Falling in love with a scort

[armiller1979]

Since I started doing sex work it’s the single most difficult thing I had to deal with and I really don’t think I know how to deal with a similar situation if it happens again. We all want clients to feel attractive and desired but it’s so easy for a client who may be looking for a relationship to confuse that professional response for genuine attraction and a willingness to start a relationship.

 

I think you do know how to deal with it if it happens again. In fact, you even told us:

 

...say “look this is a transaction, I like you but I only have sex with you because you’re paying me”

 

Yeah, it'd feel shitty saying that to someone, but it would need to be said in that situation. In the long run, I bet the client would appreciate your honest reality check.

[Jamie21]

I think you do know how to deal with it if it happens again. In fact, you even told us:

 

 

 

Yeah, it'd feel shitty saying that to someone, but it would need to be said in that situation. In the long run, I bet the client would appreciate your honest reality check.

It’s very difficult to say that though. Especially if you like the guy. They’d appreciate it in time yes, but in that moment when you tell them that you don’t feel the same way, you feel really shit. It’s happened to me once and I still hate myself for having to say it to him.

[Strafe13]

It’s very difficult to say that though. Especially if you like the guy. They’d appreciate it in time yes, but in that moment when you tell them that you don’t feel the same way, you feel really shit. It’s happened to me once and I still hate myself for having to say it to him.

 

That's a tough thing to tell a client who has developed feelings for you, but, as the saying goes, sometimes the truth hurts. The fact that you feel bad at having to articulate the transactional nature of the client-escort relationship, even if it's necessary in that moment, shows that you have a kind heart. That empathy probably helps to make you a good escort to begin with, but it can certainly have its drawbacks. It's a fine line you walk, and I wish you the best with it.

[+ tassojunior]

[+ MysticMenace]

absolutely not...don't have the thighs for it ???