How long do you maintain an Email acquaintance

[Boink]

Within the past six weeks or so, I contacted two different (very well reviewed) escorts in two different cities close to me because I had trips planned to each city. With each of these guys I established a good Email relationship in hopes of setting up an appointment when I got to their town (nothing concrete).

 

As luck would have it, both of my excursions had to be put on hold. I informed each of the guys, and again we exchanged nice Emails clearly saying that I would contact them when my travels resumed, and they clearly stating they would notify me when they travel to my town, which is frequent.

 

Well now I see advertisements that both of these guys - from two different towns - will be in my city for an event at the end of the month. Call me overly sensitive, but I'm kinda hurt that neither of them contacted me to let me know they'd be in town. I know they knew my intentions were sincere via our Emails. I am hestitant to Email them again and tell them know I know they'll be in town - it seems too desparate and stalker-like. But if I don't, I feel like I'm gonna miss out (yet again) on meeting two neat guys I had longed to meet for quite some time.

 

Am I wrong to expect an escort to keep in touch by Email after (a long?) six weeks? Is business that good?

 

Sign me - Can't get laid in a whorehouse:-(

[+ Lucky]

I give up on email acquaintances, in most cases, after ten emails I send are not reciprocated. This can vary, depending on my particular lust for said person.

But, if I saw a dropped penpal advertising a visit, I would definitely renew the email thing and see if we could hook-up. I have no prifde when it comes to that.

I check Escort Travels everyday in the hope that Jason Rylee is coming to NYC, and everyday a touch of sadness comes over me when I see that he is not listed.

(:-) )

[Chuck50]

Can't get laid in a whorehouse. Give it up when you see they are coming to your area send them an email. They can't keep up with to many people and don't expect them too just bite the bullet and call or email them. hUGS Chuck

[Flower]

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>Am I wrong to expect an escort to keep in touch by Email

>after (a long?) six weeks?

 

Yes, IMHO.

 

> Is business that good?

 

Not the issue--efficient use of time is at stake, and if it isn't producing business, then can you blame then for wanting to spend leisure time with good friends or loved ones or studying and taking care of other personal business rather than emailing a (probably much older) stranger who isn't even on the appointment book?

 

Quite honestly, I think you are expecting too much from a few emails. BUT, there's an old saying that "you'll never know until you ask" or something similar, which seems applicable here.

 

And what do you have to lose--they say "yes" (good for you) or they say "No," to bad for you but move on. I mean really, what's at stake? You've exchanged a few emails (They must get hundreds or thousands in a week, btw) and if one or both say "no," you can't take it as personal since they don't even know you!

 

I doubt if they will say no, however--just that the friends I have that are escorts get emails all the time like: "I'm coming to town, ladda ladda, send me a pic, ladda ladda. They probably feel it would be too self promoting for them to call you even if they remembered what city you are from.

 

So email them, and you'll probably have an embarrassment of riches and the next post you make will be"OMG--now what do I do with 2 escorts for the same night"

 

Flower :*

[Guest jeffOH]

I suppose it would have been nice for them to have contacted you, but perhaps they've deleted your e-mails. I don't keep my clients' e-mails addresses or their phone numbers. I wouldn't expect too much though considering you haven't hired them yet.

 

JEFF

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[Rick Munroe]

>Call me overly sensitive, but I'm kinda

>hurt that neither of them contacted me to let me know they'd

>be in town.

 

I have had similar situations where prospective clients asked me to let them know when I'd be coming their way but it's just too much for me to keep track of with the amount of emails I get. I always tell everyone to just check the Travels section on this site. Don't be hurt. Email those guys!

 

>Am I wrong to expect an escort to keep in touch by Email

>after (a long?) six weeks?

 

Yes, I think so. That's why we place travel ads & post in the travels section on this site. Those of us who get a high volume of email shouldn't be expected to write to everyone who has ever written us, especially those of us who don't send out form letters. In my case, I'd never leave my desk!

[Matt_Vancouver]

> That's why we place travel ads & post in

>the travels section on this site. Those of us who get a

>high volume of email shouldn't be expected to write to

>everyone who has ever written us, especially those of us who

>don't send out form letters. In my case, I'd never leave my

>desk!

 

Do you ever leave your desk?? I thought Derek kept you chained there with your ass in the air: )

 

Like Rick, I don't do the chain letter/public announcement thing...it's not my style.

That said, it can be a daunting task just answering the email I receive daily. If someone specifically asks to be notified, should I be travelling to their area, they are added to my online contact list(private), otherwise, in all likelyhook, if I've not met the person, just exchanged a few pre-meet emails, I probably won't remember what city they are visiting from. (I'm good, but my brain only has so many gigabytes of storage, and what with all the porn in there.... you can't expect me to remember EVERYTHING)

So emailing expecting them to email you, unless you specifically asked them too, is expecting too much. Sorry, but though you might appreciate the acknowledgment that they remembered you, not all people would find the 'unsolicited' contact to be acceptable.(some would even say 'intrusive')

So don't take offense, just shoot them off an email book a date, and get your rocks off.

 

matt(people who use aol will notice... I always forget details... why? CUZ THE ORIGINAL MESSAGE IS NOT INCLUDED WITH THE RESPONCE!!!!!!!!!! argh....you try answering two hours worth of emails... then get one that says ....'cool that date sounds good... ' and NOTHING more.... )

[Matt_Vancouver]

eye know get spell cheque?

 

> otherwise, in all likelyhook

 

OOPS freudian/bad proof reading slip.

 

>So emailing expecting them to email you, unless you

>specifically asked them too, is expecting too much.

 

If my high school english teacher could see me now....he'd say...?

 

a)quit picking your nose?

b)glad to see you've put your education to good use

c)it's so thick... is it gonna hurt?

 

matt(It only hurts for a second or two)

[Guest fukamarine]

Don't take it personally. Just because an escort is good at sex doesn't mean he has good organizational skills too. They could be having blond moments.

 

fukamarine

[Guest JH]

RE: eye know get spell cheque?

 

>matt(It only hurts for a second or two)

 

but you'll feel it the day after too ....

[Boink]

Guys, thanks to you all for your honest advice. (And thanks for nobody calling me a whiny little crybaby). I will say that when a series of fun and friendly Emails ends with the escort saying 'I will DEFINATELY call you when I get back to your town', it's a bit frustrating to think I now have to re-establish a rapport all over again. And I did think the logical, simple, automatic and organized thing to do would have been to throw my Email address onto your contact list. Oh well...

since you guys have a unanimous point of view, I will let you (and my dick) be my guide...

[Traveller]

Porn stars are usually pretty good about this. DeMachio, Cummings, Vincenzo, among others, email me when they're coming my way. Sometimes it's 6 or more months since the last plowfest. Not a chain either. In fact, one of the whores that posted on this thread will email me when he's coming in from the Canada. (I guess he just can't get enough of my tight hole.)

 

Later.

[+ Lucky]

***(I guess he just can't get enough of my tight hole.)***

 

LOL!!!!

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[Boink]

Traveller, the two I contacted are of the calibre on your list (NO bad reviews). That kind of Email notification is what I THOUGHT/wished I had established with them. And I could understand being dropped out of mind over a long period of time, but when I said six weeks I was exaggerating...it's really less than four weeks, which makes the lack of notification even more disheartening. WAH WAH WAH.:'(

[Houston Bonfires]

Hey Boink:

 

Just as a casual observer....I noticed you've got a really cute rapport so feel free to go ahead and re-establish it all over the place. I don't think you are a whinny ________ _______ or any of those other words you said. You've just been dealing with those who are e-mail challenged.

 

H B

[Matt_Vancouver]

> In fact, one of the

>whores that posted on this thread will email me when he's

>coming in from the Canada. (I guess he just can't get

>enough of my tight hole.)

 

You call that tight???: ) Teasing... I honestly don't know how you keep it so 'virginal', considering some of the dicks you've been fucked by!.... I can see it now.....

"NEXT ON GAY TV....keep your pucker perky... SPHINCTOR WORKOUT WITH TRAV" ....Learn the secrets to make him beleive it's your first time"

Matt(get on and ride it bitch)

[Donnie]

>In fact, one of the

>whores that posted on this thread will email me when he's

>coming in from the Canada. (I guess he just can't get

>enough of my tight hole.)

 

Or perhaps he just enjoys taking easy money from a rich guy with a serious drug problem.

[Traveller]

>Or perhaps he just enjoys taking easy money from a rich guy

>with a serious drug problem.

 

Well Dondo, the smart money would probably be on the easy money, which is a result of too much money, which I try to alleviate by converting into drug money. My part for trickle down.

 

Later.

 

PS. Keith Richards has a serious drug problem. Try as I might, I have yet to achieve his status; and I so love Zurich.

[Boink]

What a sweet thing to say HB! Thank you!

[+ Lucky]

RE: How long do you maintain a lot of money

 

Trav, I really want to help here. If you have too much money, I could bring myself to relieve you of a big chunk of it!

[FrancoDiSantisxxx]

Elephantine

 

I am blessed with a very good memory; even so, I do maintain a list organized by cities of the gentlemen who wish me to keep in touch. I also drop people from that list after two or three emails, if there is absolutely no response, but the last email they receive is along the lines of "thank you for your interest in me" or "thank you for meeting me" and ends with "I am not in the habit of continually contacting people and unless you tell me otherwise, as I have heard no response from you to my most recent contacts, I will no longer be contacting you."

 

Clients with whom I have established a regular rapport tend to get personal individualized communication, even if we have yet to meet. An example is a gentlemen from London, who will finally be hiring me next November in Los Angeles. However, this gentlemen and I have also spoken over the telephone and it was due to the fault of my own travel schedule that we did not already meet, not through any actions (or inactions) on the part of the client.

 

I agree with Matt. It does require a lot of work. It does require organization. I spend a lot of time on this and even then, it often does not pan out. I had been contacted all four times I have been in San Diego since July and finally met one client this last trip of mine. However, someone who has contacted me the same number of times, cancelled his session at the very last day and I wrote him back telling him I had no plans to be back in San Diego until the Spring or Summer and to contact me if he were ever in Los Angeles or Palm Springs. I do not intend to contact that gentlemen again.

 

Even with my great memory, as Devon was so kind to point out once, I do rarely get a detail wrong, so I always ask clients whom I have not met to go over any details that will make our meeting and their experience more memorable. In Matt's case, sensual intimacy as a component of his escort business is perfectly legal and he can therefore most likely store this material on his computer. In my case, for my client's privacy and my own protection, I do not store this information other than in my own head.

 

Boink, write them again. Remind them of your interest. One thing no one else had mentioned is that if they are here for an event, they may not be "working." That may be the case. Therefore, let them know you are still interested, ask them if they are taking clients and give them specific ideas of when you would want to meet them for them to respond to you (and ask them to respond ASAP).

 

Good luck, I hope you have a wonderful time!

[Boink]

RE: Elephantine

 

Thanks Franco! If all the internet based escorts managed their contacts as efficiently as you, I wouldn't be in this predicament. I have also considered that these guys may not be 'working' during this particular jaunt. So be it.

[Gigiloz4me]

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>Am I wrong to expect an escort to keep in touch by Email

>after (a long?) six weeks?

 

 

 

Please... tell me you're kidding.

[Rick Munroe]

RE: Elephantine

 

>I agree with Matt. It does require a lot of work.

 

I hate work. That's why I became an escort!

[Boink]

<Please... tell me you're kidding.>

 

I will not, Mr. Cynic. Since I last wrote here I am happy to report that both of these pros have contacted me with no further prompting from me. I intend to make it worth both their whiles.

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