Would you go out with a trans man?

[+ poolboy48220]

I would date a trans man. But I feel like my type is human and over 18. I haven't had sex with any trans men post surgery - but I don't know any that want the surgery. Guys with a pussy. It's simple. More holes to play with, they can top just as well as cis-men, they make for great fisting tops especially if you are new to it, and because of the boxes they live outside of their perspective is keen and valuable.

 

Gender is a spectrum, and as society continues to learn and accept that the only reason we are a man or woman is because we say so, I think people are more comfortable in the skin they were born with. Honestly, it bugs me that as a species humans have been stalling on progress since men took over - as the idea of gender is removed from the existence of or desire for genitalia, I see a more Star Trek future...but hopefully not run by a mostly white male congress like Star Trek or America so far ?

Have you heard that the new "Strange New Worlds" series will include a trans and a non-binary character?

[Guest]

I would date a trans man. But I feel like my type is human and over 18. I haven't had sex with any trans men post surgery - but I don't know any that want the surgery. Guys with a pussy. It's simple. More holes to play with, they can top just as well as cis-men, they make for great fisting tops especially if you are new to it, and because of the boxes they live outside of their perspective is keen and valuable.

 

Gender is a spectrum, and as society continues to learn and accept that the only reason we are a man or woman is because we say so, I think people are more comfortable in the skin they were born with. Honestly, it bugs me that as a species humans have been stalling on progress since men took over - as the idea of gender is removed from the existence of or desire for genitalia, I see a more Star Trek future...but hopefully not run by a mostly white male congress like Star Trek or America so far ?

 

Well said, always thought you were sexy and now I like you even more, lol. Brains and a sexy bod!

[+ sniper]

I suppose I wouldn't say absolutely not, but being FTM tends to correlate with things in conflict with my sexual tastes(tattoos,piercings,vaginas, etc). It's not inconceivable that I could find one I'd be attracted to and want to date, but odds are low right off the bat.

[+ sniper]

As with cis men, the issue tends to be if I'm attracted to them they have way more options than me...

[orville]

tattoos, piercings, vaginas, etc.

LOL, did you just describe a Dyke?

[+ sniper]

LOL, did you just describe a Dyke?

Well I'm not interested in them either, but trans men(not all obviously) tend to go for a look I don't find appealing. Regarding the vagina my understanding was that most don't have bottom surgery because it's just not that advanced. It's much harder to construct a penis than a vagina.

[orville]

Regarding the vagina my understanding was that most don't have bottom surgery because it's just not that advanced. It's much harder to construct a penis than a vagina.

I think I once found a video of the procedure on Youtube. Not for the faint of heart.

Edited September 25, 2020 by orville

[Guest]

Well I'm not interested in them either, but trans men(not all obviously) tend to go for a look I don't find appealing. Regarding the vagina my understanding was that most don't have bottom surgery because it's just not that advanced. It's much harder to construct a penis than a vagina.

 

What look would that be? I've known many trans men and they all have their own look. One of my friends is trans and he looks like a cute innocent twink. Another is more punk with tattoos and I've known one that looks like a preppy guy.

[+ sniper]

Indeed there are MTFs of every look, that's not the same thing as every look is equally represented numerically, at least if we look on,say, rentmen. TBH cis men with the hipster beards and excessive tattoos are trending in a direction I find less attractive as well.

The vagina/lack of a penis would - for me - be a significant impediment regardless.

[MikeBiDude]

What look would that be?

Indeed there are MTFs of every look,

I’ve met with a few in my past. The “look” can be very different and is every FTM individual’s choice. What I usually see is a trend to as much hairiness, facial hair, etc. as possible, I’m guessing to emphasize their “masculinity”. I don’t know...??‍♂️Just speculation on my part. Since I am in general usually attracted to younger/smoother/Twinkish men....those uber-masculine FTM are usually not as attractive to me.

 

But...I always had a good time with the ones I’ve met irregardless of the look, one was “twinkish” and was an absolute delight In the bedroom ?

 

Quick side note and don’t want to start thread drift...I had a very personal and long friendship with a beautiful bottom twink male escort who decided to transition, MTF. I continued to see him during early transition and it was FUN. Ultimately she met a sugar daddy in WeHo and stopped seeing anyone else.

[Guest]

I’ve met with a few in my past. The “look” can be very different and is every FTM individual’s choice. What I usually see is a trend to as much hairiness, facial hair, etc. as possible, I’m guessing to emphasize their “masculinity”. I don’t know...??‍♂️Just speculation on my part. Since I am in general usually attracted to younger/smoother/Twinkish men....those uber-masculine FTM are usually not as attractive to me.

 

But...I always had a good time with the ones I’ve met irregardless of the look, one was “twinkish” and was an absolute delight In the bedroom ?

 

Quick side note and don’t want to start thread drift...I had a very personal and long friendship with a beautiful bottom twink male escort who decided to transition, MTF. I continued to see him during early transition and it was FUN. Ultimately she met a sugar daddy in WeHo and stopped seeing anyone else.

 

Love to hear you continued to be with them as they transitioned. For me it's the soul of the person I find attractive regardless of their gender. I know that sounds all hippy cliche but it's who I am.

[+ WilliamM]

 

But...I always had a good time with the ones I’ve met irregardless of the look, one was “twinkish” and was an absolute delight In the bedroom ?

 

Quick side note and don’t want to start thread drift...I had a very personal and long friendship with a beautiful bottom twink male escort who decided to transition, MTF. I continued to see him during early transition and it was FUN. Ultimately she met a sugar daddy in WeHo and stopped seeing anyone else.

 

So happy to see such a positive outlook on life.

 

Over 40 years ago, the secretary in the office didn't mention her husband had transitioned to female. However, she did speak up when an a-hole made jokes about it in general.

 

That took courage back then.