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I am expecting an escort at my home for an overnite stay. We never discussed or made any plans regarding how I would meet him at the door. Is it OK to dress in a t-shirt and shorts? Or should I be fully dressed? What would you escorts prefer?

 

EagerBeaver in Podunkville:9

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I recommend you dress based upon how you want your encounter to start. If you're looking to get down and dirty when he first walks in the door, meet him in a towel or a jock strap. If you prefer to sit and have a drink first, wear something causual. If you're looking to go out to dinner or clubbing, wear something for a night out.

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>I am expecting an escort at my home for an overnite stay. We

>never discussed or made any plans regarding how I would meet

>him at the door. Is it OK to dress in a t-shirt and shorts? Or

>should I be fully dressed? What would you escorts prefer?

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>EagerBeaver in Podunkville:9

 

GOOD HEAVENS! I can't believe this isn't covered by Emily Post.

 

I also can't believe that a grown man would be stupid enough to have to ask this question!

 

fukamarine

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RE: How casual should I dress to receive a visiting esc...

 

>If you're looking to get down and dirty when he

>first walks in the door, meet him in a towel or a jock strap.

 

I wouldn't advise any client to do that. When you're meeting someone for the first time, you need at least 5 minutes to get acquainted, establish some sort of connection, no matter how minor. Also, personally, part of the fun is the undressing, the seduction, the sensuality. I haven't really enjoyed those few occasions when I've walked in the door and had someone already naked and shoving his tongue down my throat before I could even say "hello." This is why I don't go to bathhouses or sex clubs or backrooms. Aside from the health concerns, I just don't find it sexy at all. I like to create a mood and that involves soft lighting, no "CNN" blaring in the background, and both of us starting out fully dressed (although, to be honest, I have, on occasion, answered my door in just some sweats, but if I can't break my own rules once in a while, what fun would life be?). ;)

 

Lookin4lust: shorts and T-shirt are just fine.

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Anticipation

 

As with many other questions asked here and elsewhere, there is a great deal of unstated information: while you may have been anticipating this meeting for some time, your escort has had to travel to your home; at minimum, we can safely assume this means something of a drive, perhaps from a nearby town, however, since it could be from the airport in a rental car, you should at least allow some time for both of you to get acquainted and get to know one another.

 

Your escort KNOWS why he is there, he expects that. However, he is not (nor should he be treated as if he is) a machine to turn on at will. Truly, the best answer is, as always, it depends: when you plan the encounter, mutually decide how the evening might go. This does not mean you choreograph every step and stage; it means you have a sense of what is going to or might happen. If you wish to go out, he would need to bring suitable clothes, either by wearing them or packing them. It is also important to make sure you both have the supplies (condom, lube, etc.) that you will need for the evening. You also need to take into account meals and the scheduling of same. The more comfortable you both are, the most pleasant the encounter should be for both of you. There is no harm done in asking and discussing these things, this will minimize any "unpleasant surprises" and/or unmet needs and desires.

 

Finally, most of the clients here would advise not to have a long hire session with an escort you have never met before; it appears from how you have asked the question that this might be the case; if not, if you have met this escort before, dress similarly and suitably as you have in the past.

 

Good luck!

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One of the benefits of an escort appointment as opposed to a conventional date is that some of the usual pretenses can be relaxed a bit. You don't need to try to try to impress the escort so much (unless of course you get off on that!) since, as Franco mentioned, he knows why he's there.

 

But the clothes definitely set the pace if you haven't already arranged things beforehand. If the client greets me fully dressed but we haven't arranged to go out, I'll assume there will be some getting acquainted first. If he's wearing a bathrobe or shorts and tee, well, OK, looks like we're going to get down to business a bit faster.

 

I agree with Rick that undressing can be half the fun, but also know that some guys have a fantasy along the lines of being undressed when the escort arrives. But if that's your fantasy, yes, definitely let the escort know beforehand so he can be ready! And of course it's OK to tell the escort ahead of time what to wear, both so he can prepare for going out, as well if there are certain looks or fantasies that ring your bell....

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>I agree with Rick that undressing can be half the fun, but

>also know that some guys have a fantasy along the lines of

>being undressed when the escort arrives.

 

Good point, Nate. If it's set up in advance, and I know it's a fantasy that the client wants, then I have no problem with it.

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<What would you escorts prefer?

 

The real question is...WHAT do you PREFER?

 

I would prefer that you be wearing a Victoria Secret neglige with a Cher wig on and Ethel Merman Disco album blaring in the background....Oh..sorry...that's my fantasy with RICK.

 

I love guys in suits...or tight jeans and a T. Leather is hot too...not necessarily over the top though...leather jeans and a wife-beater. HMMMMMMMMM...whose fantasy is this after all?

 

I have a question for you...What would you want me to be wearing and/or holding when I cum to the door? DING-DONG....It's your Avon lady....and please...no DING DONG THE WITCH IS GONE jokes.

 

JIM

If it dont fit, force it

btmstudnyc@aol.com

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Pretty much all my experiences thus far as a client, even without communication as to wardrobe, have been the same for both me and the escort - nice but casual dress. My favorite outfit for seeing an escort is the same one I would favor for a casual date or to go to a club. It's a black, short-sleeve, button shirt (with some white ornate patterning along the bottom). In fact, in my previous encounter with an escort, he pointed out unbuttoning the top button would look hotter, and I never thought of it, but I agree with him and do that now. Generally I wear dark socks and then my favorite pair of baggy khaki pants with tons of pockets along with that. I try and go for what I think to be a cute, boyish look. LOL. I do like the idea of being undressed by someone else (and it's sorta happened), but not right at the door or anything...I like to get to know the escort first, and I've never really asked for this - I just kinda like to see where things go first.

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RE: How casual should I dress to receive a visiting esc...

 

Jim,

I'd like you to be wearing loose casual clothing that just hints at your musculature, at least today anyway. Tomorrow it might be leather or silk jogging shorts. The only thing I want you to be holding is a smile on your face.

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RE: How casual should I dress to receive a visiting esc...

 

Thanks to everyone for your replies. I wasn't concerned about etiquette as much as I was with wanting to make the escort as comfortable as possible. I figure the more relaxed and enjoyable I can make it for him, the more enjoyable it will be for me. I am into satisfying top men. An enthusiatic fuck with a grin on his face afterwards puts me over the edge.

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RE: How casual should I dress to receive a visiting esc...

 

Why are you blaming Ethan? He is not the moderator of this forum, and I don't believe trilingual is either. Everyone knows of the looooong history of animosity between you and trilingual, so ask him not Ethan, as to why your posts were deleted/edited and if indeed, if he was responsible for your posts on this thread being deleted.

 

It seems to me that once you know another poster is Jewish, that you attack him on every thread, no matter what the topic, with all kinds of outlandish statements, based only on the fact that the other poster is Jewish. That is why so many feel you are an anti-semite.

 

I don't know what, if any, history there is between you and Ethan, but I really feel that you are out to slam Ethan and to trash his escort business. Given all your posts under all your handles and not knowing that history, I can only conclude that it is because he is Jewish and if Oren, also Zionist. As such, attack the politics and not the man.

 

To continuously attack someone with your anti-Zionism from forum to forum, disregarding the topic under discussion, because you know the poster is Jewish, is a real discredit to someone of your intellect, which makes it doubly defeating as you have a lot of worthy observations that should be read.

 

Just my thoughts, as I really enjoy your posts, but I feel the politics should be kept in the proper forum and should not be used to disagree with another poster's points on a different subject that has nothing to do with politics or religion or be used to assail another's character and especially not used to assail an escort's business practices. I don't see you asking Christian escorts if they wear a cross necklace, so why are you asking a Jewish escort if he wears a yamaulke (sp?) on an appointment?

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RE: How casual should I dress to receive a visiting esc...

 

"As for me, I have never posted simultaneously under two different handles, and never adopted a different handle by choice."

 

Well, duh!, I know this during my time here. I guess I really don't understand the policy of this place? What purpose does it serve to make you change your handle? I just don't get that, as everyone here knows its you, whatever handle you use.

 

I know for damn sure, that I don't agree with everything you post, but I sure as hell support your right to post what you want, without being censored. I love reading your posts anyway, and I have learned a heck of a lot from them and I certainly admire your fortitude to hang in there despite all the obstacles thrown at you. I've always thought of you as intellectual, educated and experienced in a variety of areas, and as such, someone who has/does offer a lot of insight on a variety of topics. I often find myself in agreement with you on some topics (eg. Zionists and BG and sexual vacations, etc.).

 

I can't say, however, that I agree with your zealousness in outing Oren as Ethan. I see no purpose in that except to try to harm Ethan's escort business, as you must feel that those who don't like Oren's zionism thus should be forewarned that they are not hiring Ethan but Oren.

 

I'm sure he isn't/hasn't been the only escort who posts here under two different handles, one for business, and another to participate in the general discussions of the various forums. I don't see anything wrong with that, as most escorts are professional enough to separate their business life from their personal life, just like all of us.

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