Ask The Clients - Wedding Rings

[FrancoDiSantisxxx]

Your escort is in a relationship. He is straight or gay, but coupled. He shows up to your appointment with a wedding band on his finger. How does this effect your experience?

 

Everything goes better with sex.

 

http://www.gaydar.co.uk/francoinLA

[JamesK840]

Not at all. I've only got enough $$$ to pay for sex, not love. No confusion on my part.

 

But I really don't need to hear much about their boyfriend/etc (unless he's also 'for rent'...). :9 In fact, since it's *not* the start of a long lasting romance I insist that I don't need to hear a god-damned thing about an escorts ex!

 

:+

[jasoncarter_dfw]

I have been in a wonderful relationship for almost 3 years. My partner fully supports my escorting, and we love each other very much. A while ago, she gave me a chain with a "dogtag" on it that has a very sweet message containing both of our pet names for each other. I wear it all of the time, even if I am shirtless and sweaty on the dance floor...except when I am spending time with my clients. I take it off not because my partner doesn't mean as much to me at the time, but to make my clients feel comfortable and to maximize their experience. Most of my regular clientele know I am in a relationship and ask how we are doing when I see them. I would think that most escorts would not make a big issue of their relationship unless their client is a steady regular, or if their partner escorts as well. This definately is not an answer to the question per se, but I thought I'd chime in from another escort's perspective.

 

- Jason Carter - Dallas, TX

- jason@sexyjasoncarter.com

- http://www.sexyjasoncarter.com

 

 

>Your escort is in a relationship. He is straight or gay, but

>coupled. He shows up to your appointment with a wedding band

>on his finger. How does this effect your experience?

>

>Everything goes better with sex.

>

>http://www.gaydar.co.uk/francoinLA

[Will]

>very much. A while ago, she gave me a chain with a "dogtag"

>on it that has a very sweet message containing both of our pet

>names for each other.

 

Is "she" a typo? If not, do you advertise yourself as bisexual? I don't see it on your webpage. When clients ask whether or not you have a boyfriend, what do you say, "No, but I have a girlfriend"? If so, has that ever interfered with the business at hand?

 

I know that there are lots of clients who don't care anything about an escort's own sexual orientation. For me that's very hard to fathom, and that's why I wonder how you handle it.

[Will]

It's very strange to me, but I've known lots of men who wear their father's or grandfather's wedding rings but weren't married themselves. These were friends of mine, so I know that they were being perfectly honest. Even so, if an escort showed up wearing what really looked like a wedding ring, it would dampen my enthusiasm: no doubt about it. That's a subjective and unexamined response, but it's truly the way I feel. Somehow, it just seems dishonest, or at least disrespectful to the person who gave the ring. It's also hypocritical of me to mind, but there you are.

[camshaft9]

I don't have a problem with wedding rings, but I do have a problem with cock rings. If you can't keep it up by nature alone, take it someplace else.

[jasoncarter_dfw]

Sorry for the confusion...I am gay and enjoy being with men sexually. My partner does drag, so sometimes I refer to him as "she" in conversation. My apologies for the gender confusion

 

- Jason Carter - Dallas, TX

- jason@sexyjasoncarter.com

- http://www.sexyjasoncarter.com

 

>>very much. A while ago, she gave me a chain with a

>"dogtag"

>>on it that has a very sweet message containing both of our

>pet

>>names for each other.

>

>Is "she" a typo? If not, do you advertise yourself as

>bisexual? I don't see it on your webpage. When clients ask

>whether or not you have a boyfriend, what do you say, "No, but

>I have a girlfriend"? If so, has that ever interfered with

>the business at hand?

>

>I know that there are lots of clients who don't care anything

>about an escort's own sexual orientation. For me that's very

>hard to fathom, and that's why I wonder how you handle it.

[+ deej]

Wouldn't bother me at all. Escorts have lives outside of our brief encounter. To be perfectly honest, I probably wouldn't even notice a wedding band.

 

If his "civilian" relationship interfered with the business at hand I'd likely be bothered as hell, but that's never happened to me.

 

I respect the guys I hire and wish them the best in whatever is important to them. <shrug>

 

Having said that, I can understand how it would be a stumbling block for some clients. I dislike piercings and will ask guys to remove the jewelry before arriving.

 

Like most of the questions asked around here, the answer is "it depends". ;-)

[Guest ncm2169]

< I don't have a problem with wedding rings, but I do have a problem with cock rings >

 

I'll take that a step further. I'm OK with wedding rings, earrings, nipple rings or tongue rings. }( Just keep the genital jewelry at home. x(

[Flower]

>I know that there are lots of clients who don't care anything

>about an escort's own sexual orientation. For me that's very

>hard to fathom, and that's why I wonder how you handle it.

I agree, and was wondering about jasoncarter's post until he cleared it up:+

 

The very few bi guys I have been with were very sad experiences--to the point that gay is the only way for Flower :7

[Guest Throat Poker]

I've realised in reading this thread that I'm SO gay I don't even know how I'd tell the difference between a wedding ring, an engagement ring, or just a ring...is it significant which hand it's on - like the hanky code?

 

I just don't understand these straights and their strange customs....:+

[+ Charlie]

Traditionally, men in America wear wedding rings on the left hand, but in Europe they wear them on the right hand. When I see an American wearing a wedding ring on the right hand, I never know exactly what to think.

[Like2Hire]

I agree about the genital jewelry. I was recently with a guy wearing a PV. His cock didn't get a whole lot of attention from me because I kept gagging trying to chomp down on it with that bothersome pce of metal on it.

 

Now kissing a guy with a tongue stud is another matter.....a totally hot experience for me!

[VaHawk]

Well, it wouldn't bother me at all, unless he started to go into the tiresome old routine about his boyfriend/wife, etc. and that if he wasn't hard up he wouldn't be doing this. As long as he delivers as agreed upon, why should it matter?

 

If it doesn't bother me to be with a married man in a non-escort encounter, I certainly don't think it would bother me in an escort encounter.

[axebahia]

It depends. I draw the line at wedding cock rings! Actually, rings don't bother me, but I don't want to hear about the BF. I used to have a regular Campus cutie with whom I had incredibly passionate sex, and who afterwards lying in my arms would tell me about his deep love for his "un-horny" BF. It never made sense to me.

[LovesYng]

I really don't know why but wedding ring does bother me. After one time years ago I hired a escort, he was very clean but when I went downstairs to play with his tool all I could smell was pussy. He must just came from fucking his wifex( So if I see a wedding ring I put a end to the visit:-(

 

When in doubt I whip it out:+

[Guest Throat Poker]

I know I have said this before but this thread is just confirming for me HOW gay I am ... what does pussy smell like?

 

:+

[Guest ncm2169]

Well, if you must know, the answer is, it depends. ;-)

 

Freshly showered and non-menstrating, it's like any other private body part on either gender. :9

 

Not fresh, it can be...umm...well, "gamey."

 

Menstrating, it can be...umm...ever smelled dead fish? x(

[LovesYng]

>Well, if you must know, the answer is, it depends. ;-)

>

>Freshly showered and non-menstrating, it's like any other

>private body part on either gender. :9

>

>Not fresh, it can be...umm...well, "gamey."

>

>Menstrating, it can be...umm...ever smelled dead fish? x(

 

THANKS ncm2169, I could not say it better. You took the words right out of my mouth:*

 

When in doubt I whip it out:+

[Guest ncm2169]

< You took the words right out of my mouth >

 

Good. Better yet, the aroma will have left as well. }(

[chrismac]

I feel exactly the same way as Will on this one. I didn't think I would, until I ran into the situation myself. I don't know why it put me out a bit, but it did. It was like bringing in something that didn't belong there (in my mind). An advertisement of unavailability. Now of course I know I'm not going to end up in a relationship with the escort - that's not the issue. But I don't need a ring to be there as a safety guard on the escort's part to remind me of the fact.

 

There are several escort pairs (both in the business) around and that doesn't bother me at all (though previously, ironically, I thought that WOULD bother me) - but I guess the ring to me serves as an unspoken warning that I don't feel I need to have communicated to me. I'm sure that's not the reason it's being worn, but my mind just goes there.

[TightBodyTouch]

I know this post is almost a month but I loved all the responses from you guys and feel enlightened because well, quite frankly, I had never given a moment's thought to some of your concerns.

 

I love jewelry! Anyone who has been with me knows that I love to wear at least one piece at any given time and thought I never wear more than one ring on a hand I sometimes have on some kind of choker or wrist cuff as well. Sometimes clients have asked me if a ring was given to me by someone special or for committment reasons and it had never occurred to me that it might be a deterrent or issue among them. Maybe I have been so casual about it because most, if not all of my clients know that I have a bf and that he also escorts. And since I change the jewelry I wear so frequently depending on my mood or to fit the occasion I have often been complimented on what I wear rather than questioned for it. Some clients have even bought me rings because they know how well I like cool jewelry. Every time that I wear one particular ring from a client it gets stuck on my hand for several days and I hurt my finger trying to take it off. I don't think my own bf notices until I ask him to get me some ice lol

 

Good to see that lots of you take notice to a ring or a adornment. With so many different looks it's always hard for me to tell if a ring is specifically a wedding band or just a flair for Cartier.

 

Incidentally, Tiffany is my drug of choice. ahhhhhhhhh!!!

[BuckyXTC]

Initially, Jason, you threw me for a loop until your further explanation. After my incredible meeting with you in August, if you now told us you were straight, I'd be the first to nominate you for "Eighth Wonder of the World"......on second thought, maybe I will anyway.

 

So when will you be coming to Philly again? Inquiring minds want to know!

 

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