Life after sex

[Guest zipperzone]

>i.e., given the choice between sex with an escort or playing

>an interesting tennis match, nowadays I would probably opt to

>play tennis.

 

Here's a question for you. Given the choice of great sex OR a great dinner in a great restaurant with good friends, you choice would be?

[+ Charlie]

The dinner, without question.

[Guest josephga]

id pick the dinner too

[Louis]

"Here's a question for you. Given the choice of great sex OR a great dinner in a great restaurant with good friends, you choice would be?"

Easy one for me to answer...I don't like going to restaurants..:-)

I don't think I would want to have sex with good friends though....they are all straight, and it would kind of screw up relationships. So a good escort will have to do for now.

[Guest zipperzone]

>The dinner, without question.

 

Same here - do you think there is something wrong with us?

[Guest zipperzone]

>Easy one for me to answer...I don't like going to

>restaurants..:-)

 

Louis, Louis, Louis - you really have to rethink your aversion to restaurants. You're missing one of the great pleasures of the world.

 

>I don't think I would want to have sex with good friends

>though....they are all straight, and it would kind of screw up

>relationships. So a good escort will have to do for now.

 

The great sex part was not about friends, it was just about great sex period!

[Louis]

Well to be honest I was invited for a meal in the RCMI in Toronto, and that was quite an experience. White glove treatment, fine china, real silverware, real crystal. I have no idea what the meal cost. They don't pay for meals on the spot from what I was told. The person who invited myself and a few others pays his bill once a year.

I would think that there are people here that experience that sort of thing quite often. It was a first for this ham and egger..:-)

[Guest zipperzone]

>Well to be honest I was invited for a meal in the RCMI in

>Toronto, and that was quite an experience.

 

I bet the scenery was exceptional.

[+ Charlie]

No.

[best hotel]

charlie...here are the activities that i prefer to sex with an escort:...dinner with my daughter, sleep, challenging work, beer and budddies, a good italian resturant, a yankee game, a really good book.......that being said, i still hire a few times per week...addictions die hard

[Bob]

I fear that my appetite, or my need, for food has waned more with age than my appetite for sex. I'm always hungry for great sex.

[Bob]

Thank you for sharing your inspiring observations and experiences. Where do you find these guys?

[AdamSmith]

>I guess what I really like is to just cuddle up next to a

>person, and play around for an extended period of time, and

>then let things evolve into sex. Its hard to find escorts

>that are into that sort of thing.

 

Hiring for an hour, sure. But if you have the time and means to book an occasional evening or overnight, I find most escorts are happy to move at whatever pace you signal.

[AdamSmith]

>what ones do you think will replace sex,

>as the most stimulating form of recreation in your life as the

>sex drive falters?

 

...Savoring the fine satin lining and the steady gait of my pallbearers!

[Guest zipperzone]

>that being said, i still hire a few times per week...addictions die hard

 

A few times a week - wow - I wish I had that much disposable income. Too bad it isn't tax deductable.

[+ purplekow]

>charlie...here are the activities that i prefer to sex with

>an escort:...dinner with my daughter, sleep, challenging work,

>beer and budddies, a good italian resturant, a yankee game, a

>really good book.......that being said, i still hire a few

>times per week...addictions die hard

 

I still hire a few times a week and you prefer other thing perhaps you do them so much less frequently. Certainly if you just looked at the expense (a limiting factor for many of us) it seems you may prefer the things you list because they are such a bargain.

 

Averaging $250/ hr for 4 hours a week, guessing that that is a few. Lets see $50000 a year.

 

Season tickets for Yankees even at $150/tickets with 4 tickets and 80 dates $48000

 

Dinner with daughter Five nights a week night a good to very good restaurant with occasional bottle of wine $37500 Italian restaurants are usually less expensive so that $37,500 should cover five nights a week at Italian eateries with $12000 for monthly round trip tickets to Italy

 

Good book Hard cover with occasional out of print rare book reading one book per night $$35000

 

Beer and Buddies Your treat 3 cases of Beer and some other finger food 5 Times a week $36000 and $5000 for a taxi home each night

 

Sleep you cant put a price on but for 8 hours a night 7 days a week for $50000 you get a nice one bedroom apartment in Manhattan or a moderately priced hotel room every night almost anywhere else in the country.

 

Challenging work is harder to compare, my guess is that in order to afford the men that you know the value of hard and challenging work.

[AdamSmith]

>what activities or interests

>have replaced sex, or what ones do you think will replace sex

 

OK, more seriously: Thus far (nearing 50), I find all my appetences tend to go up and down together, rather than displacing one another.

 

Like the man said,

 

...it was not a choice

Between excluding things. It was not a choice

 

Between, but of. He chose to include the things

That in each other are included, the whole,

The complicate, the amassing harmony.

[buzz]

Thanks for the nice response. I find these guys in clubs where older men hang out or on line.