YourGuySteven in DC 411

[jtaq1295]

Hi all,

 

With 39 reviews and nothing on here I'm skeptical of YourGuySteven.

 

Any insight? Name change?

 

https://rentmen.eu/YourGuySteven

[BabyBoomer]

Hi all,

 

With 39 reviews and nothing on here I'm skeptical of YourGuySteven.

 

Any insight? Name change?

 

https://rentmen.eu/YourGuySteven

 

He has RM review from @keroscenefire.

 

~Boomer~

[+ keroscenefire]

Yes..I met with him. I reviewed him on Daddy's (note that he changed his name and used to go by Jake instead of Steven). I am happy to provide details in PM.

[GR0981]

I saw him recently while he was in Denver. Not so great experience.

[adventurous old guy]

There's been a lot of discussion here, quite mixed. Here's the most recent thread:

 

https://m4m-forum.org/threads/theguysteven.154119/#post-1936844

[GR0981]

He was very nice I thought, I can see the self absorbed part, but he was engaged in asking about me. It's just when it came down to the main reason I was there, he just didn't perform what was agreed upon and was incredibly passive to the point it felt like he had no interest. If you're a chatty client who likes to talk, he's great. Otherwise I didn't get what I was there for.

[Guest leftbench23]

I didn't have any issues with "performance," but yes definitely the self-absorbed part.

He was totally self-absorbed during our session and felt like he was just going through the motions until our time was up.

[+ keroscenefire]

He was totally self-absorbed during our session and felt like he was just going through the motions until our time was up.

 

Personally, I disagree that he was just"going through the motions" with me. He is a good escort and I had fun with him. He performed well, is very handsome and was a perfectly nice guy. Just didn't click with him for whatever reason. I would still recommend him though to others.

Edited August 16, 2020 by keroscenefire

[GR0981]

Personally, I disagree that he was just"going through the motions." He is a good escort and I had fun with him. He performed well, is very handsome and was a perfectly nice guy. Just didn't click with him for whatever reason. I would still recommend him though to others.

 

You can't disagree on someone else's experience. lol I'm glad he performed well for you. He did not for me and would not perform some very basic things that was agreed upon before the appointment. And we got along and I was freshly showered and clean for the appointment.

[+ keroscenefire]

You can't disagree on someone else's experience. lol I'm glad he performed well for you. He did not for me and would not perform some very basic things that was agreed upon before the appointment. And we got along and I was freshly showered and clean for the appointment.

 

Yeah that's why I said "personally." Sorry you didn't have a good experience with him. My experience was good overall, though I would say we didn't connect on our personalities very well. I think it can be tricky with some escorts because if you don't have good chemistry, it kind of ends up being disappointing. I just recently had a massage that was supposed to be erotic, but I guess the guy wasn't feeling it so it ended up being a regular (but relaxing) therapeutic massage. I definitely was disappointed but at the same time I am not going to knock the guy too much because he still gave me something that I enjoyed overall. Though am I going to hire that masseur again? Definitely not.

 

I think being an escort is hard...they are not always going to connect with a client and vice versa. I've kind of learned that myself over the years and if I find a guy I do connect with he becomes a regular. If not, then oh well..it's a one-off. But for another client, that same kind could be an amazing connection completely worth spending the time and money on.

[adventurous old guy]

He was very nice I thought, I can see the self absorbed part, but he was engaged in asking about me. If you're a chatty client who likes to talk, he's great. Otherwise I didn't get what I was there for.

Very like my experience, which was 3 years ago. Seems like his modus operandi is still the same.

 

I think being an escort is hard...they are not always going to connect with a client and vice versa. I've kind of learned that myself over the years and if I find a guy I do connect with he becomes a regular. If not, then oh well..it's a one-off. But for another client, that same kind could be an amazing connection completely worth spending the time and money on.

I agree that being an escort is probably hard. And the corollary is that guys who aren't able to deliver on what they think they can should maybe move on to a different business field.

Edited August 16, 2020 by adventurous old guy

[GR0981]

It's absolutely fine if an escort can't connect with a client, but It's not fine that an escort agrees to everything before the appointment and enthusiastically says "I'm into whatever you like to make you happy" and then come time he then says everything is conditional - and then expect full payment upfront.

 

He uses talking as a way to burn time. I would gesture that I was ready to get to business and then he'd keep talking and then give consent to move on with ten minutes left on the clock. There’s much better and plenty of providers out there that don’t waste any time and work their magic for the full hour. He’s just not one of them.

[adventurous old guy]

Now in Chicago, with another new variation on his handle...

 

https://rentmen.eu/SexxySteven/#platinum

[DomDecisiveDaddy]

He was totally self-absorbed during our session and felt like he was just going through the motions until our time was up.

I’m pretty offended by this. I am absolutely not self absorbed. I’m one of the friendliest guys i know on the site and told that regularly. ??‍♂️

[DomDecisiveDaddy]

It's absolutely fine if an escort can't connect with a client, but It's not fine that an escort agrees to everything before the appointment and enthusiastically says "I'm into whatever you like to make you happy" and then come time he then says everything is conditional - and then expect full payment upfront.

 

He uses talking as a way to burn time. I would gesture that I was ready to get to business and then he'd keep talking and then give consent to move on with ten minutes left on the clock. There’s much better and plenty of providers out there that don’t waste any time and work their magic for the full hour. He’s just not one of them.

This is completely inaccurate. Are you sure you’re thinking of me? I have NEVER agreed to “anything you want to make you happy” EVER. I would never say that and give false hope or set expectations for myself. I’m Not naïve enough to do or say such a thing. That is not the way i communicate. I say, “we choose how we would like to spend our time together in private”

And yes, if In person we have No chemistry, NO I’m Not going to do whatever you want. It’s a matter of mutual respect. My clients are gentlemen, not pigs. If you want someone who’s a robot, buy a blow up doll or pay $80 for a inexpensive, low rent budget hooker. That is not me. You sound disgusting by this message. Probably why i didn’t touch you. Sorry if i sound so harsh but i take my job seriously, I’m friendly and caring and conduct myself professionally. I see hundreds of clients regularly. All very happy and satisfied. Those who are pushy, rude, and demanding do not get what they want. Those who are chivalrous, polite, respectful and have a good heart, absolutely get what they want. ONLY for those, do i go the extra mile for. You couldn’t walk a day in my shoes. Shame on you.

[DomDecisiveDaddy]

Yeah that's why I said "personally." Sorry you didn't have a good experience with him. My experience was good overall, though I would say we didn't connect on our personalities very well. I think it can be tricky with some escorts because if you don't have good chemistry, it kind of ends up being disappointing. I just recently had a massage that was supposed to be erotic, but I guess the guy wasn't feeling it so it ended up being a regular (but relaxing) therapeutic massage. I definitely was disappointed but at the same time I am not going to knock the guy too much because he still gave me something that I enjoyed overall. Though am I going to hire that masseur again? Definitely not.

 

I think being an escort is hard...they are not always going to connect with a client and vice versa. I've kind of learned that myself over the years and if I find a guy I do connect with he becomes a regular. If not, then oh well..it's a one-off. But for another client, that same kind could be an amazing connection completely worth spending the time and money on.

Thank you for this well said and level-headed and mature reply to this man. I appreciate you defending me. Some people set such unrealistic expectations for appointments and assume just because they are “showered”, what should be standard anyway, that I’m going to hop to my knees and go to town on them, they must have lost their minds. Chemistry is one thing that can’t and shouldn’t be faked. I’m happy you understand this and aren’t a rude, pushy and indecent person like many, many, clients are. Then they come on here to bash us out of spite and potentially hurt our reputation and the ability to make a living. Shame on them.

[DomDecisiveDaddy]

Very like my experience, which was 3 years ago. Seems like his modus operandi is still the same.

 

 

I agree that being an escort is probably hard. And the corollary is that guys who aren't able to deliver on what they think they can should maybe move on to a different business field.

Wow, “adventures of an old guy” you really never cease at sounding like a pig. Why don’t you either adventure into a retirement home already and play checkers in the aviary or retire your hands form your keyboard and put a sock in it

[DomDecisiveDaddy]

He was totally self-absorbed during our session and felt like he was just going through the motions until our time was up.

Becaus we had no chemistry, you ignored that and still kept on being pushy and demanding, you sounded very impatient and acted disrespectful, so yes i did just go through the motions at that point, lucky for you i didn’t end the season early and as you to please leave. I sure did sound self absorbed because I don’t try hard for your low class type, little boy clientele. I intentionally put on an arrogant facade. I learned it’s the best (and most fun) way to handle that type of asshole

[former lurker]

Becaus we had no chemistry, you ignored that and still kept on being pushy and demanding, you sounded very impatient and acted disrespectful, so yes i did just go through the motions at that point, lucky for you i didn’t end the season early and as you to please leave. I sure did sound self absorbed because I don’t try hard for your low class type, little boy clientele. I intentionally put on an arrogant facade. I learned it’s the best (and most fun) way to handle that type of asshole

 

What do you think your responses are signalling to potential clients who read them? Sometimes responding defensively is counterproductive -- you end up making yourself look worse.

[+ azdr0710]

Variation on my handle? I’m sorry that you’re confused by the way the platforms coding is depicted. I didn’t write the algorithm. the “#platinum” is simply what automaticity adds to the end of any profile who gets upgraded to the platinum level membership. It’s not an attempt to be sneaky or trick anyone. Silly you. This sounds like a few of the angry middle school girls who sit at the table where those without friends sit and gossip amongst one another. Explains so much! ?

 

 

I truly pity some of you. If i was even remotely close bad at my job i wouldn’t clear 700k a year,

??‍♂️ I have 14 men who I have a monthly allowance from, lowest being $3,000 a month, the highest (currently) is $18,000 a month plus gifts and shopping. The highest last year who helped me for almost 4 years just got back together with his wife so out of respect for her we ended our arrangement, he was giving me $40k per month. And on top of that i still make time to see clients because i feel like there should be more love and happiness in this world and i LOVE meeting sweet, good hearted gentlemen and making a moment special for them and enriching their life in whatever way i can. It’s funny that it really seems like only a few, sad individuals seem to post their “experiences” to this site. None of the men who helped me reach my 10 day goal of $15k that I set for myself twice a month are on this site. I work ten days, take ten off and travel, shop and pamper myself, and then work another ten days. ? It’s a great life. Next week when I’m in the Hamptons at one of my gentlemen’s homes I’ll make sure to send some good and happy thoughts your way. Aww, i just love south Hampton in off season, after Labor Day. It’s quiet, relaxing with crisp, fresh cold ocean air ?☺. Bye now! ?

 

AOG is referring to your newest handle, Sexxy Steven, not the 'platinum' word. He is one of the most well-regarded forum members.

[adventurous old guy]

Golly, somebody got up on the wrong side of the bed today!

 

Steven, like it or not, when a service provider changes his name frequently its a red flag. People - me or others -- will notice and comment here, and we're going to share our opinions based on our experiences. It's what we do. It's what this forum is for.

[adventurous old guy]

AOG is referring to your newest handle, Sexxy Steven, not the 'platinum' word. He is one of the most well-regarded forum members.

Thx AZDR, appreciate it. I do my best here to be fair and civil. I see a similar approach in your posts as well.

[DomDecisiveDaddy]

Golly, somebody got up on the wrong side of the bed today!

 

Steven, like it or not, when a service provider changes his name frequently its a red flag. People - me or others -- will notice and comment here, and we're going to share our opinions based on our experiences. It's what we do. It's what this forum is for.

You boys are funny.

[DomDecisiveDaddy]

I'm glad for you that your career has been so successful and that it has brought you such rewards.

Thank you. I’m very lucky

[DomDecisiveDaddy]

Golly, somebody got up on the wrong side of the bed today!

 

Steven, like it or not, when a service provider changes his name frequently its a red flag. People - me or others -- will notice and comment here, and we're going to share our opinions based on our experiences. It's what we do. It's what this forum is for.

Sorry i was rude in my last message. It’s just hard to stick up for yourself against people who have never been in our shoes.

 

tbh i change my handle often for one because i hate all the ones i choose and can’t think of a good catchy one for the life of me. Haha. Don’t try new ones that seem better or more sexy or whatever. Also sometimes i change my handle when i get stalkers.This job can become really scary at times. more than clients can even fathom