Client Screening

[JackCasey]

Thanks guys for all the input and PMs. Very helpful. I need to do better with picking out the weeds.

 

Philly is kicking my ass (and not in a good way) today lol:

 

5 min before appt after texting all day: "Kinda busy now. Canceling. Sorry."

 

1 hour before appt after reconfirming twice today: "Shit change of plans I am gonna need to cancel all together. Family issues. Sorry man."

 

Tonight: "Hey another guy on the site said he could do 100 less and bare. If you match I will keep our appointment."

[marylander1940]

Thanks guys for all the input and PMs. Very helpful. I need to do better with picking out the weeds.

 

Philly is kicking my ass (and not in a good way) today lol:

 

5 min before appt after texting all day: "Kinda busy now. Canceling. Sorry."

 

1 hour before appt after reconfirming twice today: "Shit change of plans I am gonna need to cancel all together. Family issues. Sorry man."

 

Tonight: "Hey another guy on the site said he could do 100 less and bare. If you match I will keep our appointment."

 

I'm sorry to hear that unfortunately in the age of Google Voice, texting apps, etc. flakiness has become epidemic.

[Epigonos]

In all my years of hiring I have NEVER set up a get together solely by using rentmen. I use rentmen only for eye candy and to make an initial contact. If the escorts responds positively to my rentmen contact I give him my cell number and my email address and we proceed from there. Nowadays most guys prefer to text and I've adjusted to that fact. I have never gone through all the complicated rig amole of burner phones and special email addresses in order to maintain anonymity. I have always believed, and still do, that if my life would be destroyed if the fact that I hire escort should become public then I should NOT be hiring escorts. There is absolutely NO way to guarantee absolute anonymity - the entire concept is a fiction.

If a prospective client won't provide the escort with simple contact information then I strongly recommend that the escort ignore the jerk and move on.

Edited December 19, 2019 by Epigonos

[+ poolboy48220]

Thanks guys for all the input and PMs. Very helpful. I need to do better with picking out the weeds.

 

Philly is kicking my ass (and not in a good way) today lol:

 

5 min before appt after texting all day: "Kinda busy now. Canceling. Sorry."

 

1 hour before appt after reconfirming twice today: "Shit change of plans I am gonna need to cancel all together. Family issues. Sorry man."

 

Tonight: "Hey another guy on the site said he could do 100 less and bare. If you match I will keep our appointment."

That last guy's a total asshole. He's not buying a refrigerator.

[hypothetically]

Clients,

 

Sorry newbie question/comment here. And apologies in advance if there is already a thread or multiple ones on this.

 

We all want to be safe and be discreet. When scheduling clients from RM I try and get a sense of whether they are serious and will show up. If anyone has magic sauce on that please let me know. IMO it doesn't take lots of interaction to confirm an appt if you're serious about it.

 

I try and ask for phone number to text/call. New RM client profiles unwilling to provide any sort of contact information or no reviews of prior escorts also stand out to me. I just had a guy that wanted to book for multiple hours having never met me but not willing to provide any information or other escorts they have seen on how they can be reached is a red flag to me. When I emailed him on RM to call or text him whenever possible he just responded "Forget it". Maybe I lost out but I tend to think he was wasting my time and I would have just had a huge gap on my schedule that day. New client profiles with no reviews of prior escorts also stands out to me. Why hold all that time when I know they are just a fake.

 

Escorts, what makes you most comfortable to confirm time on your calendar for a date? I think we need more of us willing to help each other out and provide references if a client is safe to see. I know the girls do it often.

 

Clients, what do you need to lock it in on your end as I know there are frustrations with fakes and communication on our end too.

 

Thanks gents. Hope to see you soon. JC

 

Hooker intuition, it’ll come with time.

 

I have tried, in the past, to identify behaviors that I thought were not conducive to a legitimate booking but it’s pointless. I have had “the new profile” provide me with some of my highest transactions to date and I have had “the loyal reviewer” flake and inconvenience me innumerable times. This business has little trajectory and lacks consistency, but you learn to identity what works best for your individual business. You learn to take every transaction that did not come into fruition with stride. I listen to how my escort colleagues run their business and I find their practices to be so, well, impractical, but it works for them.

[+ WilliamM]

Because I've been told about guys who described themselves in a not accurate way... wishful thinking?

 

Why would a potential client (if asked by the escort because most of them don't ask) say he's chubby when he is way heavier or say he's 10 years younger?

 

Have you ever been an escort?

[marylander1940]

Have you ever been an escort?

 

No but I hire often and some of them have become good friends and confidents.

[+ WilliamM]

No but I hire often and some of them have become good friends and confidents.

 

That is truly wonderful. Much praise and congrats.

[Mike Smith 2]

After doing some digging I’ll just say this....anyone that had an issue with AndrewK is probably gonna have an issue with all escorts.

Just to be clear, I have successfully hired many providers with no issues. I am happy to provide screenshots of this encounter if you need “proof”.

[harlow]

Just to be clear, I have successfully hired many providers with no issues. I am happy to provide screenshots of this encounter if you need “proof”.

After doing some “re-digging” I threw that bit of shade at the wrong person...sorry @Mike Smith 2 !

[Mike Smith 2]

After doing some “re-digging” I threw that bit of shade at the wrong person...sorry @Mike Smith 2 !

No Problem.

[Guest]

Thanks guys for all the input and PMs. Very helpful. I need to do better with picking out the weeds.

 

Philly is kicking my ass (and not in a good way) today lol:

 

5 min before appt after texting all day: "Kinda busy now. Canceling. Sorry."

 

1 hour before appt after reconfirming twice today: "Shit change of plans I am gonna need to cancel all together. Family issues. Sorry man."

 

Tonight: "Hey another guy on the site said he could do 100 less and bare. If you match I will keep our appointment."

 

Gross, man. Hang in there.