What the escort enjoys

[Epigonos]

It is equally important to me that the escort with whom I am spending time enjoys what I am doing to him as much as I enjoy what he is doing to me. Is this a legitimate expectation and if so how does one convey ones sincerity regarding this matter. Sometimes I get the impression when I mention this the escsort isn't really convinced.

[Guest skrubber]

I agree whole heartedly. It is important to me that the escort enjoys his time with me as well.

[ted]

I concur-I usually ask and most respond with legit answers. Its usually pretty obvious when you hit the right spot. :-) Since I usually do somewhat longer appointments I usually also ask about their preferences as far as food, music, and or shows and see if there's something we both would enjoy going on-there usually is.

[FrancoDiSantisxxx]

A Boy's Best Friend

 

This topic has been brought up before, within the last few years. Most of the escorts who responded on here gave a variety of replies, which ranged from one who admited (to paraphrase) that he enjoyed getting paid for sex and what came beforehand was of little consequence. The turn on was the payment, it was not even the amount of the payment. Jeff of Ohio stated that he was often so attuned to the pleasure of his clients that he did not think about his own needs. Generally, that was the thrust of most escorts, although some can and do enjoy very specific things.

 

I think the best responses in that thread and here thus far are to ask. I am certain a client can tell if the response, when actually performed, arrives at the desired response upon performance.

[+ Lucky]

RE: A Boy's Best Friend

 

"I am certain a client can tell if the response, when actually performed, arrives at the desired response upon performance."

 

Whereas the escort, whom has to heretofore performed as requested, may yet adduce that the client indeed considered and cared about the aforesaid person's physical, as well as mental, and perhaps, if not too presumptive, his spiritual, considerations during the said act or activity, notwithstanding any proferred intent by the client, expressed or implied...

[+ deej]

RE: A Boy's Best Friend

 

You forgot to use the words alleged and illicit.

 

Otherwise, I give it 8 out of 10, and don't EVEN go for that extra tenth the Japanese judge should have given. :o

[Ignoto]

I'm somewhat naive, so I thought the whole idea was that the escort enjoyed collecting cash before leaving.

 

However, I will admit that it is more enjoyable if he manages to remain hard throughout the experience, and especially if he finishes by shooting a load. To accomplish those objectives, if he needs to close his eyes and imagine he's with Tom Cruise, I'm willing to do a lot of things that he would imagine Tom Cruise doing.

[FrancoDiSantisxxx]

It's not east being green

 

>Whereas the escort, whom has to heretofore performed

 

perform, not "performed"

 

>as requested, may yet adduce

 

\Ad*duce"\, v. t. {Adducing}. To bring forward or offer, as an argument, passage, or

consideration which bears on a statement or case; to cite; to

allege.

 

>if not too presumptive, his spiritual, considerations

 

no comma required here

 

>or implied...

>

 

you need one more period.

 

5.25 out of 10

[Guest zipperzone]

RE: It's not east being green

 

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>>Whereas the escort, whom has to heretofore performed

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>perform, not "performed"

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>>as requested, may yet adduce

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>\Ad*duce"\, v. t. {Adducing}. To bring forward or offer, as an

>argument, passage, or

>consideration which bears on a statement or case; to cite; to

>allege.

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>>if not too presumptive, his spiritual, considerations

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>no comma required here

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>>or implied...

>>

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>you need one more period.

 

Ah.... The Prime of Miss Jean Brodie!

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>5.25 out of 10

[guptasa1]

I know I replied to this once, but it seems to have disappeared! LOL.

 

I too really like to know my escort's having a good time too. It's very important that he's having fun. As to skepticism on the escort's part as to the client's true intentions, I think the best way to prove that you mean it is simply to show him you're for real by treating him right and trying to turn him on too (asking what he likes, doing what feels best to him, etc.) As they say, actions speak louder than words. Eventually he'll figure out you really do want him to have fun too! LOL.

[Juan Vancouver]

The great pleasure of giving pleasure...

 

ONe of the best lessons that I learnt as an escort, was sometime before becoming one...

I was horny as hell, and I called this marvelous escort back home. From the moment he walked into the room, till the moment he left, he made me feel like such an amazing lover... I was absolutely sure that he liked what I was doing, and when he didnt, he would advise trying this or that... until he was moaning like a cat! That totally changed my view about escorting.

 

Now, being an escort, as soon as I meet a client, I try to find the things that turn me on about him. (His eyes, his hands, his cock, his passion, his intelligence... there is always really hot in everyone of us) I instruct him how to give me more pleasure, and I focus on HIS enjoyment as if it was my own.

 

I know how there are escorts who say that they will never "enjoy" with a client, because that makes them feel that they are "protecting" their soul. They go to amazing expenses to fake it, and make them believe that they too are enjoying.

Personally, I believe that if I am not enjoying my work, I should stop doing it right now and find something that I love. I LOVE to have good sex... I LOVE to give pleasure... I LOVE to receive it, and I LOVE to be able to (even for a second) be vulnerable and show my real ability to enjoy, love and passionately be alive.

 

It is good to read that there are clients out there who focus also on the escort's enjoyment. After all, real passion and enjoyment can only occur when both partners are mantaining that fine balance; focusing in the other's as well as in one's pleasure.

 

Happy pleasing!

[Juan Vancouver]

Translation pleeeeaaase....

 

Can you write the short version for the less fortunate whose first language is not english? (Me, evidently)

[FrancoDiSantisxxx]

East Of Eden

 

>short version

 

Lucky faked his last orgasm with me.

[Epigonos]

Thanks to you all, both escorts and clients, for your well thought out responses to my question. It is great to know that there are other clients out there who agree with me and escorts who appreciate the concept of a client wanting to please and escort.

Thanks again

[LovesYng]

I know this is a old thread, nuttin else to do today but look at some of the old ones. I don't know if it's me or not but 95% of the time I know the escort is enjoying what I'm doing to him. I just wish some would read me better and take care of the client, shit ain't that what we are paying for or am I wrong. I know I got the problem of communicating well with escorts and it's something not easy to deal with within me. It always hits me days later that I was thinking with my other head again :-( Maybe some day I'll find the right one..

 

When in doubt I whip it out :+

[BigK]

"I know I got the problem of communicating well with

escorts and it's something not easy to deal with within me. It

always hits me days later that I was thinking with my other

head again :-( Maybe some day I'll find the right one.."

 

 

I know the feeling! x(

[noviceny]

Damn...I guess I never thought of pleasing the escort cause my hires have almost always been straight. I guess I assumed that straight escorts cant really be pleased by gay "sex" or interactions.

 

I think if I had been with more gay or bi escorts, I would have been thinking a bit differently.