Is there something wrong/immoral about hiring? My thoughts...and yours

[Maximiliam]

There's nothing wrong with it as long its between two consented adults . I'm 28 and started hiring last year just for the experience and its ok . I won't hire again tho

[+ sync]

I see no wrong/immorality between consenting adults whereby there are no intentional acts to deceive, defraud, or otherwise injure the other party(ies).

[DallasClient]

To me, it's no different than paying for a massage. I'm just massaging the inside of their butt with my dick or they're massaging my dick with their butt. Either way, just a lot of massaging going on! LOL

[Maximiliam]

To me, it's no different than paying for a massage. I'm just massaging the inside of their butt with my dick LOL

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[Pepper Young]

This is one of the smartest, most thoughtful threads I've ever read on this forum. I've given more "thumbs up" than I ever have on any single discussion. Let me say, no, there is nothing wrong with two mature, sober, consenting adults meeting for their mutual enjoyment and benefit. Over the years, I've hired dozens of guys. Most of them I found to be mature, smart guys who knew what they were doing, did it well and decided that sex work was their calling in life. Yes, there are avenues of abuse on both sides. Yes, some guys aren't as advertised. But it can also be an uplifting and pleasant break from the grind of todays life in the US. If only for an hour.

[marylander1940]

Was it immoral for Melania Knauss to marry Donald Trump? How about the marriage of Marla Maples to her ex-husband?

 

Marla Maples fucked another woman’s husband later on she was treated the same way.

 

Are you implying Melania married him for the money?

 

Trump wasn’t as out of shape 20 years ago as he is now. I’m sure many women could have fallen in love with him even though he was decades older. Maybe melania had Daddy issues.

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Marla Maples fucked another woman’s husband later on she was treated the same way.

 

Are you implying Melania married him for the money?

 

Trump wasn’t as out of shape 20 years ago as he is now. I’m sure many women could have fallen in love with him even though he was decades older. Maybe melania had Daddy issues.

BUT...had he been an assistant VP at Citibank, I doubt she would have seen the attraction.

[+ Pensant]

It‘s always fun sharing experiences.... !

One can also share experiences with other members, privately. When I lived in OC for many years, I’d often discuss experiences with another hobbyist north of LA, who I never met but considered a friend.

[+ SundayZip]

Trump wasn’t as out of shape 20 years ago as he is now. I’m sure many women could have fallen in love with him even though he was decades older. Maybe melania had Daddy issues.

 

You have a point. But my guess is that $$ was a big factor... little hands big money.

 

[marylander1940]

You have a point. But my guess is that $$ was a big factor... little hands big money.

 

 

we don't know, sometimes power is an aphrodisiac or so I've heard.

 

Besides take a look at his big hands

[bostonman]

How about the marriage of Marla Maples to her ex-husband?

 

Maples married her ex-husband? ?

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You have a point. But my guess is that $$ was a big factor... little hands big money.

 

He still looks pretty flabby, and the hands are short and pudgy, a “short-fingered vulgarian” in Grayson Carter’s memorable words.

[+ Pensant]

Maples married her ex-husband? ?

Marla and his bodyguard “cucked” Donnie.

[maninsoma]

Hello and happy new year.

 

Your post seems to basically equate escorting with casual sex without factoring in the explicitly transactional nature of the exchange and possibly unhealthy motives or risks. Perhaps I missed something.

 

For example, how would you feel if you were seeing an escort and then realized he hated what he was doing but was desperate for money? Any qualms?

 

Or if you heard of an emotionally vulnerable client who was desperately lonely and being exploited by a manipulative escort who was bleeding the client dry, and the client was willing to take out loans and risk serious financial damage to have more time with the escort to live out a sad fantasy of real love. Do you see any moral concerns in that situation?

 

I'm thinking back to a sociology class I had when I was an undergrad. The professor said that one of the things that employees are paid for is their emotional life, at least while at work. In other words, most employers expect a certain amount of agreeability of their employees. You might not particularly like your job, but you're not supposed to bitch about how much you hate your job while you are at work. You can do that on your own time, though I think that just as a coping mechanism a lot of people who don't like their jobs don't spend a lot of time thinking about that on their own time. So in your case, if an escort hates what he is doing but is able to act as if he doesn't while he's working, as long as his clients don't find out does it really matter? I'm not talking about escort-client relationships that become something more than transactional -- where actual friendships develop. An escort who did a good job while not really enjoying himself needn't tell his clients on the way out the door that he disliked his experience with them. He retires and never communicates with them again. It's what I intend to do with my colleagues when I move on. I'd love to tell any number of them off when I'm on my way out, but what would be the point?

[bostonman]

How about the marriage of Marla Maples to her ex-husband?

 

Maples married her ex-husband? ?

 

Marla and his bodyguard “cucked” Donnie.

 

Ha! I think you've missed the point of my joke, lol. I think it's rather uncommon for a woman to marry her ex-husband, though it does happen (my parents being proof of that lol). But I think Maples only married trump once. And clearly, that was enough. ?

[+ SundayZip]

Maples married her ex-husband? ?

 

Ha! :D