Just curious: what is it about massage that you love?

[NYMassageAddict]

I am a lover of massage and I often wonder if/why I prefer it as my ultimate choice of sexual adventure.

 

While it may be hard to admit it, I think I am entirely into the idea that someone is servicing me - treating me as a king. Include a table shower and the whole scene just turns me on. More so than if a hot guy came up and said “fuck me”. I love the notion of being serviced - even if that person is receiving compensation.

 

Of course I also just love the feeling of hands all over me, but I really think the mental side is very important. What day you?

[Onamission]

Very interesting topic. I agree about loving the hands all over me, but for me I think it's like this. Because I am paying for his services, I don't have to look loke a porn star, or perform like one. I can be me, and because I am the client, it's his responsibility to treat me like I am a porn star. If he doesn't, I'm disappointed and move on. I have been lucky. The masseurs I have seen treat me like a young stud that I clearly am not. This is what makes me prefer this avenue.

[+ Just966]

Very interesting topic. I agree about loving the hands all over me, but for me I think it's like this. Because I am paying for his services, I don't have to look loke a porn star, or perform like one. I can be me, and because I am the client, it's his responsibility to treat me like I am a porn star. If he doesn't, I'm disappointed and move on. I have been lucky. The masseurs I have seen treat me like a young stud that I clearly am not. This is what makes me prefer this avenue.

Yes exactly!

[Trick]

I’ve posted in another thread that the anticipation of what’s to come during the massage excites me. Many times I hire someone who doesn’t advertise extras but the hints are on the ad. As soon as the massage begins, I’m turned on by the subtle hints I get that it will go beyond a simple massage. I’ve gotten good at giving the hints myself.

[+ SK in SD]

First is the fact that someone is touching me and making me feel great. Second is the anticipation of what may happen, especially if there are some unexpected sensual elements happening.

[KrisParr]

Oh, it has to be the indigenous flute music in the background, with the stale patchouli aromatherapy wafting through the air, accompanied by the masseur’s cat wandering in while his phone buzzes, or perhaps the musky odor of the not-so-fresh sheets. I could go on and on, but you get the drift.

[spider]

Oh, it has to be the indigenous flute music in the background, with the stale patchouli aromatherapy wafting through the air, accompanied by the masseur’s cat wandering in while his phone buzzes, or perhaps the musky odor of the not-so-fresh sheets. I could go on and on, but you get the drift.

 

You missed two of my favorites “the waste basket full of used items from the previous sessions” and “a masseur who smells a little stale”.

[Phillyman]

I’ve posted in another thread that the anticipation of what’s to come during the massage excites me. Many times I hire someone who doesn’t advertise extras but the hints are on the ad. As soon as the massage begins, I’m turned on by the subtle hints I get that it will go beyond a simple massage. I’ve gotten good at giving the hints myself.

I completely agree with you. The anticipation about what might happen (an often does) is a big turn on. I love when it starts with a subtle touch of my fingers against the masseur as he's massaging me, then progresses to more. If there is kissing involved, well, that sends me to the moon!!

[Trick]

If there is kissing involved, well, that sends me to the moon!!

 

I had a masseur who doesn’t kiss on the lips but gives me light kisses from the nape to just above the butt. As soon as his lips touch my skin I can feel some electricity run down my spine. His breath that goes with the kisses give me goose bumps. It drives me crazy. He does it all over again when I turn over on my neck, nipples, and belly.

[Guest]

You missed two of my favorites “the waste basket full of used items from the previous sessions” and “a masseur who smells a little stale”.

 

And the Johnson's Baby Oil.

[Phillyman]

I had a masseur who doesn’t kiss on the lips but gives me light kisses from the nape to just above the butt. As soon as his lips touch my skin I can feel some electricity run down my spine. His breath that goes with the kisses give me goose bumps. It drives me crazy. He does it all over again when I turn over on my neck, nipples, and belly.

That sounds like my kind of masseur! And heaven!

[Rudynate]

I had a memorable massage from a masseur who is also into BDSM. The massage itself was very sensual in a different kind of way - it was an acupressure type of body work, working with energy flows and that sort of thing. Good practitioners in this type of work can produce startling woo - woo effects and he was very good. He had me stand in the middle of the room as he worked on me, triggering all sorts of pleasant sensations as he identified blockages and misdirected flows. At one point, I spontaneously got an enormous erection that lasted and lasted, as he was working on me. The whole session lasted 90 minutes and I felt wonderful at the end. All the gentle movements from his fingertips felt incredibly good. We finished the massage on the bed in the hotel room. He surprised me by flipping me on my stomach and holding me down and fucking me with his 9-inch dick. It was a great afternoon.

[Trick]

That sounds like my kind of masseur! And heaven!

 

I can’t find his ad anymore

[Phillyman]

I can’t find his ad anymore

That's a shame. He's probably somebody I would travel for.

[+ Drew Collins]

I had a memorable massage from a masseur who is also into BDSM. The massage itself was very sensual in a different kind of way - it was an acupressure type of body work, working with energy flows and that sort of thing. Good practitioners in this type of work can produce startling woo - woo effects and he was very good. He had me stand in the middle of the room as he worked on me, triggering all sorts of pleasant sensations as he identified blockages and misdirected flows. At one point, I spontaneously got an enormous erection that lasted and lasted, as he was working on me. The whole session lasted 90 minutes and I felt wonderful at the end. All the gentle movements from his fingertips felt incredibly good. We finished the massage on the bed in the hotel room. He surprised me by flipping me on my stomach and holding me down and fucking me with his 9-inch dick. It was a great afternoon.

I would travel for this type of attention and work! Does he still advertise?.

[Massageislife]

I'm afraid the earlier sarcastic remarks redirected this thread to being one about specific experiences or masseurs we liked. I think the question is "What is it in general about m4m massage that we love?"

 

I love getting to pick a man I'm attracted to and, usually, he's caressing my body and often more than that in a short span of time. That's a fucking miracle. What's been important to me about massage, however, is forcing myself to relax and be touched. I enjoy handling men's bodies and get such pleasure from feeling that I've satisfied them that it's hard for me to just lie there and let him work on--and maybe even sometimes enjoy--me. But it's healthy to surrender oneself physically to another person. And my experience with m4m (and even "legit") massage has been so positive. In amost every massage I've ever had, it's moved me how earnestly the masseur has either worked to heal my body, to make me come, or both. I can say it's generally more reliable, in this respect, than experiences with men who spent time with my body without getting paid. Thank God for men who give themselves to this work. I can never thank them enough.

 

I think it will always be hard to resist going for some MT immediately, but I'm always glad when I'm patient and experience the unique pleasure of being attended to. Afterwards, there's usually plenty of time for that and more!

[Rudynate]

I would travel for this type of attention and work! Does he still advertise?.

 

He divides his time between Switzerland and northern California. Haven't seen him advertise in awhile. He's really attractive - tall, slender handsome black guy.

[Snowbrdr]

I started getting massages six years ago when I was diagnosed with a blood cancer. My pain needed to be treated therapeutically. Then my health started to yo-yo and my sex life collapsed. I’m fit and handsome but have ED issues from treatment. A massage was both therapeutic and a chance to potentially connect sensually without the pressure to perform. I have my roster here in NYC and they are great—and most know about my health situation. Caring and sexy guys who are experts at making our sessions healing, fun and memorable.

[Phillyman]

I'm afraid the earlier sarcastic remarks redirected this thread to being one about specific experiences or masseurs we liked. I think the question is "What is it in general about m4m massage that we love?"

 

I love getting to pick a man I'm attracted to and, usually, he's caressing my body and often more than that in a short span of time. That's a fucking miracle. What's been important to me about massage, however, is forcing myself to relax and be touched. I enjoy handling men's bodies and get such pleasure from feeling that I've satisfied them that it's hard for me to just lie there and let him work on--and maybe even sometimes enjoy--me. But it's healthy to surrender oneself physically to another person. And my experience with m4m (and even "legit") massage has been so positive. In amost every massage I've ever had, it's moved me how earnestly the masseur has either worked to heal my body, to make me come, or both. I can say it's generally more reliable, in this respect, than experiences with men who spent time with my body without getting paid. Thank God for men who give themselves to this work. I can never thank them enough.

 

I think it will always be hard to resist going for some MT immediately, but I'm always glad when I'm patient and experience the unique pleasure of being attended to. Afterwards, there's usually plenty of time for that and more!

I think you describe my feelings as well. I love the feeling of just surrendering to the masseur’s touch. I love how the pressure and the touch just build. I like the “accidental” brushing up against my body and mine against his. It really is an incredible feeling.

[+ Italiano]

Very interesting topic. I agree about loving the hands all over me, but for me I think it's like this. Because I am paying for his services, I don't have to look loke a porn star, or perform like one. I can be me, and because I am the client, it's his responsibility to treat me like I am a porn star. If he doesn't, I'm disappointed and move on. I have been lucky. The masseurs I have seen treat me like a young stud that I clearly am not. This is what makes me prefer this avenue.

Where do you find all the masseurs who treat you like a young stud??

[Harryinny]

the anticipation!

Edited September 13, 2019 by Harryinny

[PSAtty82]

Type A personality here (and mostly a forum lurker!) that truly enjoys giving up control for 90-120 minutes to someone else who is going to pamper me with human touch. The chance to turn my brain off and let someone else take control of what’s happening in a safe, welcoming environment is pure bliss to me.

 

It’s an escape from reality. Reality being that I’m not an Adonis, my body isn’t amazing, and I’m not coveted by the masses for what I have. Reality being that outside of the therapist’s room, I have 30 people all vying for me to pay attention to them, deadlines that require me to focus on a specific thing for too long, bills that need paid, floors that need vacuumed. On the table...none of that matters, because the brain switches off!

[Guest]

truly enjoys giving up control for 90-120 minutes to someone else who is going to pamper me with human touch. The chance to turn my brain off and let someone else take control of what’s happening in a safe, welcoming environment is pure bliss to me.

 

For the described above, this is Pasha for me in NYC.

[Onamission]

Where do you find all the masseurs who treat you like a young stud??

I guess I am fortunate. I am in L.A. and have found 2 so far that consistently treat me the way I want to be treated. I am relatively new to this scene, so I don't have a long list. I hope to find a third, and then rotate between the three. I assume you have not been as fortunate?

[+ aeikaryoko]

What most folks post on this thread about disconnecting from reality, anticipation, human touch and the uncertainty of what’s to come during the massage, rings true to me too. It’s definitely got me wanting more and of course, the massage itself counts as well.