Rick M Posted July 9, 2022 Share Posted July 9, 2022 I want to share this recent experience with a neophyte provider, but I don't wish to identify him. He listed himself on RM as a 20-something bi man. Posted only one photo that didn't show face or body below the ribs (upper back shot). The implication was that he's some sort of bodybuilder. I visited him in the suburban residence that he shares with his gay housemate. They played football together. His age is correct, but the impression I got from the photo didnt pan out: he's not a toned muscle guy. He's beefy, on his way to chubby. It was a hot day and the house's a/c was minimal. Two fans didn't help much. His bed is a double (he thought it was a queen, ha!) with barely enough space for us two tall linebackerish men. I told him he should market this as a "dorm room experience." Stubbly body hair. I had trouble getting into the mood, especially since he doesn't like to kiss. (That's extra!) He couldn't get hard. His cock was nothing special. I blew the whistle after 20 minutes, even though he was willing to "keep trying." Paid him full fare, but told him his rates are a bit steep for RM. He said most of his customers come from Grindr. I don't blame him; on these trial excursions, a good time is never guaranteed. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
John Posted July 9, 2022 Share Posted July 9, 2022 My sympathy. We have all been there even though we know better. Becket and jtwalker 2 Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Skip Posted July 9, 2022 Share Posted July 9, 2022 Sounds grim... I try to get more info and am always a little aprehensive when I don'r know much. You were fortunate it was just a less than fun experience. It could have been dangerous. There are still thouse that prey on gay men. (I sound like someones mother) Luv2play 1 Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Rick M Posted July 9, 2022 Author Share Posted July 9, 2022 Just now, Skip said: Sounds grim... I try to get more info and am always a little aprehensive when I don'r know much. You were fortunate it was just a less than fun experience. It could have been dangerous. There are still thouse that prey on gay men. (I sound like someones mother) If you were ever to meet me, you'd see why "I ain't afraid-a no ghost"! Ran and Skip 2 Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
jtwalker Posted July 9, 2022 Share Posted July 9, 2022 I'm fairly certain I'm setting myself up for the same sort of experience with https://rent.men/sexycollegeboy LOL I never learn. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Marc in Calif Posted July 10, 2022 Share Posted July 10, 2022 4 hours ago, jtwalker said: I'm fairly certain I'm setting myself up for the same sort of experience with https://rent.men/sexycollegeboy LOL I never learn. The more I look at those body pics, the more I think he's well over 30. But that's just me. HoseMaster, Act25, + cougar and 1 other 2 1 1 Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
jtwalker Posted July 10, 2022 Share Posted July 10, 2022 9 hours ago, Marc in Calif said: The more I look at those body pics, the more I think he's well over 30. But that's just me. He sent a face pic, but I don’t think it matches the body. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
+ Pensant Posted July 13, 2022 Share Posted July 13, 2022 On 7/10/2022 at 4:18 AM, jtwalker said: He sent a face pic, but I don’t think it matches the body. If your intuition says “avoid”, avoid. + nycman, + KensingtonHomo and TorontoDrew 3 Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
jtwalker Posted July 13, 2022 Share Posted July 13, 2022 And yet, I did not, and he cancelled while I was on the way, so now he’s blocked. I never learn, at least my little head never learns. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
MscleLovr Posted July 14, 2022 Share Posted July 14, 2022 On 7/9/2022 at 6:08 PM, Rick M said: he doesn't like to kiss. (That's extra!) Sorry to hear you had a bad experience @Rick M Two big red flags for me would be (1) menu pricing and (2) dislike of kissing. I once hired a lovely blond muscleboy (Luke in SF). He lived upto his photos. However, only when we were naked, did he tell me that he didn’t kiss (“that’s only for my boyfriend”). The absence of deep kissing spoilt foreplay for me and detracted from the overall experience. Lesson learned, I always checked specifics with other dates so that we were fully compatible. TorontoDrew and + KensingtonHomo 2 Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Rick M Posted July 15, 2022 Author Share Posted July 15, 2022 I try to check all the boxes in advance, but it gets tedious and wears the patience of the provider. I overlook things, too... I hadn't been noting whether the "smoking" attribute was attached to an ad, until I wound up in bed with a chain smoker, and tried to lock lips with a trash mouth. (Really, severely dumpsterish!) Had to back out on the spot. TorontoDrew 1 Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Rick M Posted July 17, 2022 Author Share Posted July 17, 2022 Same subject, different incident. Met up with an advertiser from RM. No reviews there (nor mention here) though he said he's been providing for years as a sideline. Dead fish on arrival. Absolutely not a match either way. Gave him a consolation prize and hearty handshake. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
BuzzLiteQueer Posted July 17, 2022 Share Posted July 17, 2022 On 7/9/2022 at 7:14 PM, Marc in Calif said: The more I look at those body pics, the more I think he's well over 30. But that's just me. That was the sense several of us have had: He probably did you a favor by cancelling while you were on your way: you saved $ and saved yourself a negative experience. All you were out was your time and gas (which, I concede, is nothing to sneeze at these days) Marc in Calif and jtwalker 2 Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
BuzzLiteQueer Posted July 17, 2022 Share Posted July 17, 2022 On 7/10/2022 at 4:18 AM, jtwalker said: He sent a face pic, but I don’t think it matches the body. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
BuzzLiteQueer Posted July 17, 2022 Share Posted July 17, 2022 Meant to include the above in my earlier post. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
+ KensingtonHomo Posted July 17, 2022 Share Posted July 17, 2022 On 7/14/2022 at 5:40 AM, MscleLovr said: Sorry to hear you had a bad experience @Rick M Two big red flags for me would be (1) menu pricing and (2) dislike of kissing. I once hired a lovely blond muscleboy (Luke in SF). He lived upto his photos. However, only when we were naked, did he tell me that he didn’t kiss (“that’s only for my boyfriend”). The absence of deep kissing spoilt foreplay for me and detracted from the overall experience. Lesson learned, I always checked specifics with other dates so that we were fully compatible. OMG. Did he watch Pretty Woman? Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
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