Advice for first timer

[Act25]

After fantasizing about it for years I am now actively looking for an escort. This will also be my first time with a man. I'm looking for someone that likes to kiss; thinking that if we start off kissing passion and biology will take over. I worry a little bit about taking his dick into my mouth for the first time or will it be so hot at that point it'll seem perfectly natural. I'm very excited about this but also a little nervous. Any comments, advice, ideas? Thanks.

[Guest HonkingGoose]

It will all come naturally, and you will love it--particularly the first taste of cock!

[Will]

1. Read the reviews here for escorts in your area.

 

2. Pick out a few escorts whose reviews indicate that they have the kind of personality you feel comfortable with. How they actually look will be far less important than how they act when they are with you.

 

3. Contact them via e-mail and be very explicit about this being your first time. From their replies, you will almost certainly be able to tell which is right for you.

 

4. Call the escort of your choice on the telephone. The sound of his voice will either confirm your choice or will suggest that you move to your second choice.

 

5. Make an appointment for two hours. More than that might seem like an eternity, and one hour only will not be long enough for him to do what he'll need to do to get you going.

 

6. When your appointment with the escort begins, let him guide you. He's an expert and will know just how to coach you.

 

7. The next day, make sure you write in and let us know how it went!

[Jay_O]

Great question. You have a couple of firsts - first time with a man, and first time with an escort. Your biggest "first" here is being with another man. Naturally you are nervous, so I think that your nervousness is really all you need to address, so that you can make your move and have the best sex of your life (I don't think I'm exaggerating, based on my personal experiences).

 

You know what? Escorts love men who have never had another man before. Why? Because the electricity, energy, and excitement is always high. Maybe it helps you a little to know that you are a highly sought client, and an extra "special" date.

 

As for finding someone who likes to kiss, simply let the escorts you are interested in know that you want someone who likes to kiss. Also let them know this is your first time. When I hear that, I do go slower at first. You can ask for whatever you want. A few ideas are a backrub first, or have a glass of wine and chat first.

 

Read their reviews on this website first for sure, but also ask any questions you want. If it's important for you, it's not a problem to ask it. Then, when you've found an escort with good reviews, nice pictures (ask to see his face pic if it is not posted), and someone who likes to kiss and do everything you want to try, set a date and go for it!

 

Re: sucking a dick for the first time - it will be very hot and satisfying if this is in your fantasies, and if you like his dick. So ask for a dick pic before you meet. (we like to say dick in Canada)

 

Best wishes!

 

Jay

Vancouver

[Bilbo]

To reduce your anxiety about oral sex, you might try asking the escort to use a condom even in your mouth. There are some nice flavored ones available, which could cut down on any medicene like flavor. I would ask about this with your escort and ask him to provide them, to make sure he gets the right size for his cock.

[duke37]

Jay,

 

Perhaps you are the lucky guy who gets to be the OP's first. His profile says Seattle. Perhaps you ought to email him or better yet put contact info on your profile so we can all take advantage of the source of such a great post.

 

Jeff

[Rick Munroe]

> (we like to

>say dick in Canada)

 

Well, here in America, we prefer to suck it.