'Collegefriend' in NY ... too young but still interesting?

[BaronArtz]

https://rent.men/collegefriend

 

A new entry into the hyper-competitive NY escort market. At a stated age of 19 I need to see ID before proceeding further. The haircut needs to change. But the eyes are sexy. Any thoughts?

[+ Reisr30]

https://rent.men/collegefriend

 

A new entry into the hyper-competitive NY escort market. At a stated age of 19 I need to see ID before proceeding further. The haircut needs to change. But the eyes are sexy. Any thoughts?

 

I agree nice eyes and definitely needs a better haircut but too young looking for me and agree whoever hires him should card him...

[+ harey]

Yes, I would card him. His RM “About Me” section is very polished for someone so young.

[BaronArtz]

I agree nice eyes and definitely needs a better haircut but too young looking for me and agree whoever hires him should card him...

 

Yes. He sent me nude pics showing fully developed male genitalia but still ... I need to see valid ID.

[BaronArtz]

I asked him about his age in RM Chat. He said

 

"First of all if your a member on this site it means you verified your age with drivers license"

 

Then, blocked me.

 

Charming!

[+ Reisr30]

I asked him about his age in RM Chat. He said

 

"First of all if your a member on this site it means you verified your age with drivers license"

 

Then, blocked me.

 

Charming!

?

[+ harey]

I asked him about his age in RM Chat. He said

 

"First of all if your a member on this site it means you verified your age with drivers license"

 

Then, blocked me.

 

Charming!

Was that the RM version of an angry teenager storming off to his room and slamming the door? ?

[Alfstoria]

https://rent.men/collegefriend

 

A new entry into the hyper-competitive NY escort market. At a stated age of 19, I need to see ID before proceeding further. The haircut needs to change. But the eyes are sexy. Any thoughts?

Nice finding, my type. About the age, usually, providers adjust the age at his looks. It happens with a 20 that was actually 30 but it looked in his 20

 

to be on the safe side I will definitely card him, but totally my type, I will reach out. if someone believes I shouldn't meet him, I will appreciate the warning.

 

best,

 

Me

[former lurker]

Nice finding, my type. About the age, usually, providers adjust the age at his looks. It happens with a 20 that was actually 30 but it looked in his 20

 

to be on the safe side I will definitely card him, but totally my type, I will reach out. if someone believes I shouldn't meet him, I will appreciate the warning.

 

best,

 

Me

 

Take him to dinner and order a bottle of wine. The restaurant will do the carding for you.

[MscleLovr]

Yes. He sent me nude pics showing fully developed male genitalia but still ... I need to see valid ID.

I asked him about his age in RM Chat. He said

"First of all if your a member on this site it means you verified your age with drivers license"

Then, blocked me.

Charming!

 

He‘s young as you say @BaronArtz. My guess is that he’s also very new to this and still finding out how to handle prospective clients.

 

Have you considered that he may simply have panicked? I mean he sent you nude pics (at your request?) and then you queried his age further. Had you reassured him that you were very serious about hiring and dating him?

[+ sync]

I imagine all providers are uncomfortable with specific questions that skew towards law enforcement.

[former lurker]

He‘s young as you say @BaronArtz. My guess is that he’s also very new to this and still finding out how to handle prospective clients.

 

Have you considered that he may simply have panicked? I mean he sent you nude pics (at your request?) and then you queried his age further. Had you reassured him that you were very serious about hiring and dating him?

 

I'm always curious about the exact sequence and wording that results in a block. What we get is a narrow view from one perspective. Not that it's unhelpful, and it's great that people share their experiences. I suppose the only way to know how he'll react is to contact him yourself.

[MikeBiDude]

Nice finding, my type. About the age, usually, providers adjust the age at his looks. It happens with a 20 that was actually 30 but it looked in his 20

 

to be on the safe side I will definitely card him, but totally my type, I will reach out. if someone believes I shouldn't meet him, I will appreciate the warning.

 

best,

 

Me

Please let us know if a meeting ends up happening.

[BaronArtz]

I imagine all providers are uncomfortable with specific questions that skew towards law enforcement.

 

I see your point. But if I was law enforcement - which I am not - I would have made the appointment, carded him and possibly arrested him.

 

Looking at it from a different perspective, could it be that this is a 'sting' ad, set up by law enforcement? Something about this doesn't feel right.

 

I hope I am wrong.

[marylander1940]

I asked him about his age in RM Chat. He said

 

"First of all if your a member on this site it means you verified your age with drivers license"

 

Then, blocked me.

 

Charming!

 

you didn't ask for anything unusual... I'm sure others would do the same. He'd better take a deep breath and relax.

[BaronArtz]

Here is the complete conversation, on RM Messenger.

 

 

Very nice! Do you offer incalls in NYC? I am definitely interested

21:11

Out calls only sorry

21:18

 

OK ... I could get a hotel. What is your fee?

21:19

Depends what you want to get into

21:24

 

First of all I will need to see ID when we meet to make sure you are of legal age. I'm sorry but I really need to ask that question

21:29

First of all if your a member on this site it means you verified your age with drivers license

 

BLOCKED

[marylander1940]

I imagine all providers are uncomfortable with specific questions that skew towards law enforcement.

 

Yes but unfortunately just chatting with a minor is a crime in most states.

 

Btw @BaronArtz tell RM what happened and suggest they should ask him to proof his age or verify his ID just to protect themselves.

[Lawkid3889]

Interesting. I know with OnlyFans they request a copy of your driver’s license or passport to make sure you are over 18 and your identity matches (and keep a copy on file-which I think may actually be legally required). I would presume that RM does the same but I guess anything can be faked. I mean if you met in person he could also offer you a fake ID too.

[former lurker]

Here is the complete conversation, on RM Messenger.

 

 

Very nice! Do you offer incalls in NYC? I am definitely interested

21:11

Out calls only sorry

21:18

 

OK ... I could get a hotel. What is your fee?

21:19

Depends what you want to get into

21:24

 

First of all I will need to see ID when we meet to make sure you are of legal age. I'm sorry but I really need to ask that question

21:29

First of all if your a member on this site it means you verified your age with drivers license

 

BLOCKED

 

I'm guessing it was the last line about verifying his age with a drivers license that led to the blocking. I'm not making excuses for him, but there's any number of reasons that line could have made him skittish. For example, a lot of online verification doesn't require a driver's license or a photo id, just a credit card in your name, billing address, etc. He may have thought he was in trouble when he was not.

 

In any event, if you have any reason at all to think someone is under age, it's best to not even contact them. Whether it's a sting, or an actual under age person with fake id, or whatever, it's playing with fire. And it's skeezy to the extreme. Sometimes we gather info because we're curious. But resisting the temptation to do so with someone who you suspect is underage is, in my view, the better course.

[KrisParr]

Yes, but the picture of him in the gray sweatpants ... sigh

[guru68]

I asked him about his age in RM Chat. He said

 

"First of all if your a member on this site it means you verified your age with drivers license"

 

Then, blocked me.

 

Charming!

As long as he didn't call you a Boomer.

[Alfstoria]

I see your point. But if I was law enforcement - which I am not - I would have made the appointment, carded him and possibly arrested him.

 

Looking at it from a different perspective, could it be that this is a 'sting' ad, set up by law enforcement? Something about this doesn't feel right.

 

I hope I am wrong.

Now i am doubting. But they may have used a younger looking one? This one definitely looks 19/20/21.

Take one for the team? :/

Edited October 7, 2020 by Alfstoria

[guru68]

Do they do even do "stings" with actual underage pics? Wouldn't that be illegal in it's own right?

[Islesguy]

For me, he should not shave the sides of his head otherwise I'm totally into his hair and pretty much everything else about his looks. Unfortunately, I'm not hiring until the pandemic is over.

[BrklynNYC]

I'm sorry to say that he charges 500. Because he is driving in from LI. Otherwise it would be 400. I tried to educate him (by preemptively saying I'm not trying to negotiate) that he was way overcharging. The response was:

 

"Sorry to inform you but the difference between them and me is I’m a luxury. I’m flown all across the world at way bigger rates. You wouldnt understand though. I’m not a cheap rental."

 

"Also this site isn’t for people that don’t have a lot of money to spend. I am by no mean trying to demean you but my client base is that of a higher elite"

 

Ok then. I hope this is just a hobby for him.