Am I gay?

[+ José Soplanucas]

[Marc in Calif]

On 12/5/2022 at 2:45 PM, jessmapex said:

I am happy to play in the backyard and finish there only.

Does "play" include fucking? Or just oral stimulation?

Edited December 17, 2022 by Marc in Calif

[+ friendofsheila]

Am I gay?

 

If what you want is always attached to aman and not a woman, I'd say "yes".

[Redwine56]

On 12/5/2022 at 9:35 PM, Unicorn said:

You're definitely not alone when it comes to gay men not terribly interested in penises (especially large ones). I'm much more interested in a muscular build and a handsome face. I prefer smaller penises because they're easier to suck. I had a Paraguayan partner for 2 years who had a smaller cock I adored. I'd always come on to him by asking him to give me his "jarabe de amor" (love juice). 😄😋

These guys are tall, built, handsome but for their structure have small penises.  I'd bet they're self conscious of their size.  They could also be growers and surprise when aroused.  As they say it's "the motion of the ocean" and not necessarily the size.  I will admit that a larger sized penis gets me aroused very quickly.  Then it does matter who it is attached to.  😉

[dbar123]

Whether you’re gay or not…in this day and age does it really matter?

Nothing is all that digital….or certain. And your feelings will evolve in snapshots of time.

Live and enjoy for today

[+ jessmapex]

18 hours ago, dbar123 said:

Whether you’re gay or not…in this day and age does it really matter?

Nothing is all that digital….or certain. And your feelings will evolve in snapshots of time.

Live and enjoy for today

It does not matter. I was just curious about where I fall on the sexuality spectrum as someone who is labeled as 'gay', but does not meet the main sexual criterion of that label - attraction toward a penis. That's it. Just something to talk about.

[Guest]

1 hour ago, jessmapex said:

... does not meet the main sexual criterion of that label - attraction toward a penis. That's it. Just something to talk about.

I would strongly disagree that the main sexual criterion is attraction towards a penis. I'm 100% gay--extremely attracted to handsome men, and zero attraction to what are considered the most beautiful women. What attracts me to a man is a muscular build, hard pecs, beefy arms, washboard abs, etc. I see a gogo dancer and I immediately look at his body. I have almost no interest in the penis. Trans men without bottom surgery can be extremely attractive to me. Laith Ashley immediately comes to mind as a trans man who looks extremely attractive (and masculine) to me--though he's apparently completely heterosexual. 

Edited December 22, 2022 by Unicorn

[Guest]

No penis, no problem:

 

Edited December 22, 2022 by Unicorn

[+ WilliamM]

35 minutes ago, Unicorn said:

I would strongly disagree that the main sexual criterion is attraction towards a penis. I'm 100% gay--extremely attracted to handsome men, and zero attraction to what are considered the most beautiful women. What attracts me to a man is a muscular build, hard pecs, beefy arms, washboard abs, etc. I see a gogo dancer and I immediately look at his body. I have almost no interest in the penis. Trans men without bottom surgery can be extremely attractive to me. Laith Ashley immediately comes to mind as a trans man who looks extremely attractive (and masculine) to me--though he's apparently completely heterosexual. 

None of that matters , if the man doesn't have a good sense of humor about himself

[pubic_assistance]

55 minutes ago, Unicorn said:

Trans men without bottom surgery can be extremely attractive to me. Laith Ashley immediately comes to mind as a trans man who looks extremely attractive 

 

 

I agree. He's hot 🔥. 

[Guest]

On 12/7/2022 at 2:24 AM, pubic_assistance said:

.... I'm a dim the lights kinda guy no matter who I'm with.

I feel a song coming on.