Client Rips Off Escort

[jasoncarter_dfw]

I just had my first situation of this sort happen. I am currently visiting Little Rock, AR and was having a great trip until now. A gentleman scheduled a 2pm incall with me this afternoon. He arrived, and immediately after exchanging introductions, placed my fee on the table. (I generally have never required payment up front). We proceed to have a great session together, with both parties being mutually satisfied. We both go to wash up in the shower together. My client gets out before I do and goes in the bedroom of my hotel room to towel off, etc... While I am finishing up in the shower I hear the SLAM of a hotel door. I run into the room to see the client has left, and taken the money off of the counter. By the time I can throw my shorts on and run outside, he is long gone. Now I'm sure everyone agrees that what he did was a despicable act. And, as much as my anger makes me want to publish his name, email address, etc...I am respecting the rules of this message board and not doing so. My question to my collegues is this...has this sort of situation happened to you and how have you handled it? To be honest, I'm just treating it as a lesson learned and moving on. Sitting here and festering over it is not going to make my money appear magically. I sent the client an email asking about my payment. That's about all I can do.

 

- Jason Carter - Dallas, TX

- jason@sexyjasoncarter.com

- http://www.sexyjasoncarter.com

[LovesYng]

Really sorry to hear that Jason, hope this does not change your mind about clients.

 

When in doubt I whip it out:+

[woodlawn]

>While I am finishing up in the shower I

>hear the SLAM of a hotel door. I run into the room to see the

>client has left, and taken the money off of the counter.

> By

>the time I can throw my shorts on and run outside, he is long

>gone. Now I'm sure everyone agrees that what he did was a

>despicable act.

 

 

One question: How do you know it was the client who took the dough?

 

>I sent the client an email asking about my

>payment. That's about all I can do.

 

If you get a response, let us know.

[Luv2play]

In answer to your question, he deduced it, dear. And, unless he spent an hour or so primping in the bathroom, which might have allowed someone surreptiously to enter the room and make off with the loot, it's a pretty logical conclusion to draw. Client gone, money gone. All within a few minutes. In the privacy of the hotel room, where I assume the door was probably locked (most hotel room doors lock automatically when closed). Unless it was the Parliament House in Orlando. In which case, I take it all back!}(

[giovoni]

>One question: How do you know it was the client who took the

>dough?

 

When you hear hoofbeats it's usually horses not zebras. Though to seriously ask this question implies you're thinking of minotaurs when you hear hoofbeats. :+

 

Gio in Denver

http://www.angelfire.com/co3/massagebygio

[giovoni]

Everyone who escorts will have this sort of thing happen to them at one time or another. There truly is nothing you can do except hope that he forgets who you are and tries to reschedule with you at some later date, so you can have some comfort confronting him. I've had one client tell me he didn't expect to pay for my massage thinking that I did it for fun. Another wrapped several one dollar bills inside a 20 and of course I didn't discover this until I was home after the appointment.

 

The one comfort here is that it's a bit self limiting. People can't really get away with this more then once with the same guy and there are far far fewer escorts that a client can see then there are clients that shady escorts can prey on.

 

Also, if you want to feel like you've done a favor to people who may deal with him send his contact information to other escorts in the Little Rock area who are listed on this site. I'm sure none of them would mind a mass emailing from you and would appreciate the heads up. Make sure you include his phone number so it can be added to people's cell phones. I have three numbers in my cell phone for people I will not deal with anymore and it makes it easy to ignore them once I've been warned or burned by someone. Sure people get wise and call you from a pay phone or a new number sometimes but things like this DO cut down on the number of bad situations you and those you warn might run into.

 

 

Gio in Denver

http://www.angelfire.com/co3/massagebygio

[+ deej]

I'm *so* tempted to say "suspend the rules" and post the client's name. I really am.

 

Sadly, we can't do that.

 

Clients who do that deserve and invite the attention, but they won't get it here. Sorry.

[Uncle Bill]

While you can't post the client info here, I suppose that those escorts who work in that area could contact you and get the info "privately" from you.

 

It amazes me that while some clients are worried about actually forgetting to pay or how much to tip (ala some previous threads), others are trying to figure ways to rip off the escort. I wouldn't even think about not paying even the worst guy I've ever hired (luckily for me, even the worst guy wasn't that bad though).

[Guest Merlin]

I have heard of it happening before in another city. Not much you could do to protect yourself. If you had put the money away he probably would have seen were you put it. You might have lost your wallet. If you know his phone unumber, I would call and leave a very specific message on his answering machine. With luck he is married or in a commited relationship.

[tipster]

Jason-

 

Sorry to hear this happened to you. Get your butt back to Dallas so we can get together later this week.

 

I agree with Uncle Bill, I am always concerned I will forget to give the fee to the escort and in fact almost did one time. He was just about out the door when I remembered and the escort hadn't said a word about it. It worked out well for the escort, because I was so embarrassed that I gave him about 50% more than I normally would have.

 

Jason, we all have bad experiences, it's history and a lesson, learn from the lesson and forget it.

 

I'll send you an email about this week.

 

Tipster

[woodlawn]

>In answer to your question, he deduced it, dear. And, unless

>he spent an hour or so primping in the bathroom, which might

>have allowed someone surreptiously to enter the room and make

>off with the loot, it's a pretty logical conclusion to draw.

 

It must have been one hell of a large hotel room if you think it would take an hour or so for someone who entered it to go to where the money was lying, pick it up, return to the door and leave. In any hotel room or suite I've seen it would take less than a minute. And if the client was planning to take the money away with him, why put it out there to begin with? Wouldn't it be more logical for him to keep it in his wallet, since you're a fan of logic?

 

 

>Client gone, money gone. All within a few minutes.In the

>privacy of the hotel room, where I assume the door was

>probably locked (most hotel room doors lock automatically when

>closed).

 

And there is no one in the hotel other than the guest who can open the door, right?

[JamesK840]

In the past, I'd been with two female escorts (I know, heresy! But I had to try it...) who took the money up front then put it away in front of me, where I could see where they put it. Not too bright...

 

Especially since the first one was a really bad experience, demanded more $$ during the session, didn't want to be touched, spent half our short time together in the bathroom... And it was some service thing, where she was probably doing 5-10 a day in her hotel room. So there could have been quite a bit of cash in that nightstand drawer. Only because the service had been so crappy I thought about it, don't get me wrong, not to the point of even being tempted and I'm not sure the thought even occurred to me while I was still in the room.

 

I think the first rule is it's rarely going to be a great experience if you *have* to pay upfront anyway.

 

But if a client does set the contribution out, I'd say take it to another room, maybe find a good place to hide it in the bathroom (behind the tissue, under the trash can, etc...), remember the client may end up in there alone, may grab a towel, etc. Just be sure to get it afterwards or the cleaning people will be very happy! At the least, maybe move it under a magazine when they're not looking...

 

As for the 20 outside a bunch of ones, I've been a little surprised by how hesitant some escorts are to touch the money at all, even after the session. I do now try to at least have the amount counted and in a pocket so I can just hand it over when I put my clothes back on, since it does feel a little cheap to take out my wallet and count it out (though its actually less cheap, as if I'm going in my wallet its easier for me to add to the tip...), but I have no problem with the escort counting it.

 

Maybe that's just me, but I used to work in retail, and thought there were some similarities here... ;o)

[ted]

I usually put the fee out in plain sight as has been referred to before.

After one meeting about a year and a half ago, I invited the escort to join me for dinner/refreshment at the sushi bar about 3 blocks away. He accepted. I didn't notice that he didn't pick up the money, and I don't carry that amount of extra cash around. So I was more than a little embarrassed when he mentioned his fee, to tell him we had to shlep back to the hotel to pick it up. What made it worse was it was pouring and it would have been much more convenient for him to just grab a taxi from the sushi bar. He got a nice tip too though for the inconvenience.

[Guest ncm2169]

Jason, I'd broadcast the asshole client's info to every escort you can find within a five state area radius of Little rock. Not much sense limiting it to all those very fine (but very few) escorts in Arkansas! }( Don't make the mistake of thinking that all those escorts will read your post and be forewarned.

 

Beyond that, I think you're sanguine about the deal. You're right -- move on (but never forget). :o

 

P.S. Have you thought of exchanging that new puppy for a Doberman? :+

[VaHawk]

>The one comfort here is that it's a bit self limiting. People

>can't really get away with this more then once with the same

>guy and there are far far fewer escorts that a client can see

>then there are clients that shady escorts can prey on.

 

Well said!!! I'm glad to see that at least one escort responded and not just clients. I'd also be willing to bet that shady escorts aka hustlers outnumber scumbag clients at least 3 to 1, yet I see no outrage from the other clients about that. I believe this scene involves risks on both the escort and client parts, and that there really is nothing you can do, except learn from the experience and just move on. After all, it's not as if you can go to the police and file a complaint.

[VaHawk]

Well, I fail to see what that would accomplish. Do you think a client of this type is going to use the same contact info everytime? Just like those escorts who rip clients off, the names and email addresses, phones, etc. are going to change.

 

My one question about this whole incident, is the emphasis on SLAMMING the door! Jason says they both were satisified, but maybe the client wasn't and was so pissed that he took the money and SLAMMED the door to emphasize the point? It seems to me that if his intent was to play and not pay, he would have silently slipped out? This is not to say that Jason is not telling the truth as he sees it, as maybe the client SLAMMED the door as an extra ha ha jolly?

 

There are a lot of ways to interpret this incident, but I will obviously believe what Jason says given his honest reputation. But who really knows what is lurking in the mind of another person?

[Flower]

>Though to seriously ask this question implies you're thinking

>of minotaurs when you hear hoofbeats. :+

um...my spin on this would be: to seriously ask this question implies he's NOT thinking (as usual)

[Flower]

Jason--If you know the asshole's name, then seriously think about threatening to file a small claims court action against him.

 

I'm sure Ga., as most states, has what are called "common counts" -- meaning general, non specific claims you can file against a person--such as here, for 'simple conversion", meaning he stole money from you.

 

Fill out the paper work and send a copy to the asshole and let him know you intend to file it before you leave unless you get your money. My bet is that if you know his real name, he will not take a chance on such a pleading getting filed and publicised.

 

Of course, if you don't know his name, then just be thankful this wasn't an overnight or weekend hookup }(

[DannyCruz]

Great advice, Tipster...

 

Jason, next time you're with a client be sure to keep a more watchful eye. It's sad to think we escorts need to do this.

 

xoxox

 

Danny Cruz, NYC

[Guest Yog-Sothoth]

>And if the client was planning to take

>the money away with him, why put it out there to begin with?

>Wouldn't it be more logical for him to keep it in his wallet,

>since you're a fan of logic?

 

 

Logically, yes. Con-artist thinking, no.

 

By putting out the money at the start, it shows the escort

the client has it and it makes the escort think he will be

getting that money. Thus the escort will be more trusting

with regards to being ripped-off.

 

Then the client gets out the shower first, takes the money,

and runs. The escort is not expecting this.

 

It makes pefect sense if the client is dishonest -- and an

asshole.