Older Escorts

[Will]

In the Deli, ncm2169 started a thread about older escorts. I'd like to follow his by asking the escorts this question: In your experience, do many clients seek escorts who are older than they are? In other words, do guys in their 30s look for guys in their 40s or 50s? We all know that "younger" is a common gay fetish. But is there also the complementary taste for the other side of the age line?

[Guest jeffOH]

I'd say that at least a quarter of my clients are younger than I with a couple young enough to be my sons. Several clients have told me that they prefer an escort older or around their own age. When I've hired, I've found the most success with someone around my own age.

 

JEFF

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[FrancoDiSantisxxx]

Age Is Relative

 

As I have stated before, the average age of my clients is between 32 to 44, which makes a good number of them younger than me and most of the rest only slightly older than me.

 

In my own case, when they have commented, they have stated they prefer someone over 30, they prefer an escort who will provide good company and conversation and that is another appeal, of which age does factor in, some of it is purely availability. There are not very many guys, for example, who are uncut, and for guys with that as a preference, I do not think age is a factor. I have had clients who hired a 20 year old because he was uncut, me and say a guy who was perhaps older, simply because they could top well and were uncut.

 

With the guys in their 20s, I do not believe it has been a "daddy" fixation or anything like that, my experience is that they want their own peers. When they have offered a comment about me specifically, it has been my looks or reviews, not my age, that got them past the window shopping point.

 

 

Water is something else you do not need to pay for, but tell me, do you?

 

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[Bilbo]

RE: Age Is Relative

 

Of course, many of my leather clients are younger than me. The "Daddy" is a common character in leather fantasies.

 

And it has surprised me sometimes to find out that some of my erotic bodywork clients are younger than me, only because some of those who are younger are, in my opinion, slightly older looking than I. Ungentlemanly of me to say so, but hopefully no worse than hijacking a thread about older escorts to talk about twinks as if no one is interested in actually talking about older escorts. Thankfully, that hasn't happened on this one. Yet.

[Guest JackEscrt]

Just to note, in my experience while clients who've been here longer may seek younger escorts to retain that part of themselves from 10 years ago, i've had lots of calls with guys in their early-mid 20s who want to be with someone who has the self-assurance and presence of mind and body to share their time with joy and intelligent abandon.

[Will]

i've had lots of calls with guys

>in their early-mid 20s who want to be with someone who has the

>self-assurance and presence of mind and body to share their

>time with joy and intelligent abandon.

 

And lucky are those guys in their early-mid 20s. Lucky and smart. I certainly do wish that my introduction to the wonders of homosex had been made by a professional. When I was in my 20s, however, I didn't have a clue about how to find such a person. Indeed, I didn't even know that there were any!

 

I did have the second-best thing, a married man who was ten years older than I and madly in lust with me. He made love to me as though I were the most important person in the world. He never asked me to do something I wasn't ready to do. But when I was ready, he took me to the moon and back. I'm surprised we weren't arrested (this was Georgia in the 1960s!), because my yelling and screaming must have sounded either like murder-in-progress or an orgy.

[+ Lucky]

Will, you were indeed lucky to have a mentor for sex, even in the situation you describe. I was a good catholic boy who believed those priests when they lied to me about sex, and no one was around to show me different.

And while I agree that young guys today are lucky to be living in a more open environment, I don't envy them the mad drive to be beautiful and high on crystal.

As for older escorts, I prefer over 25. That's old, isn't it?

[+ Charlie]

When I was 17, I was lucky enough to meet a mentor who was older--18--and who taught me almost everything I needed to know about gay sex, including the term "gay".