Jump to content

an apology


best hotel
 Share

This topic is 5007 days old and is no longer open for new replies.  Replies are automatically disabled after two years of inactivity.  Please create a new topic instead of posting here.  

Recommended Posts

Purplekow...i am very sorry about suggesting that you might be rick monroe....i have heard from escorts who have met you and have been told that you are a seperate person....and that you are a great guy who didn't deserve that comparison....i hope you can accept my apology...... Daddy.....i want to apologize to you for calling you 'one of the mean girls"....i really do respect you for your work on this board and hope you can accept my apology

 

 

 

i realize that i am risking more abuse and put downs by returning to this board,.... but i do seem to be more invested in this place than i realized, so i am not leaving...

Link to comment
Share on other sites

  • Replies 29
  • Created
  • Last Reply

Top Posters In This Topic

Top Posters In This Topic

But of course, I accept your apology.

 

I too have my moments when I'm not the most shining of stars, and people have managed to overlook my many faults. (Remember not that long ago when I woke up for a pee break?)

 

Be Well, Be Healthy, Be Happy. Most of all don't be shy about asking for help if you need it.

 

Regards, Daddy

Link to comment
Share on other sites

Guest Derek Ross

So, to recap, you spent the day yesterday calling Rick everything from a "snake" to a "fraud" while accusing him of using the alias "purplekow" but now you realize you were wrong, so you apologize to purplekow but not to Rick. I'm not surprised. But I would like an apology for the threatening email you sent Rick yesterday through rentboy.com. I don't take kindly to threats against my family.

Link to comment
Share on other sites

...derek...i made no threat...i told rick he is inviting bad karma with bullying....if my message appeared to be a threat, i apologize...i was pretty angry and my tone must have sounded threatening...i mean you and your family no real harm...regarding the name calling, i shouldn't have let myself go to that level, ..but then again, rick went much lower.. rick has owed me an apology for years....you know that.....but i do not anticipate one

Link to comment
Share on other sites

best- What I didn't like about what happened is that it started a feeding frenzy to rip on Rick. I felt like I was watching lynch mentality at its worse...I felt like I was back in a grade school locker room watching a bunch of pre-teen bullies attack their victim. If you believe in Karma you should take responsibility for what it lead to. This whole thing got out of hand. Rick might get a bit bitchy at times (like EVERYONE on this site...it IS a GAY THING)...however, his posts are often VERY ENTERTAINING and his vanishing would be a shame. This site would be deprived a valuable voice. Why don't the two of you virtually kiss and make-up? ...or did you dream of being the bully in the locker room?

Link to comment
Share on other sites

Guest Derek Ross

>rick has owed me an apology for years....you know that.....

 

No, I really don't know that. We do recall that you hired us and had a great time and told a few other people, who reported it back to us. It's history now. I have neither the time nor the patience for this tomfoolery, but if it makes you feel better, I apologize from both of us. OK, that's done.

Link to comment
Share on other sites

"...did you notice that i, too, took abuse....in much

>larger quantities?...rick has alot of supporters here who fed

>on mhy flesh,, called me a drunk, unstable, stupid, boring..."

 

Best, I truly mean this and I hope you'll agree, it's time to let it go, move on, it's a new day! If you can't would you please take your "fight" to a different arena. Thank you. Coop

Link to comment
Share on other sites

Guest zipperzone

>Best, I truly mean this and I hope you'll agree, it's time to

>let it go, move on, it's a new day! If you can't would you

>please take your "fight" to a different arena. Thank

>you. Coop

 

I totally agree. This pissing match is about to escalate into the same intensity that gave rise to best hotel's 24 hr suspension.

 

It looks like he didn't learn anything from that wake-up call as he has started his whining all over again. Some people just never learn.

Link to comment
Share on other sites

I do not believe that besthotel owes Rick any kind of apology. Rick is frequently exactly the kind of bully-on-the-boards that besthotel accused him of being. Rick doesn’t just disagree with people, he regularly tries to find a way to personally and maliciously insult them, as he did when he implied that besthotel is mentally imbalanced and the subject of escort gossip. That kind of behavior is not only ugly and mean, it defines the unprofessional.

 

I too feel like I’ve been watching a lynch mentality, and the victim has been besthotel. Bullies are always popular, especially when they use humor to demean and smear their victims. Attempting to appear tough and popular, bullies always try to paint their victims into isolation—exactly what has happened here. A site populated by gay men, one would hope, would be more sensitive to this dynamic. Haven’t we all been, at one time or another, the object of some bully’s insecurity?

Link to comment
Share on other sites

"i realize that i am risking more abuse and put downs by

>returning to this board,.... but i do seem to be more invested

>in this place than i realized, so i am not leaving..." - besthotel

 

 

ISN'T this a song from DREAMGIRLS???

 

"and I'm TELLING YOUUUUU...I'm NOT GOING....YOU'RE the BEST MAN I EVER KNOWN...I DON'T WANT TO BE FREE...

 

I'M STAYING

 

I'M STAYING

 

 

and YOU YOU YOU YOU'RE GONNA LOVE MEEEEEEEE!!!

Link to comment
Share on other sites

cooper.i am not trying to escalate anything...i posted an apology to purplekow and daddy...that is the best i can do....whatever rick does is, of course, up to him....derek, you did not owe me an apology, but i appreciate your effort...zipper. i do not believe i am whining....and please stay the fuck out of this...it seems that you are trying to start something....

Link to comment
Share on other sites

Best Hotel you make it difficult for me to accept an apology when that apology intends to demean someone else. I will admit you are correct, I am not now nor have I ever been Rick Monroe, I was Jill Monroe one Halloween during my Charlie's Angels years and it is true that blonds have more fun. I also have been known as Rick most of my life, so there is that coincidence.

What ever your problem with Mr. Monroe, I suggest you drop it. Baggage can get very heavy and on a trip which lasts as long as a lifetime, avoiding excess baggage is essential.

 

For some reason that statement reminds me of one of the undervalued comedy lines from a movie. In Miss Congenitiality, for her final question, Miss Rhode Island is asked to describe her perfect date. She says: (and I paraphrase, actually totally misquote) April 25th because it is not too hot and not too cool and all you need to wear is a nice light jacket.

Link to comment
Share on other sites

cooper...i did not return to start another fight....but i won't run from one either.....as a gay kid growing up in the 70s, i took more than my share of bullying....and if rick starts his mean girl shit with me again, i will fight back....but again, i am not starting anything here

Link to comment
Share on other sites

>....and if rick

>starts his mean girl shit with me again, i will fight

>back....but again, i am not starting anything here

 

LOL Yes, that was certainly mean and cruel of me to force you and Tom Isern to accuse me of being purplekow and of writing my own reviews. I'll try not to do that in the future. My bad. :+

Link to comment
Share on other sites

STOPstopSTOPstopSTOPstopSTOPstopSTOPstopSTOPstopSTOPstopSTOPstopSTOPstopSTOPstopSTOPstopSTOPstopSTOPstopSTOPstopSTOPstopSTOPstopSTOPstopSTOPstopSTOPstopSTOPstopSTOPstopSTOPstopSTOPstopSTOPstopSTOPstopSTOPstopSTOPstopSTOPstopSTOPstopSTOPstopSTOPstopSTOPstopSTOPstopSTOPstopSTOPstopSTOPstopSTOPstopSTOPstopSTOPstopSTOPstopSTOPstopSTOPstopSTOPstopSTOPstopSTOPstopSTOPstopSTOPstopSTOPstopSTOPstopSTOPstopSTOPstopSTOPstopSTOPstopSTOPstopSTOPstopSTOPstopSTOPstopSTOPstopSTOPstopSTOPstopSTOPstopSTOPstopSTOPstopSTOPstopSTOPstopSTOPstopSTOPstopSTOPstopSTOPstopSTOPstopSTOPstopSTOPstopSTOPstopSTOPstopSTOPstopSTOPstopSTOPstopSTOPstopSTOPstopSTOPstopSTOPstopSTOPstopSTOPstopSTOPstopSTOPstopSTOPstopSTOPstopSTOPstopSTOPstopSTOPstopSTOPstopSTOPstopSTOPstopSTOPstopSTOPstopSTOPstopSTOPstopSTOPstopSTOPstopSTOPstopSTOPstopSTOPstopSTOPstopSTOPstopSTOPstopSTOPstopSTOPstopSTOPstopSTOPstopSTOPstopSTOPstopSTOPstopSTOPstopSTOPstopSTOPstopSTOPstopSTOPstopSTOPstopSTOPstopSTOPstopSTOPstopSTOPstopSTOPstopSTOPstopSTOPstopSTOPstopSTOPstopSTOPstopSTOPstopSTOPstopSTOPstopSTOPstopSTOPstopSTOPstopSTOPstopSTOPstopSTOPstopSTOPstopSTOPstopSTOPstopSTOPstopSTOPstopSTOPstopSTOPstopSTOPstopSTOPstopSTOPstopSTOPstopSTOPstopSTOPstopSTOPstopSTOPstopSTOPstopSTOPstopSTOPstopSTOPstopSTOPstopSTOPstopSTOPstopSTOPstopSTOPstopSTOPstopSTOPstopSTOPstopSTOPstopSTOPstopSTOPstopSTOPstopSTOPstopSTOPstopSTOPstopSTOPstopSTOPstop

Link to comment
Share on other sites

Guest zipperzone

>...zipper. i do not believe i am whining....and please

>stay the fuck out of this...it seems that you are trying to

>start something....

 

Look, you little prick - don't you dare tell me to "stay the fuck out of this". Who the hell do you think you are? I'M trying to start something? That's really rich!

 

I know zero about you but presumably you are an adult, so start acting like one. Print out the posts you have sent and sit your ass down and read them. If you think they sound as if they are coming from the mouth of an adult, then you are even more far gone than I originally thought.

 

All this crying and snivelling about being bullied makes you sound like a prepubescent schoolgirl. And not too bright a one at that.

 

Get over it. Grow up. Act like a man and shut the fuck up!

Link to comment
Share on other sites

 Share


×
×
  • Create New...