marylander1940 Posted December 29, 2024 Posted December 29, 2024 20 minutes ago, Walt said: Most excellent service and/or hospitality providers (lawyers, restaurants. architects, doctors, boutique hoteliers, etc.) are always looking for ways to cut out clients who are potentially difficult -- including those clients who can't stop themselves from asking questions when the "rules" of the game are stated clearly. Note I wrote excellent. If a provider is excellent, their calendar/schedule is full, and they are very busy, very selective, and simply don't need hassles. I hope @Archangel won't think the 2 of us are "endless apologists for escorts". Btw you've made a great point but in this case the escort has proven to be easily irritable.
Callas Posted December 29, 2024 Posted December 29, 2024 I watched many of his videos, but don’t think he is that great as many of you said. Maybe, watching is very different from experiencing it in real life. but too hard to book an apt
+ BenjaminNicholas Posted December 29, 2024 Posted December 29, 2024 (edited) 50 minutes ago, Callas said: I watched many of his videos, but don’t think he is that great as many of you said. Maybe, watching is very different from experiencing it in real life. You can't judge a Broadway musical from a bootleg. You're entitled to an opinion, but that doesn't make it valid based on the circumstance. Edited December 29, 2024 by BenjaminNicholas pubic_assistance, marylander1940, guru68 and 2 others 1 1 2 1
Archangel Posted December 30, 2024 Posted December 30, 2024 21 hours ago, marylander1940 said: I hope @Archangel won't think the 2 of us are "endless apologists for escorts". Btw you've made a great point but in this case the escort has proven to be easily irritable. Why did you loop me into this? marylander1940 and pubic_assistance 1 1
Archangel Posted December 30, 2024 Posted December 30, 2024 The nature of excellence is that it’s limited. Few services are excellent. The mean is average. You can’t demand premium treatment if what you’re offering isn’t premium comparatively speaking. N. B. “A great time” ≠ “an excellent time” Excellence implies exceptionality. BuzzLiteQueer, marylander1940 and BonVivant 1 1 1
Hungbig9 Posted December 31, 2024 Posted December 31, 2024 On 12/28/2024 at 10:53 PM, Walt said: Most excellent service and/or hospitality providers (lawyers, restaurants. architects, doctors, boutique hoteliers, etc.) are always looking for ways to cut out clients who are potentially difficult -- including those clients who can't stop themselves from asking questions when the "rules" of the game are stated clearly. Note I wrote excellent. If a provider is excellent, their calendar/schedule is full, and they are very busy, very selective, and simply don't need hassles. Sorry, but there’s a fine line. Even if you are fully booked, the way you handle interactions is what maintains your longevity - both in your examples and escorting. For people who are spending the money on overnights, something should click in your head that they deserve a higher consideration. And as hot as he is, someone with that much of a disconnect to decent behavior is a major turn off. i see him all over Grindr in nyc these days, so I actually think a lot of it is that he’s single and doing a lot more casual fucking. Which is fine, but makes it even more obnoxious that his interactions with clients is so flippant. + Worthington45, builder boy, ericwinters and 2 others 3 2
Fidler Posted December 31, 2024 Posted December 31, 2024 I wonder if he broke up with his longtime partner Joey and if that explains some of the behavior. I see their only fans site is down. BonVivant and ericwinters 1 1
pubic_assistance Posted December 31, 2024 Posted December 31, 2024 6 hours ago, Hungbig9 said: I see him all over Grindr in nyc these days, so I actually think a lot of it is that he’s single and doing a lot more casual fucking. There are lots of people who use Grindr as an additional platform for escorting. I've had more than one handsome fellow hit me up on Grindr. The routine is always the same. Calling me "daddy" and telling me how hot I am...then when you suggest a meet, the price list gets posted. BonVivant and + Italiano 1 1
Hungbig9 Posted December 31, 2024 Posted December 31, 2024 3 hours ago, pubic_assistance said: There are lots of people who use Grindr as an additional platform for escorting. I've had more than one handsome fellow hit me up on Grindr. The routine is always the same. Calling me "daddy" and telling me how hot I am...then when you suggest a meet, the price list gets posted. Sure. It may be supplemental, it is definitely not the primary reason he’s there. I have a big dick and run into the same bottoms he’s fucked. And the wording of his ad is for fun not work. But sure, he probably gets some residual offers. Fidler 1
dutchal Posted January 2 Posted January 2 On 12/27/2024 at 6:47 PM, gopochi said: BradleyBlack - Pornstar Performer, Rentboy, Gay Massage in Gainesville, FL | RentMen RENTMEN.EU Pornstar Performer & Rentboy in Gainesville, FL - BradleyBlack: Hello from the Capital Ad says he's 63.
ericwinters Posted January 2 Posted January 2 I'm fairly certain his bf Joey is why he stopped communicating with me. If I recall, his was a bit on the histrionic side.
+ BenjaminNicholas Posted January 2 Posted January 2 2 hours ago, dutchal said: Ad says he's 63. Looks damned good for an sexagenarian gopochi, ericwinters and Smokey 1 2
guru68 Posted January 2 Posted January 2 37 minutes ago, BenjaminNicholas said: Looks damned good for an sexagenarian I would suggest a rimshot, but I don't know if he's into that.
demetriuentipat Posted January 4 Posted January 4 Auto response: “Hey it’s Cooper! Rates for Incall / Outcall / Overnight = 450 / 500+/ 2000.” Fidler 1
+ BenjaminNicholas Posted January 4 Posted January 4 2 hours ago, demetriuentipat said: Auto response: “Hey it’s Cooper! Rates for Incall / Outcall / Overnight = 450 / 500+/ 2000.” It's a smart rate structure. Charge more for the turn-and-burn time frame. Keep overnights reasonable. ericwinters, former lurker, BCMan and 1 other 4
demetriuentipat Posted January 4 Posted January 4 6 hours ago, BenjaminNicholas said: It's a smart rate structure. Charge more for the turn-and-burn time frame. Keep overnights reasonable. Hard pass: “I offer full service for extended sessions, but not at the hourly.”
+ BenjaminNicholas Posted January 5 Posted January 5 1 hour ago, demetriuentipat said: Hard pass: “I offer full service for extended sessions, but not at the hourly.” When you have a full dance card, you have the luxury of picking & choosing what suits you best. Good for him for knowing what works for him. Consequently, a client can make their decision if he's the escort for them. Everyone wins. demetriuentipat, mike carey and BCMan 1 2
BuzzLiteQueer Posted January 5 Posted January 5 (edited) 15 hours ago, BenjaminNicholas said: When you have a full dance card, you have the luxury of picking & choosing what suits you best. IMHO, if that's his attitude, he won't have a full dance card for long. And then it's a race to the bottom. Edited January 5 by BuzzLiteQueer grammatical error builder boy and Fidler 2
Niceguyfinishedlast Posted January 14 Posted January 14 Has anyone actually seen Cooper since his return? He was always wonderful to be with and I was curious if he is actually seeing people.
Andy2 Posted January 14 Posted January 14 I made a date with him, but he ghosted me. Not entirely surprising in light of earlier comments in this thread.
gopochi Posted January 14 Posted January 14 3 minutes ago, Andy2 said: I made a date with him, but he ghosted me. Not entirely surprising in light of earlier comments in this thread. Exactly. My issue with Cooper's approach (and an "everyone wins" attitude) is that people like him would not be willing to accept the same behavior they dish out. Do you think, minutes before an overnight began, someone like Cooper would accept the client saying "by the way, I'm only going to pay 60% of what we agreed. See you soon." ericwinters, builder boy, BuzzLiteQueer and 1 other 2 1 1
ericwinters Posted January 14 Posted January 14 5 hours ago, gopochi said: Exactly. My issue with Cooper's approach (and an "everyone wins" attitude) is that people like him would not be willing to accept the same behavior they dish out. Do you think, minutes before an overnight began, someone like Cooper would accept the client saying "by the way, I'm only going to pay 60% of what we agreed. See you soon." He'd be pissed! builder boy 1
Hungbig9 Posted January 17 Posted January 17 On 1/4/2025 at 9:26 PM, BuzzLiteQueer said: IMHO, if that's his attitude, he won't have a full dance card for long. And then it's a race to the bottom. It’s mainly my commentary about him. And I always hope people like him learn that lesson the extremely hard way - because it’s what they deserve. Life is a two way street.
+ BenjaminNicholas Posted January 17 Posted January 17 1 hour ago, Hungbig9 said: And I always hope people like him learn that lesson the extremely hard way Eh. Wishing bad for people is just as shitty. He'll either learn or he won't. Just walk away from it. No use in being angry. Be the bigger person. + jgkarma, + José Soplanucas, guru68 and 4 others 2 1 4
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