Client Screening

[JackCasey]

Clients,

 

Sorry newbie question/comment here. And apologies in advance if there is already a thread or multiple ones on this.

 

We all want to be safe and be discreet. When scheduling clients from RM I try and get a sense of whether they are serious and will show up. If anyone has magic sauce on that please let me know. IMO it doesn't take lots of interaction to confirm an appt if you're serious about it.

 

I try and ask for phone number to text/call. New RM client profiles unwilling to provide any sort of contact information or no reviews of prior escorts also stand out to me. I just had a guy that wanted to book for multiple hours having never met me but not willing to provide any information or other escorts they have seen on how they can be reached is a red flag to me. When I emailed him on RM to call or text him whenever possible he just responded "Forget it". Maybe I lost out but I tend to think he was wasting my time and I would have just had a huge gap on my schedule that day. New client profiles with no reviews of prior escorts also stands out to me. Why hold all that time when I know they are just a fake.

 

Escorts, what makes you most comfortable to confirm time on your calendar for a date? I think we need more of us willing to help each other out and provide references if a client is safe to see. I know the girls do it often.

 

Clients, what do you need to lock it in on your end as I know there are frustrations with fakes and communication on our end too.

 

Thanks gents. Hope to see you soon. JC

[harlow]

Any client that’s not willing to give you basic contact info and agree to basic terms is a waste of your time. When I hire I always unblock my number and give my preferred name. If asked I don’t mind disclosing other providers I’ve been with unless they have specifically asked me not to. That really only happens if they are retired but have agreed to keep seeing me.

 

I like setting a time and place and then confirming 24-48hrs out.

[+ Gar1eth]

Just a viewpoint -it may be difficult to get confirmation from another escort-if it was a one time thing or long ago, would the escort remember me? What if the escort is busy and doesn't want to respond to your request for info? Or take my case. I haven't hired in forever and most likely won't. But say I win the lottery and decide to hire. Most of the guys I've seen in the past have retired. I'm sure there could be other scenarios where you can't confirm with another escort.

 

Gman

[MrMattBig]

Clients,

 

Sorry newbie question/comment here. And apologies in advance if there is already a thread or multiple ones on this.

 

We all want to be safe and be discreet. When scheduling clients from RM I try and get a sense of whether they are serious and will show up. If anyone has magic sauce on that please let me know. IMO it doesn't take lots of interaction to confirm an appt if you're serious about it.

 

I try and ask for phone number to text/call. New RM client profiles unwilling to provide any sort of contact information or no reviews of prior escorts also stand out to me. I just had a guy that wanted to book for multiple hours having never met me but not willing to provide any information or other escorts they have seen on how they can be reached is a red flag to me. When I emailed him on RM to call or text him whenever possible he just responded "Forget it". Maybe I lost out but I tend to think he was wasting my time and I would have just had a huge gap on my schedule that day. New client profiles with no reviews of prior escorts also stands out to me. Why hold all that time when I know they are just a fake.

 

Escorts, what makes you most comfortable to confirm time on your calendar for a date? I think we need more of us willing to help each other out and provide references if a client is safe to see. I know the girls do it often.

 

Clients, what do you need to lock it in on your end as I know there are frustrations with fakes and communication on our end too.

 

Thanks gents. Hope to see you soon. JC

As you gain more experience, you will also find female escort world does not fully equal male escort world.

While it is common for high end female escorts to request references/reviews on past escorts, the same does not translate to the male escort world. He still may have been a flake/fake but who knows.

There are plenty escorts that have met clients solely from RM email myself included. You are right still to see it as skeptical, especially with a new profile, when they don't want to switch to a phone/text. I like to try and arrange all the details and set the appointment and then ask if they are comfortable switching to text to make communication easier.

[+ Pensant]

I have a friend who is a booking agent for female providers as well as a dominatrix. They vet all clients and keep significant amounts of personal data on each. I was surprised that the guys would agree to provide that level of information.

[harlow]

I have a friend who is a booking agent for female providers as well as a dominatrix. They vet all clients and keep significant amounts of personal data on each. I was surprised that the guys would agree to provide that level of information.

Now that I would never agree to. I’ve hired females before as well but they were independent. The agencies always wanted a copy of your ID and other personal info. I truly respect the need for the safety of all involved but in the age of cyber security it makes me uncomfortable.

[beachboy]

I know this can be a minefield & with someone new you don't really know what they're like until you meet them.

It may sound naive but to me honesty is the best policy. As a provider it's always best to set your stall out clearly so as to attract the kind of client with whom a meet is likely to be a success & may lead to repeat bookings.

From a client point of view, he needs to respect the provider & to withhold contact info is a red flag-burner phones & other methods of discreet contact are always available.

As a client I want to have a great time with someone I'm attracted to so so I always give a phone no. a physical description & state what I'm looking for, which should coincide with what's on the guy's profile.

I'm sure you'll develop an instinct for enquirers who are genuine, if you haven't already done so. You're a hot guy so you're sure to get many enquires-if it feels good do it, if not don't! ?

[Quincy_7]

As a client, I can't imagine ever setting up a meeting with an escort over rentmen alone. I understand clients not wanting to use their real numbers but there are lot of burner phone apps on the app store/ google play. There've been many times where I or the escort was a few minutes late and texted just to confirm that the meeting was still on. I guess you could do that on rentmen mobile but it's just a lot more tedious.

 

OP is right to be cautious of clients who don't give a phone number.

[+ FrankR]

Clients, Sorry newbie question/comment here. And apologies in advance if there is already a thread or multiple ones on this.

 

You should read this thread - gives you a view from the other side... https://www.companyofmen.org/threads/dos-and-donts.150718/

 

We all want to be safe and be discreet. When scheduling clients from RM I try and get a sense of whether they are serious and will show up. If anyone has magic sauce on that please let me know. IMO it doesn't take lots of interaction to confirm an appt if you're serious about it.

You are the secret sauce - you will develop a ‘gut feel’ for guys. The tone of the message will tell you a lot. Also how they respond when you try to iron out the necessary details (time, date, location and how they desire to spend the time). I would (and do) walk away if the provider is not responsive - on the other hand I tend to be rather ‘business like’ when I text and won’t waste a provider’s time.

 

I try and ask for phone number to text/call. New RM client profiles unwilling to provide any sort of contact information or no reviews of prior escorts also stand out to me. I just had a guy that wanted to book for multiple hours having never met me but not willing to provide any information or other escorts they have seen on how they can be reached is a red flag to me. When I emailed him on RM to call or text him whenever possible he just responded "Forget it". Maybe I lost out but I tend to think he was wasting my time and I would have just had a huge gap on my schedule that day. New client profiles with no reviews of prior escorts also stands out to me. Why hold all that time when I know they are just a fake.

 

In this day and age I find it surprising that a client is not willing to share a number; the ability to coordinate basic logistics via text is a must. Did you lose out? Maybe. More likely you dodged a bullet. If the guy is high maintenance... I dont have a Rentmen profile - but I will tell you when I found your profile on RM.

 

Escorts, what makes you most comfortable to confirm time on your calendar for a date? I think we need more of us willing to help each other out and provide references if a client is safe to see. I know the girls do it often.

 

Not an escort, but a quick and polite discourse is needed before I agree to meet. Networking with other escorts can be dicey. The may be helpful (like @VictorPowers) or not. Most guys value their privacy and wont like the idea that you are ‘gossiping’ about them behind their back. Tread careful, most guys will consider it unprofessional to talk about your clients.

 

Clients, what do you need to lock it in on your end as I know there are frustrations with fakes and communication on our end too.

Thanks gents. Hope to see you soon. JC

 

For me a polite and timely response via text message is necessary. Never show frustration or anger - even if you have a bad day with a lot of cancellations. Decline politely if you don’t have time or it doesn’t feel right. If you want to build a book of business (repeat clients) after care is important. You may want to talk about some of this offline with a pro that has been in the game for a while. ?

[+ JEC]

Clients,

 

Sorry newbie question/comment here. And apologies in advance if there is already a thread or multiple ones on this.

 

We all want to be safe and be discreet. When scheduling clients from RM I try and get a sense of whether they are serious and will show up. If anyone has magic sauce on that please let me know. IMO it doesn't take lots of interaction to confirm an appt if you're serious about it.

 

I try and ask for phone number to text/call. New RM client profiles unwilling to provide any sort of contact information or no reviews of prior escorts also stand out to me. I just had a guy that wanted to book for multiple hours having never met me but not willing to provide any information or other escorts they have seen on how they can be reached is a red flag to me. When I emailed him on RM to call or text him whenever possible he just responded "Forget it". Maybe I lost out but I tend to think he was wasting my time and I would have just had a huge gap on my schedule that day. New client profiles with no reviews of prior escorts also stands out to me. Why hold all that time when I know they are just a fake.

 

Escorts, what makes you most comfortable to confirm time on your calendar for a date? I think we need more of us willing to help each other out and provide references if a client is safe to see. I know the girls do it often.

 

Clients, what do you need to lock it in on your end as I know there are frustrations with fakes and communication on our end too.

 

Thanks gents. Hope to see you soon. JC

 

Experienced clients should be able to close the deal in 4-6 concise texts. And all should have either Google Voice Whatsapp or some chat platform IMHO. I prefer NOT to communicate details in RM since SESTA/FOSTA.

 

Newbies and inexperienced guys could probably drive you crazy and waste all your time; including "chicken out" before the appt. Add the jerkoffs (guys who are looking at your ad, jerking off and getting off on interacting with you).

 

Checking references I think is a non-starter and could take a lot of time. Seeing if a client has written reviews probably a good idea. I for one would not be open to phonecalls or skype sessions, and I don't ask providers for them.

 

Most important I think is to develop "radar" based on how the interaction is going. If someone is being confident and respectful and asking the right questions, it's probably legit. If someone is overly nervous, sporadic, creepy, or txting a lot about stuff not related to knowing if you are a match and scheduling the appt....warning.

 

Welcome JC

[+ azdr0710]

Quick side comment: you'll probably interact with entirely honest potential clients who are new to the game and very, very nervous. They are scared of stings, scared of being scared, and/or scared of getting ripped off. They may ask a bunch of questions, some inappropriate, and not know how the deal works. I was extremely nervous before and during my first couple meets and the providers were nearly ready to cancel.

[harlow]

You should read this thread - gives you a view from the other side... https://www.companyofmen.org/threads/dos-and-donts.150718/

 

 

You are the secret sauce - you will develop a ‘gut feel’ for guys. The tone of the message will tell you a lot. Also how they respond when you try to iron out the necessary details (time, date, location and how they desire to spend the time). I would (and do) walk away if the provider is not responsive - on the other hand I tend to be rather ‘business like’ when I text and won’t waste a provider’s time.

 

 

 

In this day and age I find it surprising that a client is not willing to share a number; the ability to coordinate basic logistics via text is a must. Did you lose out? Maybe. More likely you dodged a bullet. If the guy is high maintenance... I dont have a Rentmen profile - but I will tell you when I found your profile on RM.

 

 

 

Not an escort, but a quick and polite discourse is needed before I agree to meet. Networking with other escorts can be dicey. The may be helpful (like @VictorPowers) or not. Most guys value their privacy and wont like the idea that you are ‘gossiping’ about them behind their back. Tread careful, most guys will consider it unprofessional to talk about your clients.

 

 

 

For me a polite and timely response via text message is necessary. Never show frustration or anger - even if you have a bad day with a lot of cancellations. Decline politely if you don’t have time or it doesn’t feel right. If you want to build a book of business (repeat clients) after care is important. You may want to talk about some of this offline with a pro that has been in the game for a while. ?

This is a spot on response....totally agree with you!

[harlow]

Quick side comment: you'll probably interact with entirely honest potential clients who are new to the game and very, very nervous. They are scared of stings, scared of being scared, and/or scared of getting ripped off. They may ask a bunch of questions, some inappropriate, and not know how the deal works. I was extremely nervous before and during my first couple meets and the providers were nearly ready to cancel.

This was me when I first started...before the convince of texting and smartphones. I had a lot of awkward phone calls as a young client.

[+ bashful]

New client profiles with no reviews of prior escorts also stands out to me.

 

Please don't let that bother you. I'm a relative newbie too. Have only hired six providers, for a total of 14 meetings since 2015. Never had a RM account until just a couple of months ago, and have not populated it with any info/reviews. However, have submitted three reviews to Daddys, but first two were before I joined forums, so they all have different handle than my forum name. I continued to use the original handle for the third review after joining the forums.

[Mike Smith 2]

This provider has a lot to learn. I viewed via RentMen of his availability in Denver from December 28th- 30th. I reached out last night inquiring of his services and quickly received a response of “sure sounds good”. I responded in kind, asking of his rate and limitations. I also mentioned that I had read this thread and agreed with clear and concise communication. He responded with “ No thanks no longer interested sorry” and “Good luck in Denver sir”. I responded with “Good luck getting business with that attitude”. Later on he replied claiming that he “is not coming to Denver” and that he thought I was in “Cleveland” because of my area code.

 

I was very clear that I would be in Denver in my initial correspondence, and he had an ad on RM showing the aforementioned travel dates to Denver. I’m not sure what offended him, and at this point I quite frankly don’t care. He sounds overly cautious and caught up in how he perceives this business should work.

 

I wish him the best but can’t say that I’m impressed with his approach to gaining clients on a long term or short term basis.

Edited December 18, 2019 by Mike Smith 2

[+ azdr0710]

Well, I suppose there are three sides to every story.

[marylander1940]

In some cases clients won't even described themselves in an accurate way.... They might say they're younger and 20 Lbs. lighter...

Edited December 18, 2019 by marylander1940

[+ Keith30309]

Yes... scheduling can be a sticky point

Edited December 18, 2019 by Keith30309

[+ WilliamM]

In some cases clients won't even described themselves in an accurate way.... They might say they're younger and 20 Lbs. lighter...

 

And in most cases, clients are completely honest and forthcoming.

[marylander1940]

And in most cases, clients are completely honest and forthcoming.

 

How often do escorts ask clients to describe themselves?

[harlow]

After doing some digging I’ll just say this....anyone that had an issue with AndrewK is probably gonna have an issue with all escorts.

[+ WilliamM]

How often do escorts ask clients to describe themselves?

 

I don't understand your question.

[marylander1940]

I don't understand your question.

 

How often do escorts ask their would-be-clients to describe themselves?

 

"Can you tell me something about yourself?": age, body type, etc.

 

screen·ing

/ˈskrēniNG/

noun

noun: screening; plural noun: screenings

1. 1.
   a showing of a movie, video, or television program.
    
    
   
2. 2.
   the evaluation or investigation of something as part of a methodical survey, to assess suitability for a particular role or purpose.
   

[+ WilliamM]

How often do escorts ask their would-be-clients to describe themselves?

 

"Can you tell me something about yourself?": age, body type, etc.

 

screen·ing

/ˈskrēniNG/

noun

noun: screening; plural noun: screenings

1. 1.
   a showing of a movie, video, or television program.
    
    
   
2. 2.
   the evaluation or investigation of something as part of a methodical survey, to assess suitability for a particular role or purpose.
   

 

Why do you assume clients occasionally lie?

[marylander1940]

Why do you assume clients occasionally lie?

 

Because I've been told about guys who described themselves in a not accurate way... wishful thinking?

 

Why would a potential client (if asked by the escort because most of them don't ask) say he's chubby when he is way heavier or say he's 10 years younger?