Rates for extended sessions

[MscleLovr]

It was a generous act on your part @Luv2play I hope he remembers and is equally generous with his time when you next meet.

[Jimjaxon3]

I don’t expect a multi hour rate but I ask. When I first started hiring I had a guy I clicked with. He asked if I wanted him to stay for another round and I said I don’t know if I could afford it. He said well you did 2 hours so the third is only 100 since I’m already here. After that I ask.. if they say no I just put that in my decision making. One did 300 for first hour 200 second and 100 for every additional. It was how he got to 1k for 8 hr overnight

[Wolfer]

He had already bought the new tickets, which had no refund feature, before advising me of the change. The original train was cancelled. I know this to be the case as it didn’t show up in town later. I have been with the escort before and he is a nice guy. He would have been out of pocket for the tickets he ended up not using which cost him $200. So I covered the cost. We both ended up losing.

Hmm, yeah, I can see that... Very generous of you given that his proposal to "compensate", to my mind, was not quite fair.

[Luv2play]

I actually ended up thinking there was no real way for him to compensate for the unfortunate change in the timing of his arrival, which was no fault of his. I briefly considered asking him to reduce his fee, which was quite generous, but then thought the three hour delay in getting started would throw everything off by too much. By the time we got through a leisurely dinner and relaxing after, we would not get to bed before midnight and I would be too exhausted to enjoy it very much. I do enjoy playtime in the morning before breakfast, which is a key feature for me in an overnight date, but the added time after breakfast of one hour did not appeal to me much since going straight back to bed again was something I couldn’t get my head around. I’ve paid cancellation fees before when I thought it appropriate and did so this time un begrudgingly. I’m still on good terms with this escort and I am sure we will get together in the future.

[Luv2play]

To fully understand my motivations, you should also know that from my previous date with him, he throws a mean fuck and I mean that in the nicest sense of the term. So I would like to see him again at some point.

[muscmtl]

Fukkkk

So many of u able to just drop 1k here and there. Admins should rename "M4M forum" to "The lives of the rich and horny"

[MscleLovr]

If no-one ever spent money on pleasure, the world’s oldest profession would cease to exist.

[muscmtl]

If no-one ever spent money on pleasure, the world’s oldest profession would cease to exist.

The oldest profession existed for so long because there are way more "20$ a bj whores" than "1k a night" ones. I guarantee that had it been the reverse, whoring would have ended the say it started?

[+ FrankR]

The oldest profession existed for so long because there are way more "20$ a bj whores" than "1k a night" ones. I guarantee that had it been the reverse, whoring would have ended the say it started?

 

If no-one ever spent money on pleasure, the world’s oldest profession would cease to exist.

 

Let's get a few things straight. ?

 

There is no proof that prostitution is the oldest profession. https://www.herebeanswers.com/2015/06/is-prostitution-really-oldest.html This was made up after WW1 by poets and politicians.

 

Second, putting somebody down who is willing to give a blowjob for $20 by calling them a "whore" says more about you than it does about them. At least extend to them the courtesy of calling them "Mr Whore".

 

Third, your "guarantee" that higher cost would have "ended whoring" makes no sense to those who have studied even the most basic of economics and are familiar with the supply vs demand curve.

 

Think on that a bit.

 

[+ Pensant]

The oldest profession existed for so long because there are way more "20$ a bj whores" than "1k a night" ones. I guarantee that had it been the reverse, whoring would have ended the say it started?

A thousand bucks isn’t what it used to be, sadly.

[+ Pensant]

With Covid-19, weekends aren’t as fun as they used to be. Two-hour engagements have always been my favorite. Overnights with me are fun since I like a nice session before bed and rarely have more than two rounds. I don’t even mind if the provider sleeps in a separate bed. Even the most fun companions are gratefully seen off right after breakfast.

[Epigonos]

For years I used to see an escort who reveled in referring to himself as a “who” or “whore”. I have frequently referred to myself as a whoremonger. Getting upset over the use of these words is silly. In English what is hurtful is how the words are inflected NOT the words themselves. Many very neutral words can become hurtful if they are used or inflected in a certain ways. Grow a thicker skin guys and stop being so touchy about words.

 

P.S. I used to shudder at the thought of someone calling me a cocksucker. Now I respond "damn right and damn good at it"

Edited August 15, 2020 by Epigonos

[+ FrankR]

For years I used to see an escort who reveled in referring to himself as a “who” or “whore”. I have frequently referred to myself as a whoremonger. Getting upset over the use of these words is silly. In English what is hurtful is how the words are inflected NOT the words themselves. Many very neutral words can become hurtful if they are used or inflected in a certain ways. Grow a thicker skin guys and stop being so touchy about words.

 

P.S. I used to shudder at the thought of someone called me a cocksucker. Now I respond "damn right and damn good at it"

Fairly spoken. I will have to work on growing a thicker skin. And apparently on my cocksucking skills! ?

 

I realize this discussion has lured me away from the purpose of the thread.

 

That being said, how people refer to themselves is their choice. I have referred to myself, jokingly, as an "old slut" - even though I am not that old and not particularly slutty. But I draw the line at calling somebody else a slut. Who am I to label others - even if the tone is light and humorous. It is still a dick move - I expect better from myself and the GLBTQ community.

 

In defense of my thin skin, whatever thick skin I had in the past, have been worn away by those who call themselves our leaders - who gleefully label others with derogatory labels. These leaders (business, politics, sports) also shamelessly ignore facts and twist reality to suit their needs despite the harm it does to the fabric of our reality. So when I see that kind of thing I tend to call it out...

 

[MscleLovr]

@FrankR I like the observation you posted from Darrin Patrick

[Jimjaxon3]

Fukkkk

So many of u able to just drop 1k here and there. Admins should rename "M4M forum" to "The lives of the rich and horny"

Dropping 1k are few and far between. Wish they weren’t but they are.

[funvolta]

It so much depends on an escort and your personal wishes/demands. For me 1 hr is usually enough. Have done 2 hours 2 times in my life when I was not really sober. Once it was my regular guy and he did 2 hrs for me for the price of 1 hr. 2nd time it was so to speak semi-regular and 500x2hrs. My 2 hrs appointment with him appeared to be much worse than previous 1 hr appointment

[orville]

I like 2h sessions but I mostly can afford 1h ones. I'm planning to have an overnight with one of my favourites just because we have fantastic chemistry in every 1h session and he always leaves me wanting more, but I'm still trying to find my decision, courage, and money for that.

[+ Steve yabsley]

For me, I seem to be tending towards 2 or 3 hour Sessions - even for first hires. Still like o/n’s, but as you say, the chemistry needs to be right.

 

I‘m not a fan of linear rates (xx for 1 hour, 2xx for 2 hours, 3xx for 3 hours.....). Seems to push me towards 1 hour sessions and i think of those as test runs.

 

But, damn, Covid-19 makes life suck.

[Guest Justin7402]

For me, I seem to be tending towards 2 or 3 hour Sessions - even for first hires. Still like o/n’s, but as you say, the chemistry needs to be right.

 

I‘m not a fan of linear rates (xx for 1 hour, 2xx for 2 hours, 3xx for 3 hours.....). Seems to push me towards 1 hour sessions and i think of those as test runs.

 

But, damn, Covid-19 makes life suck.

 

I've pretty much only done one hour sessions, a few have run short or long but somewhere around there. If covid is hurting the quality of your experience maybe just save the money you would have spent on a subpar night out and next year when it's all cleared up you can go on an amazing vacation with a couple hot guys =p