, when I see my Clients I am all up and ready for some "social" interaction as sexual as it may be! That makes it more delicious for me though... I love it that my Clients are also my Friends and Family so to speak~! I find that very rewarding.

So, I would have to say that while I am alone A LOT!!! (don't really see people outside of work and sessions only last so long~), I don't feel particularily lonely.

Tyger!

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[KMEM]

Escorts aren't the only group that manages through work to lose contact with most anyone except clients. Airline pilots, real traveling salesmen and many others get out and about more than they are home. However, escorts ARE a special category and need to attend to their mental health as well as their physical as much as possible.

 

Best regards,

KMEM

[Guest ncm2169]

Zip, I love ya to death and always enjoy your posts, but I gotta tell ya, every time I see this topic heading, I wanna just say,

 

"Do escorts ever get sleepy? Do escorts ever get hungry? Do escorts ever get horny? Do escorts like to go shopping?"

 

My point is, we're talking about human beings here, not some elevated notion of mankind who/which needs to be placed on a pedestal.

 

Everyone gets lonely from time to time. It's called the Human Condition.