starman05 Posted April 4, 2021 Share Posted April 4, 2021 I am asking this question without judgement, and from a place of genuine curiosity. Do you guys not verbalize to the provider in the moment on what you want, and/or redirect them if they are doing something unpleasant? I had a massage with someone who kept checking a beeping phone. I politely said "you know, I am finding that very disruptive. If there's some need for you to have attention elsewhere I am happy to come back another time." He apologized, silenced his phone and gave me a great rest of the session. I understand feeling vulnerable because you're naked and face down, but you have to retain ownership of your self-interest, politely. I think things like phone ringers, room temperatures, pressure intensity (either too heavy or too light), a light shining through the window can all be successfully negotiated after a massage starts...these are all things I'd ask about and have asked a provider about and in most instances they're happy to provide and make a change. We move on from there. Yay. Topics that are harder to broach are: a provider having no training or technique (despite their ad saying they do), upsells when you're really, really relaxed (really? NOW?) insisting their dog stays in the room (it's not the size or the assertiveness of the dog that bothers me; it's the attachment the provider has to the pooch), getting a little too intimate (I want a massage; I don't want to penetrate you)...the worst is when you get the impression they're just a prick and they're passive aggressive about everything. Negative experiences are rare, but they happen. One time, after getting a horrible massage, I had to go out and get...a massage. When I find a regular great guy, I'm loyal and will stay for years. The best two I ever had got out of the business for various reasons. Bummer. big dale and Marc in Calif 2 Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
starman05 Posted April 4, 2021 Share Posted April 4, 2021 I am asking this question without judgement, and from a place of genuine curiosity. Do you guys not verbalize to the provider in the moment on what you want, and/or redirect them if they are doing something unpleasant? I had a massage with someone who kept checking a beeping phone. I politely said "you know, I am finding that very disruptive. If there's some need for you to have attention elsewhere I am happy to come back another time." He apologized, silenced his phone and gave me a great rest of the session. I understand feeling vulnerable because you're naked and face down, but you have to retain ownership of your self-interest, politely. I think things like phone ringers, room temperatures, pressure intensity (either too heavy or too light), a light shining through the window can all be successfully negotiated after a massage starts...these are all things I'd ask about and have asked a provider about and in most instances they're happy to provide and make a change. We move on from there. Yay. Topics that are harder to broach are: a provider having no training or technique (despite their ad saying they do), upsells when you're really, really relaxed (really? NOW?) insisting their dog stays in the room (it's not the size or the assertiveness of the dog that bothers me; it's the attachment the provider has to the pooch), getting a little too intimate (I want a massage; I don't want to penetrate you)...the worst is when you get the impression they're just a prick and they're passive aggressive about everything. Negative experiences are rare, but they happen. One time, after getting a horrible massage, I had to go out and get...a massage. When I find a regular great guy, I'm loyal and will stay for years. The best two I ever had got out of the business for various reasons. Bummer. big dale 1 Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Kyle_paul11 Posted April 5, 2021 Share Posted April 5, 2021 Anything else on this Ryan west online? Onlyfans? Any other pics Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Guest JakeAsherXXX Posted December 15, 2021 Share Posted December 15, 2021 On 4/5/2021 at 1:35 PM, Kyle_paul11 said: Anything else on this Ryan west online? Onlyfans? Any other pics Would like this info also… Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
omgazn Posted October 17, 2022 Share Posted October 17, 2022 I had one experience with this guy. Very unenjoyable massage overall. No talking, just going through the motions. Jdy718 1 Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
+ Italiano Posted October 17, 2022 Share Posted October 17, 2022 (edited) After a fabulous first time and a much less stellar second time, I saw him again twice (last time was few weeks ago during one of his regular trips to NYC), and I was VERY happy. Edited October 17, 2022 by Italiano musclestuduws 1 Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Ali Gator Posted October 17, 2022 Share Posted October 17, 2022 In the past ten years I've seen him about 6 or 7 times - usually in NYC once in Boston. The massage is great - no doubt about it. He has an incredible body and very handsome face. His personality is more 'militant' with me, and I find that sexy. Sometimes he's talkative (if you ask him about his nursing job and his work in the ER) most times he's not (if you're making just general conversation). At the end, I get the flip over and the 69, and he's gotten hard for me every time. Never really had a bad time. musclestuduws, claym, tennisjock and 1 other 3 1 Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Kyle_paul11 Posted October 19, 2022 Share Posted October 19, 2022 It’s all about energy with him. My experiences were stellar. We did all the things..IYKYK musclestuduws and kyleham 1 1 Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Phil_musc Posted October 19, 2022 Share Posted October 19, 2022 IYKYK? Huh? Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
chgobrt Posted October 20, 2022 Share Posted October 20, 2022 IYKYK = If you know you know Phil_musc 1 Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
+ Arby Posted January 21, 2023 Share Posted January 21, 2023 I recently saw RyanWest in Philly. My experience accords with most of the reviews here. Great, expert massage. RyanWest did the 69 flip at the end. He's not a talker. He's not expecially friendly. But booked him for a massage after all and not an 'escort' experience. Another plus: he's utterly direct and reliable in communicating. Also, his fees are as advertised. There's no "ask me" BS. I'd see him again I think. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
SDcompanyman Posted January 21, 2023 Share Posted January 21, 2023 Great experience w Ryan a few months ago. Therapeutic excellence and an extra or two. PM for more. Highly recommend. tennisjock 1 Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
starman05 Posted January 21, 2023 Share Posted January 21, 2023 looking back, my only gripe was feeling a bit rushed at the end and the disconnect. I wonder if booking 90 minutes or 2 hours might make he slow down a bit. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Redwine56 Posted January 21, 2023 Share Posted January 21, 2023 3 hours ago, starman05 said: looking back, my only gripe was feeling a bit rushed at the end and the disconnect. I wonder if booking 90 minutes or 2 hours might make he slow down a bit. No. Don't think so. With him, it's quantity, not quality. He's not warm and fuzzy. He travels into town to make as much $$$$$ as he can to pay for his medical schooling. Not my style. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
+ Billsboy4 Posted January 21, 2023 Share Posted January 21, 2023 I've seen him a couple of times and always a good experience Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
+ azdr0710 Posted January 21, 2023 Share Posted January 21, 2023 just re-upping the link..... https://rentmasseur.com/RyanWest Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
expensible Posted January 22, 2023 Share Posted January 22, 2023 Saw Ryan back in December. Massage was very good. He looks different than the photos though or maybe not yet updated. I enjoyed my 69. He was nice but was very direct and had a strong silent vibe. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
+ Italiano Posted January 22, 2023 Share Posted January 22, 2023 5 hours ago, expensible said: Saw Ryan back in December. Massage was very good. He looks different than the photos though or maybe not yet updated. I enjoyed my 69. He was nice but was very direct and had a strong silent vibe. I agree that perhaps he doesn't look exactly as lean, and his face perhaps looks slightly "older", he is at that age where changes start to be noticeable..but I think (at least last September) that he still looks very fit and hot if you like that kind of mature muscular daddy kind of man. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Cliff Posted January 22, 2023 Share Posted January 22, 2023 16 minutes ago, Italiano said: I agree that perhaps he doesn't look exactly as lean, and his face perhaps looks slightly "older", he is at that age where changes start to be noticeable..but I think (at least last September) that he still looks very fit and hot if you like that kind of mature muscular daddy kind of man. This is spot on. Ryan’s a Daddy now. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
starman05 Posted January 23, 2023 Share Posted January 23, 2023 On 1/21/2023 at 1:39 AM, Redwine56 said: No. Don't think so. With him, it's quantity, not quality. He's not warm and fuzzy. He travels into town to make as much $$$$$ as he can to pay for his medical schooling. Not my style. sadly, I think you're right. I recall him being a bit rushed at the beginning like he was trying to hurry up and that feeling never went away throughout. I guess more time would be more of the same feeling. Redwine56 1 Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Jm02 Posted February 4, 2023 Share Posted February 4, 2023 (edited) Hot Daddy! We hit it on! I like his dominant silent military style. but he definitely softened up. Massage was awesome and it’s all about hot chemistry with this stud! No up sell and got more than I ever expected !!!! We just connected and he took over. Edited February 4, 2023 by Jm02 + Italiano and Redwine56 1 1 Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
colonexstacy Posted March 12, 2023 Share Posted March 12, 2023 On 4/1/2021 at 11:30 PM, Larsnewpaul said: I been with him a couple of time. The massage was decent. He let me play with his dick at the end but he couldnt get it up both times. He may have ED. Hes also very much on roids like so many masseurs and escorts these days. lol...sorry but you could not get a guy hard so he must have ED. I have guys who cant get me hard and it has not one damn thing to do with ED. Hone your skills sweety...you'll get them to Rise Up like Sia. FLJock and Redwine56 1 1 Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
KnoddingHead Posted April 20, 2023 Share Posted April 20, 2023 Any recent experiences with Ryan? Haven't seen him since pre-pandemic days and curious. Feel free to PM. Thanks Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Swazca Posted September 15, 2023 Share Posted September 15, 2023 Saw he was in Phoenix currently. But based on the overall responses I'm going to pass. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
+ Mplsgymguy Posted September 16, 2023 Share Posted September 16, 2023 I was recently visiting the Tempe, AZ, area when Ryan also came to the ASU campus. The building he’s staying in has a Whole Foods on the ground floor, so he advised me to park in their parking garage. This got everything off on the wrong foot, as a security guard who was patrolling the parking area came over and made sure that I went down to the store. Meanwhile, Ryan was trying to find out where I was and how/where to find me. Consequently, I was late for my appointment. Anyway, I agree with others who found his massage somewhat mechanical. There were no “sensual” touches, no interaction that I was expecting from the “mutual touch OK” line in his ad. There was no massaging after I turned over onto my back; just an awkward attempt at a happy ending which really wasn’t very happy. Then: get off the table, get dressed, get out. I didn’t mind that his face and physique are larger and thicker than in his photos (‘roids?), but overall I was disappointed with the experience and definitely wouldn’t repeat. Torrone and Swazca 2 Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
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