Cum or Not Cum, That is the Question ...

[muscmtl]

0% care if escort cum, or even get a hardon. I always tell them "no need to waste a blue pill" Escort is hot and wants me to cum in ass/mouth: done. Cum is a must for me

[orville]

0% care if escort cum, or even get a hardon. I always tell them "no need to waste a blue pill" Escort is hot and wants me to cum in ass/mouth: done. Cum is a must for me

They don't do Tops like you anymore.

[orville]

Unfortunately Viagra delays the orgasm

Is that a bad thing?! I like a Top who can bang me for long before giving me a big fat load.

In your place I would offer a generous tip to make him save it for you.

Or discuss it beforehand as the pros recommended.

I'm not a "minute man" ... when I was young I would take my time to cum

Mmmm, who knows if you could've ever had success as an escort ?

[marylander1940]

Is that a bad thing?! I like a Top who can bang me for long before giving me a big fat load.

 

 

 

Or discuss it beforehand as the pros recommended.

 

 

 

No it's not a bad thing delaying the orgasm but some clients want the guy to cum NOW!

 

Yes, discu$$!

 

Mmmm, who knows if you could've ever had success as an escort ?

 

I guarantee you most posters and guys who hire ask themselves that question.

[Islesguy]

I saw someone once who said he didn't want to cum because he had a client after me who wanted him to do so. I told him it was fine and we hadn't talked about that beforehand anyway. Plus it's not something that I care much about.

 

While I was drying off from my shower, he got a call from that client who then cancelled on him. I really thought about asking if he wanted me to get him off, but he already given me much more time than I had booked. I probably should have gone for it or even offered to buy him dinner. Oh well.

[big-n-tall]

• Do you get annoyed when the provider doesn't cum in the session?
  
• Do you think it's a given, or it has to be discussed / agreed beforehand, always?
  
• Is there any common practice or industry standard about this when hiring?
  
• Do they have the right not to cum since they might see other client next in the same day?
  
• What's the best way to handle this issue if you do want (his) cum in the end?
  

 

First and foremost, I like when the provider cums but it's not a requirement that he must. Some guys can cum multiple times a day (some even back-to-back), others are one and done. I know many guys see multiple clients a day. So no, I don't get annoyed if he doesn't. If it's important to you that the provider cums, make sure he knows that ahead of time.

 

There is no industry standard per se. You're dealing in an unregulated profession (in this country anyway) and each provider does things that work for them. Yes, they have a right not to cum. They are not machines and have free will. Seriously though, for your last 2 questions, see my previous statements as it relates to wanting the provider to orgasm. However, you must realize sometimes the human body doesn't respond the way we want it to, no matter how aroused we are. Putting demands/pressure on somebody to cum may be a roadblock to what you want.

 

There have only been a few guys who have not cum (for various reasons) when we had encounters. One provider and I have seen each other for about a decade and only once he couldn't cum. He just couldn't do it. Every other time, he flat out tells me I want to cum and we make that happen lol. Another, I've seen almost as long asked me ahead of time could he hold off cumming one session. I said it was fine. All the rest of the times he made sure he delivered, as it were. The other 3, as I recall, don't always cum because they are pretty much one and doners. We have fun regardless of them cumming or not.

[MscleLovr]

I’m a top only but I definitely want to see my guy cum too. I find it hot if he unloads while I’m topping him. I find it VERY hot if he’s sucking me off and he unloads as my cum hits the back of his throat.

 

Along with passionate kissing, it forms an integral part of any date as far as I’m concerned. With a new guy, I just used to say that “lots of kissing and seeing you cum are very important to me“ - I never had anyone demur.

[Trick]

 

As for this thread overall I’m in the category of please drench my face and mouth with your cum.

 

 

Bukkake is my all-time fantasy. It was so hot with two guys shooting their load all over my face. I can only imagine having 10 or more dicks aimed at my face.

[orville]

I saw someone once who said he didn't want to cum because he had a client after me who wanted him to do so. I told him it was fine and we hadn't talked about that beforehand anyway. Plus it's not something that I care much about.

 

While I was drying off from my shower, he got a call from that client who then cancelled on him. I really thought about asking if he wanted me to get him off, but he already given me much more time than I had booked. I probably should have gone for it or even offered to buy him dinner. Oh well.

OMG, as soon as he hung up the phone I would have fallen to my knees to start sucking like a newborn ?

[orville]

• Do you get annoyed when the provider doesn't cum in the session?
  
• Do you think it's a given, or it has to be discussed / agreed beforehand, always?
  
• Is there any common practice or industry standard about this when hiring?
  
• Do they have the right not to cum since they might see other client next in the same day?
  
• What's the best way to handle this issue if you do want (his) cum in the end?
  

 

First and foremost, I like when the provider cums but it's not a requirement that he must. Some guys can cum multiple times a day (some even back-to-back), others are one and done. I know many guys see multiple clients a day. So no, I don't get annoyed if he doesn't. If it's important to you that the provider cums, make sure he knows that ahead of time.

 

There is no industry standard per se. You're dealing in an unregulated profession (in this country anyway) and each provider does things that work for them. Yes, they have a right not to cum. They are not machines and have free will. Seriously though, for your last 2 questions, see my previous statements as it relates to wanting the provider to orgasm. However, you must realize sometimes the human body doesn't respond the way we want it to, no matter how aroused we are. Putting demands/pressure on somebody to cum may be a roadblock to what you want.

 

There have only been a few guys who have not cum (for various reasons) when we had encounters. One provider and I have seen each other for about a decade and only once he couldn't cum. He just couldn't do it. Every other time, he flat out tells me I want to cum and we make that happen lol. Another, I've seen almost as long asked me ahead of time could he hold off cumming one session. I said it was fine. All the rest of the times he made sure he delivered, as it were. The other 3, as I recall, don't always cum because they are pretty much one and doners. We have fun regardless of them cumming or not.

Thanks for that story. It shows you are a guy with good taste and you like to surround yourself with high quality guys. Perhaps I shouldn't be so much obsessed with cum. Your POV almost made me feel like there is a possibility that some good escorts could get scared away from a client who's always pushing for cum. I should probably focus more on the time and the experience, and enjoy my time with them and they will probably reciprocate with cum more often. In any case, with young cum in the session, I know I will tend to reciprocate and tip better

Edited June 13, 2020 by orville

[orville]

Bukkake is my all-time fantasy. It was so hot with two guys shooting their load all over my face. I can only imagine having 10 or more dicks aimed at my face.

Were we separated at birth? 10 too many but I would definitely love 2 big cummers shooting at my face.

 

[sincitymix]

Clients who do not like cum, please do not reply to this thread. Also, do not hijack. Thanks.

• Do you get annoyed when the provider doesn't cum in the session?
  
• Do you think it's a given, or it has to be discussed / agreed beforehand, always?
  
• Is there any common practice or industry standard about this when hiring?
  
• Do they have the right not to cum since they might see other client next in the same day?
  
• What's the best way to handle this issue if you do want (his) cum in the end?
  

 

The escort must cum. If they don’t then I feel like I failed.

I let him know my expectation. I hate when I get a yes During the preliminary hire question but then half way through the encounter get told sorry I won’t be able to because I came this morning with my bf or I came 8 times already.

 

I don’t care if I cum. It’s all about the other guy ?

[orville]

The escort must cum.

I like the way you think ?

[kaboom35]

Bukkake is my all-time fantasy. It was so hot with two guys shooting their load all over my face. I can only imagine having 10 or more dicks aimed at my face.

 

same!! Yea hadn’t had more than two but cum eating and cum facial porn is the only kind I enjoy which provides a very false sense of what I can expect when hiring. I’ve only had 2 or 3 escorts enjoy cum like I described in my earlier post. One guy went thru the extra steps to freeze his cumloads for a few weeks and when we got together he warmed it up and it may have been the best session of my life. Lol. He was a regular by the way, not just some guy I saw once or twice so he knew what I liked.

[kaboom35]

The escort must cum. If they don’t then I feel like I failed.

I let him know my expectation. I hate when I get a yes During the preliminary hire question but then half way through the encounter get told sorry I won’t be able to because I came this morning with my bf or I came 8 times already.

 

I don’t care if I cum. It’s all about the other guy ?

 

It really is the worst when they don’t cum when they say they would prior to meeting.

[Constantine]

I prefer the escort to cum because I love swallowing a nice load (swallowing isn't just for bottoms).

[kaboom35]

To me swallowing is too neat and boring. I prefer messy, to see the come squirting out all over each other’s faces. Lol.

[orville]

same!! Yea hadn’t had more than two but cum eating and cum facial porn is the only kind I enjoy which provides a very false sense of what I can expect when hiring. I’ve only had 2 or 3 escorts enjoy cum like I described in my earlier post. One guy went thru the extra steps to freeze his cumloads for a few weeks and when we got together he warmed it up and it may have been the best session of my life. Lol. He was a regular by the way, not just some guy I saw once or twice so he knew what I liked.

Interesting, that guy provided you with great service.

No melted cumsicle for me, though. I like it fresh, directly from the tap.

Freezing makes food lose its nutritional properties ?

 

[down_to_business]

• Do you get annoyed when the provider doesn't cum in the session?
  

I don't get annoyed, but am definitely disappointed. I do not enjoy the session if my partner does not cum. I am very unlikely to rehire if that is the case.

 

• Do you think it's a given, or it has to be discussed / agreed beforehand, always?
  

Discussing the session in such specific detail has not generally been productive for me. It's a little complicated because understandably many people can't cum on demand. I personally find it best to just make it known beforehand how much I enjoy when my partner cums.

 

• Do they have the right not to cum
  

Of course, they are human beings. But as I said above, it is my right to not hire them again if they don't cum. Why would I want to if I let him know how important it is to me and how much I enjoy it, and he still chose not to?

 

• What's the best way to handle this issue if you do want (his) cum in the end?
  

I find mentioning my enjoyment of my partner's cumming at least once during the session is sufficient. I have even asked my partner what I can I do to help him get off. Finally, I try to be really good at sucking dick, listen to any verbal clues he gives me, and strive to get better at each and every time.

[+ RJD]

I find mentioning my enjoyment of my partner's cumming at least once during the session is sufficient. I have even asked my partner what I can I do to help him get off. Finally, I try to be really good at sucking dick, listen to any verbal clues he gives me, and strive to get better at each and every time.

 

Agree with this 100%. I get off on getting someone else off, so much so that it literally gets me off. I love to have both of us climax simultaneously, but short of that happening, I prefer my partner to bust first since it’s such a turn on and brings me over the edge.

[Islesguy]

Thanks for that story. It shows you are a guy with good taste and you like to surround yourself with high quality guys. Perhaps I shouldn't be so much obsessed with cum. Your POV almost made me feel like there is a possibility that some good escorts could get scared away from a client who's always pushing for cum. I should probably focus more on the time and the experience, and enjoy my time with them and they will probably reciprocate with cum more often. In any case, with young cum in the session, I know I will tend to reciprocate and tip better

The time and experience are of upmost importance for me. I want to feel good and be appreciated. Him cumming has no effect on either of those at least for me.