Who's job is it to bring supplys

[Guest Kevin 2]

This subject has come up before with mixed results. I realize your new so here's my .02 cents anyway. I personally feel its the escorts responsiblity however, I come prepared just in case. ;-)

[Guest connaisseur]

Hello there!

 

come on man, bring your own, I mean, those guys are often tryin' to scheme you by telling you "oooops ... no more condem/ lube/ whatever". If you have an idea about what your favorite session involves... make sure you have your tools with you, to avoid dissapointment. Second of all: I personally don't trust anyone else's supplies but my own.. BE SAFE

[+ deej]

Simple rule: if you're expecting to have safer sex, have supplies with you to bring it about. This applies equally to clients and escorts.

 

Ideally, both will happily be prepared. Some tops prefer specific brands of condoms. They should have them at the ready. Some bottoms prefer specific lubes. They should have them at the ready.

 

The ONLY reason for ANYONE (escort or client) to go into a sexual situation improperly supplied is if the supplies are considered optional.

 

The only exception is where you've agreed in advance that one or the other will provide supplies. Even then, if you EXPECT AND DEMAND that they be used you'd better have them on hand.

 

I was once in a situation with a very popular escort where I was stocked, but I was stocked for my size and he was afraid it would fall off him. Fortunately, Prince Charging had a few of his own.

 

This is not something to leave to chance. If it's a requirement, you owe it to yourself to make sure the requirement can be met.

[DaninWA]

Always bring your own supplies. Don't expect anyone else to be responsible for you. How important is your health to you?

 

Dan

[Chuck50]

I bring everything that is needed to have a good time: the bubble bath if an overnight, candles for the room, Wine, sometimes some videos, Lube, Condoms, Dildo just about everything. If they have as well ok but can't say we don't have it. Have never had a problem. Guess that is why I need a big suitcase. HUGS Chuck

 

I was told back in scouts you know the ones who don't let gays in. Be Prepared. I think they really want us in there they just have to say that

[Guest jeffOH]

RE: Who's job is it to bring supplies!

 

I think it's the escort's job to bring at least a condom and a couple sample size thingies of lube. I've had clients ask me to bring everything but the kitchen sink to shove up their ass, but I travel light and I don't take anything I can't fit in my pockets for an hour appt. It's not a bad idea for the client to have some condoms and lube just in case more are necessary.}(

 

JEFF

jeff4men@hotmail.com

[Guest Derek Ross]

It's your body and your health. Have your own supplies and check the expiration dates. I always bring my own. I do have certain condoms & lube that I prefer, but if the client has stuff that he prefers, I check to make sure they aren't outdated, etc., and can go with the flow. The bottom line is: if you rely on someone else for anything, you'll set yourself up for disappointment. Take responsibility & have fun.

[Guest brianbb069]

I always ask the escort I'm hiring what his lube and condom preferences are - brand name, size, etc. And I supply what he asks. Since I fly my guys in, this spares them any possible embarassing questions in the airport if his package is inspected.

[Guest fukamarine]

>I always ask the escort I'm hiring what his lube and condom

>preferences are - brand name, size, etc. And I supply what he

>asks. Since I fly my guys in, this spares them any possible

>embarassing questions in the airport if his package is

>inspected.

 

Hmmmmmmmmmm Where do I apply for the position of

"package" inspector?

 

fukamarine

[Guest bottomboykk]

>I was once in a situation with a very popular escort where I

>was stocked, but I was stocked for my size and he was afraid

>it would fall off him. Fortunately, Prince Charging had a few

>of his own.

 

Hey deej: I didn't know you ever bottomed! Thought you were an exclusive top.

[+ deej]

>Hey deej: I didn't know you ever bottomed! Thought you were

>an exclusive top.

 

Once in a great while I get an itch that needs scratched.

[FrancoDiSantisxxx]

Derek, Jeff and Dan

 

>Simple rule: if you're expecting to have safer sex, have

>supplies with you to bring it about. This applies equally to

>clients and escorts.

>

>Ideally, both will happily be prepared. Some tops prefer

>specific brands of condoms. They should have them at the

>ready. Some bottoms prefer specific lubes. They should have

 

This has been answered before. I am with Derek, Jeff and Dan in that I really do prefer my own brand of condom (three with a decided preference for Kimono) and I am particular about lubes, but again with several options. I therefore bring everything I believe we will need even when the clients have indicated that they are stocked.

 

If we are in the client's own space, I am fine with using the client's own lube. However, as I tend to prefer cotton and flannel linens, and some lubes stain more than others, if the client really wants to use something I prefer the activity take place on my love seat (thats why I have one in my bedrom).

 

Deej's points are all very good ones and ones that I believe all clients and escorts should follow. Jeff added an excellent point. If I am coming to a client for an hour, I really do not want to pack more than will fit in my jacket. Especially to some of the nicer hotels, condominiums and complexes with security and door people, a back pack or anything like that is simply an additional and often unnecessary hassle. Therefore, I do not bring other than the necessary supplies. Additionally, I do not believe items such as toys should be shared.

 

As for travel, I have always packed the small travel bottles (2 to 4 oz) of Frixion, Wet and Platinum and over a dozen condoms in my carry on without a single problem. Now, they have made me take my boots off at every single airport I have traveled through since Labor Day....

[Guest brianbb069]

Being a package inspector is the job for which I've been paying the big bucks. I love my job!

[ad rian]

RE: Who's job is it to bring supplies!

 

I agree that the client should be prepared, but I like it when the escort arrives with some new and exciting brand of lube that I might not otherwise have bought. I have also noted a geographic difference. In Europe, especialy Amsterdam, I find escorts come more fully prepared than in the U.S. where the onus seems to be on the client. In part that is because European agencies like People in Amsterdam don't send the guys out unless they are fully stocked.

[Spida]

Whoa deej! Your size and he was afriad it would fall off of him!! Nice!:9

[Zeek]

Who is to bring the condoms, lube, etc...? Escort? Client? Top? Bottom? I have been with a few escort in the past few months that did not bring anything for safe play, so they where unwilling to do much but expected full pay. Most of the time I bring what is need but on one trip my luggage was lost and another I did not think about packing it. Should this be worked out ahead of time?

[Rick Munroe]

RE: Derek, Jeff and Dan

 

>if the client really wants to use something I prefer the activity

>take place on my love seat

 

That must be one greasy, stained piece of furniture. Is it scotchguarded? :+

[Guest BigSquirt]

I always have my own supplies, but find it the height of unprofessionalism for an escort to show up in any situation sans supplies. It's what separates the good ones from the wannabees, and is a pretty good barometer of how the rest of the session will be.

 

A professional is a professional is a professional. Would you expect a plumber you hire to need to use your wrench and flashlight when he arrives? What would you think of an accountant who needed to "borrow" your calculator?

[FrancoDiSantisxxx]

Kitty Guard

 

>That must be one greasy, stained piece of furniture. Is it

>scotchguarded?

 

Kitty has not been declawed. She keeps my bottoms well trained and in line. The lick any foreign substances off, scrub the cover, do all the laundry and also pet her for at least 22 minutes before the door slams their very sore asses on their way home.

 

When she does not sleep with me, the love seat is her next preferred place to power nap.

[Rick Munroe]

>Would you expect a plumber you hire to need to use

>your wrench and flashlight when he arrives?

 

No, but if he's hot, I'll supply the condoms & lube.

[+ Lucky]

Last week a visitor to my apartment had asked if I had everything...lubes, condoms, etc. I assured him I did.

After he arrived he was quite surprised at what I gave him. He said he need the extra-large ones! Well, I didn't have them and after appropriate foreplay (at least acc. to the manual) he started poking that big thing around down there. His solution was not to use a condom since mine were too small. My solution, and the final solution, was to make him squeeze into that tight dress and start dancing! And dance he did!

[Guest dctom52]

Look guys many years ago I was a boy scout and their motto IS "Be Prepared". In most cases, the escort is coming to your home or hotel room. If you need "supplies" make sure you have them. Some of these escorts will not be coming directly from home. You really can't expect them to carry this stuff on their hot little bodies can you? So, don't give them an excuse to back out of some "agreed upon" activity just because no one bought the lube!

 

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