How to find a regular provider in LA

[ArbyLA]

Hello,

I could use a provider’s help.  I’m looking to find a regular provider and don’t want to search for a new person each week.  Providers seem to move around a lot! Could you please provide your input on how to find you?

Also, please tell me about tipping.  If I’m paying $300 an hour, and I usually go 2, is a tip expected on top of the $600?  Should I discuss this with each new provider or ?  Thank you for your help!

 

[Rod Hagen]

There are some LA providers who stay put for decades :-)

[acks0104]

You can easily find a lot of "regular" providers through rentmen. The thing is, there's absolutely no guarantee that any one person will be in the business for a specific length of time. We also have no idea as to what your type is, what physical or personality attributes you're looking for, or the amount of time you're looking to spend regularly with that person.

Your best bet will be to do some research on rentmen and then ask about specific guys you're interested in here, or reach out to them to schedule a session. From there you can always ask them if they'd be open to scheduled sessions.

[Xavitv]

Maybe have a separate thread on tipping would get more replies

[jeezifonly]

So you want to pay somebody 600/wk (maybe more w tip) for 2 hrs of their time???

That alone increases your odds. But if it’s meant to be, there will have to be chemistry. Start at the beginning. Hire a single session with one who ticks the boxes. Be on time and be yourself. 

[+ DrownedBoy]

I have 2-3 providers at any one time. I prefer local ones who have good availability. I try to keep it simple:

1. I look for providers who act professionally. This means they're honest, generally on time (and letting me know if they can't be), and are able to satisfy one or more of my physical needs without adding an emotional component. I am likewise honest and punctual for them.
2. We have a honest but respectful mutual understanding that this is a regular business relationship, and treat it as such. I don't tip very often, but they can expect extra monetary gifts at the holidays. Likewise, providers usually have a plan to "retire" after a few years, and I make sure I respect both their current work and future plans.
3. I treat such providers as "guests" when they visit, granting them a lot of social prerogatives when we're together. I act like a good host, and they don't abuse the status (not all escorts are that scrupulous).
4. I make sure to see a regular, at the very least, once every 2 months.

 

I'm afraid many escorts are very unprofessional, especially younger ones, and demonstrate entitlement, rudeness, and carelessness. When a regular has done this to me, I've dropped them on the spot.

[ArbyLA]

On 1/29/2023 at 3:07 PM, DrownedBoy said:

I have 2-3 providers at any one time. I prefer local ones who have good availability. I try to keep it simple:

1. I look for providers who act professionally. This means they're honest, generally on time (and letting me know if they can't be), and are able to satisfy one or more of my physical needs without adding an emotional component. I am likewise honest and punctual for them.
2. We have a honest but respectful mutual understanding that this is a regular business relationship, and treat it as such. I don't tip very often, but they can expect extra monetary gifts at the holidays. Likewise, providers usually have a plan to "retire" after a few years, and I make sure I respect both their current work and future plans.
3. I treat such providers as "guests" when they visit, granting them a lot of social prerogatives when we're together. I act like a good host, and they don't abuse the status (not all escorts are that scrupulous).
4. I make sure to see a regular, at the very least, once every 2 months.

 

I'm afraid many escorts are very unprofessional, especially younger ones, and demonstrate entitlement, rudeness, and carelessness. When a regular has done this to me, I've dropped them on the spot.

 

[ArbyLA]

Thank you!  I appreciate your advice and the time you took to write it.