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  • 1 month later...
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2 hours ago, BuzzLiteQueer said:

That is not a good sign. 

I don’t necessarily think a name change is an automatic “red flag”. Sometimes providers change the repertoire they offer - and if what was formally offered is tied directly to his previous profile name, that may be the reason. Others change names when they move geographic locations when their previous location was part of their name. You get the gist. I’m not saying one shouldn’t proceed with the usual amount of caution - I’m just offering some plausible reasons for a name change. 

Using this provider to illustrate (NB: this is pure speculation on my part, just offered to demonstrate how name changes can be innocent) - previously “bottombunktwunk” - perhaps he’s enjoying a more versatile style now, perhaps he’s muscled out of “twunk” territory, and entered “jock” land now.  

As I said, do the same as you would gathering intel, feedback from other hobbyists, but view the name change with at best, a “dusty rose flag” vs a “red flag”. 

Just my two cents.

BBD 

  • 1 month later...
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On 5/17/2022 at 4:37 PM, bottombunktwunk said:

Figured I should say something about this encounter to clear the air. First of all, I do not discriminate against age, disability, race, weight, etc. As you can see from the rest of my reviews, this was an outlier. That being said, providers have every right to decline meeting if a client makes them feel uncomfortable or unsafe. It has been confirmed from other providers that this particular client has made them feel uncomfortable/unsafe.

So here's my side of the story...

*The client did not disclose his medical condition before meeting.

*First meeting: Client cancels ~30 minutes before appointment because "he did not feel well".  Client offers to compensate me for my lost time so long as I agreed to meet with him again. I accepted the conditions and rescheduled.

*Second meeting: Client is 30+ minutes late. (First thought is "he is flaking") Then I see Client being carried into the lobby by two men, twitching, unable to stand on his own, causing a scene. I assumed Client was on drugs and I made a game time decision to run out of the hotel without engaging with him. I did not feel safe. I texted Client saying I had to cancel because he was late and I needed to make it to my next appointment. Client then tells me about his medical condition and demands I meet with him because he had already compensated me for my time. I reimbursed Client and asked that he not contact me again. 

*Third meeting: Client created a new profile, a new phone number and arranges to meet without identifying himself. I see Client walking into the lobby and I walk out. Again I text the Client not to contact me.

*Fourth (attempted) meeting: Client created a new profile, a new number. Client identifies himself and I reiterate that I will not meet him. Client writes negative review.

*Fifth meeting: Client has another provider contact me and arranges to meet. Provider tells me it is a private client. Upon arriving, I realize who the Client is. I leave without engaging. Client deletes negative review to make amends. Provider tells me that Client has mental health issues in addition to Parkinson's and that no providers in the Seattle area are willing to meet with this client for similar reasons. 

 

Wow - obsession is a terrible thing 

glad you’re ok and thx for clearing the air 

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