What are your dealbreakers?

[muscmtl]

For me, any of the following

• Doesn't kiss
  
• Doesn't rim
  
• Doesn't btm bb
  
• Doesn't swallow
  

[+ FrankR]

For me, any of the following

• Doesn't kiss
  
• Doesn't rim
  
• Doesn't btm bb
  
• Doesn't swallow
  

If you require bareback, shouldn’t you add: Doesnt know his STD status? ?

[Guest]

• Too expensive
  
• Unresponsive/slow response
  
• Tiny nipples ?
  

[jawjateck]

PNP

Cash advances/deposits

Not into me

 

[marylander1940]

For me, any of the following

• Doesn't kiss
  
• Doesn't rim
  
• Doesn't btm bb
  
• Doesn't swallow
  

 

My only deal breakers are: PNP and attitude.

 

Was this thread inspired by @Lazarus ?

 

Since when do you require mandatory BB?

 

Do escorts ask you to wash your cock before you put in their mouths for them to swallow your load?

Edited July 2, 2020 by marylander1940

[Guest]

I left off PNP and cash advances! Oh and attitude, that's a big one. If in my first interaction you cop an attitude, forget it. I had an escort in Nashville who went off on me because I emailed instead of calling him per his profile. He continued to be blunt and cocky and I told him to forget it. Porn actor or not (didn't rise to porn star level) I can do better for free. Or hire Seamus!

[marylander1940]

If you require bareback, shouldn’t you add: Doesnt know his STD status? ?

 

Since PrEP came into our lives for some asking if someone has HIV has become politically incorrect.

[liubit]

• Doesn’t kiss is a HUGE, major dealbreaker
  
• Full beard turns me off, but a stubble is tolerable (it actually adds some nice tingling when getting sucked or rimmed)
  
• Tattoos: the larger, the worse
  
• Hairy, except for legs: I find the combination of smooth torso and hairy legs simply irresistible
  

[+ Pensant]

I left off PNP and cash advances! Oh and attitude, that's a big one. If in my first interaction you cop an attitude, forget it. I had an escort in Nashville who went off on me because I emailed instead of calling him per his profile. He continued to be blunt and cocky and I told him to forget it. Porn actor or not (didn't rise to porn star level) I can do better for free. Or hire Seamus!

Do these providers look promising? Or too twinkish?

https://rentmen.eu/Jasonabarth

https://rentmen.eu/Cityboytoy

[Guest]

Do these providers look promising? Or too twinkish?

https://rentmen.eu/Jasonabarth

https://rentmen.eu/Cityboytoy

 

Jason for sure, the other is a little too twinkish. I also like these two:

 

https://rent.men/BohemainBadBoy

 

https://rent.men/LeviSimon

[EastbayMike]

Doesn't kiss.

Tattoos.

Piercings.

Body shaving.

No face pic in profile.

Doesn't smile in any pics.

PNP.

Too many specific demands.

Profile names that include king, prince, stud, model, Adonis...

[+ Pensant]

Jason’s a nice choice.

[MscleLovr]

When I hired, dealbreakers were

1. No kissing

2. Refusal to be specific/confirm we’d be compatible

3. Demanding payment in advance/on arrival

4. Using inaccurate/stolen photos

5. Poor personal hygiene

[orville]

6" or less / dick with visible scars, deformities or signs of disease, "enhancements" or modifications.

PNP as it often comes along with a limp dick, drama and under performance.

Too many (prison) tattoos covering most of his body.

Piercings or tattoos in or around erogenous areas: nipples, lower back, pubis, dick.

BDSM / Leather pics on his profile.

Too many (negative or fake) reviews.

Steroid-based massive muscles - usually come along with very small balls and a matching load.

It uses expressions like "nasty", "pig", "insatiable", "dirty" and similars as part of his profile or service description.

Rate way lower, or higher than my budget.

Attitude (probably related to the 2 items below)

Asks for upfront deposit or booking fee.

Asks for my picture.

No shows (no second chances).

Shortens the meeting duration.

Bushes

Bad breath and hygiene and raunchy smells in body parts.

Doesn't treat me as a person but rather as the next client of the day.

Edited July 3, 2020 by orville

[down_to_business]

As others have listed:

 

No kissing

PNP

Cash advances/deposits

demands my photo

takes me for granted/treats me like an ATM

 

listing financial domination as an interest or specialty

offering discounts for young&good looking

demanding an uber, your own hotel, or first class travel etc.

Edited July 2, 2020 by down_to_business

[EastbayMike]

After reading wsc's thread I need to add one finger salutes to my previous list. Major turn off for me.

[Daverwr]

No kissing

Ultra high rates

Face I find unattractive

Safe only

No listing of DDF, Neg. on PrEP

FF as an advertised preference

[Quincy_7]

Smelly feet, not douching, and asking when I'm going to cum. The last one especially is the most irritating.

[+ bashful]

Not into me

 

Especially that.

 

(besides some of the others listed, such as kissing)

[+ bashful]

takes me for granted

 

That too.

[+ pitman]

Deodorant

Cologne

[liubit]

I agree with you, @pitman. I enjoy sniffing natural man scent, so no cologne. And then, deodorant is particularly foul when, like me, you are into licking pits.

[rustyrex]

Bad attitude

High cost for lack luster service

Not douching beforehand

Demand of pics and money prior to meeting

Asking me when I'm going to cum (I take my time and I pay for as long as it takes!)

Catfishes (a pet peeve of mine)

Ghosting when I follow up for our meeting time

Blaming me for anything wrong with the appointment

[muscmtl]

Strict tops.

If he don't btm, bye

[+ RJD]

Strict tops.

If he don't btm, bye

 

Give your strict tops my digits. ?