Too picky to find a scort in NYC

[MeatHead]

I am only into masc muscle men.

 

The only one I felt attracted to lost much of his mass physique during the pandemia and he's already gone anyways. We never met.

 

Another one is gorgeous but he is only 5'8 (I am 5'11 and usually go for guys around my height). That is a turn off for me.

 

There is one I like but we already had a weird interaction in the past. So he is discarted. The guy has also a partner and that's even weirder.

 

In conclusion, there is no other scort in the city I would pay a damn for. I don't find one I truly like. I've seen some from other cities/countries that are on point but they don't seem to come around any time soon.

 

Honestly, I am not even unattractive myself. I am just not sociable enough to hook up and my body doesn't currently help. Muscle guys will often go for muscle guys.

 

Help.

Edited July 16, 2020 by nycboi

[MeatHead]

Please feel free to post some muscle guys options in the city to choose from if you like.

[Gymowner]

there is no help for you. that comes from inside. if you want to sabotage your chances... so be it. its a free world

[MeatHead]

I guess my self-steem is over the top that I am being this picky. It isn't bad at the end of the day. We all have ours tastes.

[+ goosh69]

I guess my self-steem is over the top that I am being this picky. It isn't bad at the end of the day. We all have ours tastes.

If you’re paying, pay for what you want.

[+ BenjaminNicholas]

I am only into masc muscle men.

 

The only one I felt attracted to lost much of his mass physique during the pandemia and he's already gone anyways. We never met.

 

Another one is gorgeous but he is only 5'8 (I am 5'11 and usually go for guys around my height). That is a turn off for me.

 

There is one I like but we already had a weird interaction in the past. So he is discarted. The guy has also a partner and that's even weirder.

 

In conclusion, there is no other scort in the city I would pay a damn for. I don't find one I truly like. I've seen some from other cities/countries that are on point but they don't seem to come around any time soon.

 

Honestly, I am not even unattractive myself. I am just not sociable enough to hook up and my body doesn't currently help. Muscle guys will often go for muscle guys.

 

Help.

 

It would be easier to get the help you asked for if your original post didn't come across as judgemental and a little douchey.

 

Think about the end goal before you post.

 

We are all human beings here.

[MeatHead]

If you’re paying, pay for what you want.

 

Exactly. This is an essential thing I am taking in consideration.

[MeatHead]

It would be easier to get the help you asked for if your original post didn't come across as judgemental and a little douchey.

 

Think about the end goal before you post.

 

We are all human beings here.

 

I didn't mean to offend anyone with my original post. I guess some people just like to take things out of context.

[former lurker]

I didn't mean to offend anyone with my original post. I guess some people just like to take things out of context.

 

Careless and thoughtless comments aren't "taken out of context". As the writer, it's up to you to supply the context and to be aware of how you come across. If your goal is to get others to help you out with their thoughts, coming off as judgemental and above other clients is counterproductive.

[JulianLondon]

This one sounds perfect to me. Would love to know who he is?

 

[ Another one is gorgeous but he is only 5'8 (I am 5'11 and usually go for guys around my height). That is a turn off for me. ]

[marylander1940]

This one sounds perfect to me. Would love to know who he is?

 

[ Another one is gorgeous but he is only 5'8 (I am 5'11 and usually go for guys around my height). That is a turn off for me. ]

 

@nycboi Maybe he can wear high heels... ? ?

 

Nobody is too tall or too short in the bed.

[CCMaryland]

@nycboi Maybe he can wear high heels... ? ?

 

Nobody is too tall or too short in the bed.

All cats are grey in the dark.

[Daverwr]

I’ve been talking to this hot provider in NYC. He is very nice, intelligent and worldly. Perhaps he will meet your exacting standards. (Honestly, we all have exacting standards.) Although it shows travel ending in NYC, he actually lives there.

 

Www.rentmen.eu/ERIC_FIT

[MeatHead]

Careless and thoughtless comments aren't "taken out of context". As the writer, it's up to you to supply the context and to be aware of how you come across. If your goal is to get others to help you out with their thoughts, coming off as judgemental and above other clients is counterproductive.

 

I never mentioned anything about other clients. Saying things like "I'm not unattractive" does not automatically mean I tried to implied most of the other clients are (in case that this was the part that made me look like douchey and that was misinterpreted, oh God.. ).

 

Anyways, thanks for the advise.

Edited July 16, 2020 by nycboi

[MeatHead]

@nycboi Maybe he can wear high heels... ? ?

 

Nobody is too tall or too short in the bed.

 

True! Hahaha

 

It's also that this will be my first time hiring and I somewhat want to make come true my fantasy.

[marylander1940]

True! Hahaha

 

It's also that this will be my first time hiring and I somewhat want to make come true my fantasy.

 

How old are you?

 

Can you post a picture of your fantasy guy good enough for you to pay him?

[MeatHead]

How old are you?

 

Can you post a picture of your fantasy guy good enough for you to pay him?

 

I'm turning 37 next week.

 

I'm aware that my standards can be high:

 

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[+ BenjaminNicholas]

I didn't mean to offend anyone with my original post. I guess some people just like to take things out of context.

 

I appreciate you're not out to troll this board.

 

Context... We don't know you personally: We only know what you present us. That is the only context on a message board. Your original post mentioned a guy you 'discarted' (sic) which stuck me as an incredibly cold- and douchey- way to describe an interaction with an escort.

 

As I said before, use your words wisely if you want quality information from the minds here.

[MeatHead]

I appreciate you're not out to troll this board.

 

Context... We don't know you personally: We only know what you present us. That is the only context on a message board. Your original post mentioned a guy you 'discarted' (sic) which stuck me as an incredibly cold- and douchey- way to describe an interaction with an escort.

 

As I said before, use your words wisely if you want quality information from the minds here.

 

Understood.

 

Does it count if I say that English is my second language btw.?

[+ BenjaminNicholas]

Does it count if I say that English is my second language?

 

Of course

 

I appreciate you sharing that info.

[down_to_business]

Could possibly be someone who is not a native speaker ...

 

LOL you posted just as I was thinking this is the issue!

[MeatHead]

Great!

[MeatHead]

I went to college here and everything but sometimes I do make some silly mistakes...

 

To that you also have to add the fact that I often post from my phone while doing other things (I know I know).

 

Very likely that I didn't properly proofread that post. It happens...

[orville]