no more email in rm?

[handiacefailure]

Yeah I definitely have gotten e-mails from a few guys. Usually regulars who continue to communicate with me that way, but recently a new guy sent me some pictures through there. Maybe it's easier to do it through e-mail, I don't know.

 

I liked the Rentboy system where the escorts actual email would appear. Was great to have the contact info in case they took their ad down.

[asianmusclebttm]

@Muscle Lover 2

I'm with the majority. I'm not using the new messenger system. For those with the app, is it discreet how it appears on your phone?

 

Its a red icon with a big RM

 

Makes an indiscriminate alert sound, nowhere near as conspicuous as Grindr's

[+ BenjaminNicholas]

It's clear RM is going to continue to do whatever it takes to strengthen an insular system.

 

For now, they allow an auto-reply, where an escort can put the details of his private email address.

 

If I were a client, I wouldn't want RM having all-access to my conversations with an escort.

[handiacefailure]

It's clear RM is going to continue to do whatever it takes to strengthen an insular system.

 

For now, they allow an auto-reply, where an escort can put the details of his private email address.

 

If I were a client, I wouldn't want RM having all-access to my conversations with an escort.

 

That's why I liked RB's system. If they every get raided like Rentboy, I don't want my conversations on there and makes me nervous about providing my cell number to a provider on the RM IM system for that reason.

[+ JEC]

So I've signed up and tried it, funny what you'll do when you're horny. It's really not bad and it removes the risk of any responses getting flagged as spam and such. But I've messaged four providers and only gotten two responses. I think it only works if they log into the site often or have the app, curious to know what providers think. Biggest disappointment, JasMorgan, ignored two messages even after stating a willingness to travel to him. I guess that's the downside, before I would have assumed he never got my emails now I know he's been on the site and ignoring my messages.

 

And the only two who responded, messaged back with less than a sentence each time. Ugh.

I think most providers prefer to txt thru SMS or Whatsapp. Jasmorgan is really a solid guy and I've had nothing but positive experiences with him, he may just not be used to checking RM Messenger, esp since I know he only does this part time.

[Jimjaxon3]

And now they will probably refuse to post reviews if you haven't communicated with the escort using their messaging service.

This is true... I was referred to an escort by a friend so after appointment I just went to RM and reviewed him. It got rejected, I told them I contacted the escort by phone. They responded you have to have some form of contact through the site and they can see if you hit the contact button on the escorts page. Which counts as contacting the escort.

[handiacefailure]

This is true... I was referred to an escort by a friend so after appointment I just went to RM and reviewed him. It got rejected, I told them I contacted the escort by phone. They responded you have to have some form of contact through the site and they can see if you hit the contact button on the escorts page. Which counts as contacting the escort.

 

I've only met one provider during Covid (contacted a few but no responses or they didn't work out) and this was a pretty bad experience. Big spanking fetish here and he stated in the text of his ad he was into spanking as a top. Show up and his English wasn't that great (I think he was from some place in South America but lives in Atlanta and was in Detroit) and not sure if that had something to do with it but he didn't even know what I was talking to about ten minutes into him giving me a massage when I asked him about spanking even though he had it in his ad and then he ended the session a couple minutes early and said it wasn't going to work out and I was pretty pissed since I drove over an hour and didn't leave him just a litte bit of money for his time.

 

Left a one star review on Rentmen and he got it removed. There were several messages on RM between us and in his last message he said to text him so they know there was some communication. I think if it's a gold escort they can get them removed. I had the same issue with another escort precovide and that bad review was removed and he was also a gold escort. What's the purpose of reviews if a provider can have the negative reviews removed. That would be like a restaurant giving yelp money for some kind of special status and being able to remove any review that isn't a five star.

 

And are auto responses common now? I've contacted three different escorts with an auto response with their rates.