Long term clients

[foxy]

Do you try to build up a client base of regulars? Do you let clients know you would like to see them again (assuming you had a good time) or does seeing the same old faces get boring? You don't have to answer that part.

[Prime Muscle]

Most of my clients are repeat and long-term. When in town (Kansas City), I generally prefer regular clients and will give them preference. Many are from out of the KC area and get here for business. I also have regular clients in other cities - flights to Chicago are less than $75.

[SAdler]

Regular Clients are always the ideal. I'll go months without taking new clients because there's no need. If you're already comfortable with someone and you both know what each other like, it's an awesome symbiotic relationship that needs no exploration.

 

Good points for me are that safety isn't an issue and I know they're going to pay without question. Good points for my clients is that rates can be randomly discounted, not that I'm Costco or anything

 

Only downside I've ever found was the occasional guy who psychologically turned our meetings into a relationship. Aside from just friendly chatting he took it to a different level and started being obsessive and posessive; I call it Moulin Rouge Complex.

 

c'est la vie!

[LovesYng]

I love the idea of seeing repeat escorts, we get to know each other. It's rough when I see someone new, you don't know each other as well as you know a regular escort. I see about a total of six regulars when they travel around or I fly to see them, it saves a lot of down time when seeing a new escort. Now this does not mean I won't see someone new, it always a adventure with a new guy :9

 

When in doubt I whip it out :+

[Guest jeffOH]

After over 13 years of working as an escort and entering semi-retirement, I'm now seeing mostly regulars. My most regular client is weekly and I've been seeing him for 12 years. Most of my other regulars are guys I've been seeing for several years or more. I like seeing the same guys regularly. I always try to "change up" the routine by introducing something new so I don't get bored. Even if some clients do prefer the exact same thing over and over, there's always some little thing that can keep it fresh. Otherwise, I'll catch myself going on auto-escort and saying things like, "Oh yeah, suck that cock...while the client's eating my ass," oops!

[Traveler North]

Agree that seeing long term escorts is great. Have one regular who I have been seeing for five years. See him at my northern place and go to his place about 100 miles away. In winter he comes to my Florida place for several days. Have gotten to know him real well.

He is always safe and devoted to physical fitness and good nutrition. Has given me many pointers on these matters. Know his life well and he mine. We are, in short, real friends. Chat often online and talk on phone. While I occasionaly see other escorts, he is my special guy. :D

[HotdadENYC]

Yeah, I know that regular meetings are almost always the best, since you're familiar, might get a price discount, and there' that comfort factor that means so much.

 

However, for clients, don't you just hop at the opportunity when you see a new escort listed ? Someone who is NOT bogus, but really is the type of guy you want to be with?

 

For escorts, while I recognize that you appreciate your "regular" guys, doesn't it ever occur to you to take on or seek out a new client, because the thrill is just too much to ignore?

 

Well, I suppose we'll get some good reponses to this ! At least I hope.

 

Regards,

 

hd NYC

[Argos]

Jeff:

 

Do you give the long term regulars a discount or do they pay your standard rate?

[tedbear]

>Do you give the long term regulars a discount or do they pay

>your standard rate?

 

I've had several regular escorts raise their rates for their new clients while making a point of telling me they never raise their rates for their regulars, but they always ask me not to share that with others. I suspect that they might pass increased rates on to some regulars, but not those those they enjoy being with.

[Txpaytoplay]

I have been seeing one escort for nearly three years now. I have seen other escorts but I think I enjoy the sex better with the one more than the others because of the comfort level and commeraderie. I see the one every other month for an evening and we usually talk/text each other once a week or so. At least once a year we get together for an entire weekend and go somewhere and do something fun. He remembers my Birthday, and I also receive a gift at Christmas....totally unexpected. I consider him a friend and feel like he considers me one as well. No, I am not delusional, it is what it is, and it rather pleasantly suits my needs. I guess what I am saying is, for me I have enjoyed seeing someone on a regular basis.

[Vincent_Michael]

I like seeing regular clients over and over again as I find the sex always gets better all the time...Not to mention the time we do spend together is more than a first time get together but more a reunion of old friends. However I do keep the same rate always and never change it once I quote someone a figure.

[Guest bibud4him]

As a client, I am pretty new to the whole escort experience. I have only seen one escort, and that has been several times over the past year. I could care less about seeing anyone else. He is top-quality, but rock-bottom cheap...he gave me a huge discount starting with the first meeting, and it keeps getting lower, next to nothing now. We hit it off and have become very close friends, emailing and talking on the phone almost daily. I know his "true" identity, and a lot of information I know he has never shared with another client. In fact, he refuses to use that word with me. I would even say a real relationship could develop from this in time; though we both have been hurt in the past and we're afraid to admit this just yet. But I am quite sure most escorts do develop friendships and those relationships play a part in their rates and how they manage clientele.

[JamesK840]

>Good points for my

>clients is that rates can be randomly discounted, not that I'm

>Costco or anything

 

How do you handle this though, and if you don't mind, is it more based on being horny or other con$iderations?

 

Contacting out of the blue and offering a real discount is great!

 

I'm so very tired of pleas (several a week at the moment) from a far less professional escort telling me about his deteriorating financial situation (nothing most of us haven't heard before), oh and he has a great bargain for me: half the service for half the price! Yeah, I'll be right over...

[PacNW]

When do you pay him? On the overnights and the weekends, and then cover all the expenses when you're together? Does he chip in some times?

 

This isn't leading to anything judgmental. It seems you keep it in perspective just fine. It sounds to me like a great situation and I'm just curious on how the "business" aspects of it work out.

[Guest jeffOH]

>Jeff:

>

>Do you give the long term regulars a discount or do they pay

>your standard rate?

 

Most are paying whatever the going rate was at our initial meeting, which runs $100-150/hr and a couple have kindly offered to pay my new rate after having seen it advertised.

[HotdadENYC]

Hey Jeff, your postings were good, but didn't give some of us a lot of info about YOU.

 

NY is not THAT far from Ohio.

 

Send me a website or some pics or some more info; I'd definitely been into taking my Audi on the road, if the cause is worth it.

 

Regards,

 

hd NYC

[noviceny]

>However, for clients, don't you just hop at the opportunity when you see a new escort listed ? Someone who is NOT bogus, but really is the type of guy you want to be with?<

 

The best thing that I have learned from my 6 month crash course in escorts is that I would like to have some guy in my life who has nothing to do with money. At first, I thought I was just looking for fun...it turned out that was exactly what I was looking for, and to experiment with the same sex. As time goes by, I find that I have a hard time giving someone money to be with. I have always given freely of myself and my expertise...probably why my private practice didnt do so well.

 

I am definitely not saying that people shouldnt escort or that people shouldnt pay escorts. I am saying that for me, the time is coming to stop experimenting and begin the actual test of life.

 

BTW, yes I get excited at a new escort (usually just the pic), but I would love to be excited by a relationship that is comfortable and fits well and that stands the test of time.

[HotdadENYC]

>As a client, I am pretty new to the whole escort experience.

>I have only seen one escort, and that has been several times

>over the past year. I could care less about seeing anyone

>else. He is top-quality, but rock-bottom cheap...he gave me a

>huge discount starting with the first meeting, and it keeps

>getting lower, next to nothing now. We hit it off and have

>become very close friends, emailing and talking on the phone

>almost daily. I know his "true" identity, and a lot of

>information I know he has never shared with another client.

>In fact, he refuses to use that word with me. I would even

>say a real relationship could develop from this in time;

>though we both have been hurt in the past and we're afraid to

>admit this just yet. But I am quite sure most escorts do

>develop friendships and those relationships play a part in

>their rates and how they manage clientele.

 

 

Absolutely f**king sweet, dude; Congratulations ! ! !

[Swiss Lumber]

I have a close friend who was hooked with this young escort and started seeing him once a month, then twice a month- until the business relationship evolved into something more beautiful. They'd been together for more than 3 years now ..and still there!

[SAdler]

"half the service for half the price!"

 

LOL. Now perhaps there is some way I can explain what it's like from my point of view when someone tried to bargain with me! Sorry, found that amusing.

 

Two examples:

 

1. I see a couple regularly every week. That would get VERY expensive monthly, annually, etc. After I was sure that they would be seeing me semi regularly and it wasn't a once in a while deal, I offered to have a fluctuating price. Every other time they pay full price, the other sessions they'll pay $50-$75 less.

 

2. If someone can guarantee at least two to three meetings per month, I'll meet with them the full amount the first time, and then the second time the rate will be a GREAT deal less to balance out a per meeting average.

[SAdler]

"Even if some clients do prefer the exact same thing over and over, there's always some little thing that can keep it fresh. Otherwise, I'll catch myself going on auto-escort and saying things like, "Oh yeah, suck that cock...while the client's eating my ass," oops!"

 

I fell on the floor laughing at Starbucks. That was hillarious.

[shy]

>As a client, I am pretty new to the whole escort experience.

>I have only seen one escort, and that has been several times

>over the past year......... But I am quite sure most escorts do

>develop friendships and those relationships play a part in

>their rates and how they manage clientele.

 

 

your example sounds great; but, i'm curious how, only seeing one escort, you can make the huge leap from your limited experience to being sure what happens with most escorts and their relationships with clients. if you are a former excort, it's easier for me to understand, i guess, but otherwise you're doing a lot of projecting about your particular situation.

[+ bigjoey]

i like the relationships that develop when hiring an escort on a regular basis. i have been hiring jon ramsey for 9 years and we do 6 or 7 weekends together each year; we are very comfortable with each other and he knows most of my friends and family so he fits right in when he comes to visit; we are comfortable with each other and that makes the sex even better than going through the learning process with a new person. because he knows me well, he has helped me develop as a gay man and many of my gay friends are the result of jon.

 

one strange thing not mentioned in the thread is that there are several other escorts i see regularly that have "retired". one is straight and i am the only client he sees (from our first meeting, we felt comfortable with each other and that comfort level continues to this day; because he is so comfortable with himself and who he is, he enjoys our sex together). another is bi and i am one of two men he still sees; otherwise, he has a career and a "real" life. others, i became friends with and we still see each other, talk, write, etc.; it is nice to know that after the money stopped we all became part of each others lives. these are the type of things that can happen from a regular client/escort relationship.

[FrancoDiSantisxxx]

Seisin

 

>i like the relationships that develop when hiring an escort

>on a regular basis. i have been hiring jon ramsey for 9 years

>and we do 6 or 7 weekends together each year; we are very

>comfortable with each other and he knows most of my friends

>and family so he fits right in when he comes to visit; we are

>comfortable with each other and that makes the sex even better

>than going through the learning process with a new person.

>because he knows me well, he has helped me develop as a gay

>man and many of my gay friends are the result of jon.

 

I will spare most of you the details but I sent a detail message to Lucky's in box with my own versions of this tail PLUS the threads where I initially discussed them.

 

Some men like variety. Some like the new, flashy and want to try out the flavor of the month. There is a good reason why all those flashy, bright, loud, new men's magazines are full of reviews of the latest THING that a man MUST acquire to be a man.

 

Other men do like the familiar and generally, we all dislike change. I think Jeff hit it on the head when he said it is important to change things around, for both the escort and the client. On the other hand, just like in any long term relationship, you get to really know your partner, what pleases him and vice versa.

 

>one strange thing not mentioned in the thread is that there

>are several other escorts i see regularly that have "retired".

>...

>it is nice to know that after the money stopped we all

>became part of each others lives. these are the type of things

>that can happen from a regular client/escort relationship.

 

As I have written in the past there are a number of former clients I stay in touch with and a number of clients with whom I have a relationship outside a "client/escort" meeting basis. It makes perfect sense to me, as well as these particular clients. However, it might not make sense to some escorts and certainly to some clients.

 

 

http://www.gaydar.co.uk/francodisantis

[+ Lucky]

RE: Seisin

 

So far, Franco gets my vote for Escort of the Year.