I've had to say goodbye to a regular

[Wolfer]

Because every subsequent session he kept on shorting the time more and more and being distracted during the session. The previous session (that he shorted) I had said I wanted to stay the full hour. He promised me next time. 

The next session he shorted me a full 30 minutes. I spoke up and he started giving the excuse that "the session ends when the client cums". I could also see in his demeanor he didn't care one bit whether I would return or not after this. I did pay the full amount. I'm sad (and also frustrated because our first couple of sessions were really good).

It's jarring when an escort drops the act... When they really show how little they care about you as a person. Even to the point of not respecting my time nor my money. 

It's the second time this has happened... Another regular started doing the exact same thing. First sessions he didn't watch the clock, amazing sex. Then he started trying to get me out the door in under 30 minutes and collect payment for the hour. It felt like they started to treat me as an ATM. 

I think I'm going to stop hiring for a while. 

 

[DWnyc]

The last example you have is fact based. Isn’t it worth sharing details of the provider for the community?

If the provider wishes to challenge your account he can do so …

[Wolfer]

4 minutes ago, DWnyc said:

The last example you have is fact based. Isn’t it worth sharing details of the provider for the community?

If the provider wishes to challenge your account he can do so …

I think I'm only one of two clients who hires in Brussels that are active on these forums so I'm not sure if it would be relevant. The last one I mentioned has retired. 

Neither have been active on these forums. 

Edited April 3, 2023 by Wolfer

[+ tassojunior]

i thought Brussels was mostly traveling guys. 

[DWnyc]

We frequently hear that donations are not for services but for time. 

If you’re not even receiving that or any compensation, it’s an issue that needs to be publicized as that’s the only way to address this unprofessionalism. And it would send a signal to others in more relevant geographies that there is recourse that clients can access.

Otherwise, with due respect, you’re just venting and that doesn’t help anyone.

[Wolfer]

52 minutes ago, DWnyc said:

, with due respect, you’re just venting and that doesn’t help anyone.

I mean, it helps me relief emotional stress 😁

But sure, here's his ad:

https://www.romeo.com/hunq/Hot_man

 

[Wolfer]

1 hour ago, tassojunior said:

i thought Brussels was mostly traveling guys. 

True, though there a handful of more permanent residents.

[dbar123]

2 hours ago, Wolfer said:

Because every subsequent session he kept on shorting the time more and more and being distracted during the session. The previous session (that he shorted) I had said I wanted to stay the full hour. He promised me next time. 

The next session he shorted me a full 30 minutes. I spoke up and he started giving the excuse that "the session ends when the client cums". I could also see in his demeanor he didn't care one bit whether I would return or not after this. I did pay the full amount. I'm sad (and also frustrated because our first couple of sessions were really good).

It's jarring when an escort drops the act... When they really show how little they care about you as a person. Even to the point of not respecting my time nor my money. 

It's the second time this has happened... Another regular started doing the exact same thing. First sessions he didn't watch the clock, amazing sex. Then he started trying to get me out the door in under 30 minutes and collect payment for the hour. It felt like they started to treat me as an ATM. 

I think I'm going to stop hiring for a while. 

 

Your “ex-provider” sees you as just an ATM machine. Definitely time to move on. Sorry that this happened to you. As a regular you should be getting better treatment as time goes on, not the junior varsity bullshit.

[DBWEHO]

3 hours ago, Wolfer said:

Because every subsequent session he kept on shorting the time more and more and being distracted during the session. The previous session (that he shorted) I had said I wanted to stay the full hour. He promised me next time. 

The next session he shorted me a full 30 minutes. I spoke up and he started giving the excuse that "the session ends when the client cums". I could also see in his demeanor he didn't care one bit whether I would return or not after this. I did pay the full amount. I'm sad (and also frustrated because our first couple of sessions were really good).

It's jarring when an escort drops the act... When they really show how little they care about you as a person. Even to the point of not respecting my time nor my money. 

It's the second time this has happened... Another regular started doing the exact same thing. First sessions he didn't watch the clock, amazing sex. Then he started trying to get me out the door in under 30 minutes and collect payment for the hour. It felt like they started to treat me as an ATM. 

I think I'm going to stop hiring for a while. 

 

A similar thing happened to me. I saw someone (won't say who, but in LA, with a 10.5 inch cock...seriously), had a nice time, $350 for the hour, as I recall. I decided  to see him again, when I got there he told me that his rate had gone up to 500, but that he'd charge me 400, as I had been there before, and he was going to switch to just doing OnlyFans. Anyway, I only got a 1/2 hour ( a 10+ inches will do that to me). 

I had banged my shin pretty badly a couple of weeks before, so he freaks out,, and demands to know if I have monkeypox . I calmed him down, but the whole thing was weird . 

I won't be seeing him again, which is a shame, because two of my regulars, or I should say my two regulars, have both left town.