How seriously do you take 1-hour meetings?

[Ghadd]

Hey guys.

 

I hired my second escort while traveling for work not too long ago. Without going into specifics, it was a 1 hour meeting (with tip), and I'm pretty sure he faked his orgasm (the condom disappeared shockingly fast when the act was done).

 

I completely understand that cumming isn't guaranteed. I also get that he might have better clients later that day/night. But him faking it left me wondering how I should tackle hiring again.

 

How seriously do you take 1 hour meetings with new clients? Are they looked down on? Am seen like a cheapskate when I book for just one hour? Or am I overthinking this?

[MscleLovr]

My two cents: You may be over-thinking it.

 

Reading what you actually wrote, I wonder if it’s not the time-span that matters but rather the lack of cum. If his orgasm and/or seeing him climax are important to you, say so when you hire. If you don’t state what is important to you, an escort cannot know but only guess.

[hypothetically]

Hey guys.

 

I hired my second escort while traveling for work not too long ago. Without going into specifics, it was a 1 hour meeting (with tip), and I'm pretty sure he faked his orgasm (the condom disappeared shockingly fast when the act was done).

 

I completely understand that cumming isn't guaranteed. I also get that he might have better clients later that day/night. But him faking it left me wondering how I should tackle hiring again.

 

How seriously do you take 1 hour meetings with new clients? Are they looked down on? Am seen like a cheapskate when I book for just one hour? Or am I overthinking this?

 

This read very peculiar to me for a number of reasons. The question at hand and what you wrote don’t really correlate. I hope you don’t mind I ask a few questions:

 

If you hired him for an hour and he gave you the time you paid for, and you tipped him (signifying you somewhat enjoyed the experience). Does it matter?

 

If this was not a bareback session and you were not seeking to collect his load. Does it matter?

 

Did you finish? If so, does it matter?

 

How do you even know he “faked” it?

 

We are hired to get YOU off, and while that’s “courteous” of clients to keep our pleasure in mind..it is for you more than it is for us. If you did not communicate to your provider that him having an orgasm (a real one) was of importance to you, then whether or not he faked it really has no significance. You hired him to get you off. He didn’t hire you to get him off. We’re here for your pleasure and if your pleasure is reliant on the escort having an orgasm, you must communicate it.

 

Speaking personally. I take all my sessions seriously, regardless of time. One hour clients are not looked down upon. Some escorts prefer longer, some do not. Same goes with clients: some want a very quick session, others want an extended experience. You wanting one hour doesn’t make you a cheapskate, it means you want one hour. You’re overthinking.

[Ghadd]

This read very peculiar to me for a number of reasons. The question at hand and what you wrote don’t really correlate. I hope you don’t mind I ask a few questions:

 

If you hired him for an hour and he gave you the time you paid for, and you tipped him (signifying you somewhat enjoyed the experience). Does it matter?

 

If this was not a bareback session and you were not seeking to collect his load. Does it matter?

 

Did you finish? If so, does it matter?

 

How do you even know he “faked” it?

 

We are hired to get YOU off, and while that’s “courteous” of clients to keep our pleasure in mind..it is for you more than it is for us. If you did not communicate to your provider that him having an orgasm (a real one) was of importance to you, then whether or not he faked it really has no significance. You hired him to get you off. He didn’t hire you to get him off. We’re here for your pleasure and if your pleasure is reliant on the escort having an orgasm, you must communicate it.

 

Speaking personally. I take all my sessions seriously, regardless of time. One hour clients are not looked down upon. Some escorts prefer longer, some do not. Same goes with clients: some want a very quick session, others want an extended experience. You wanting one hour doesn’t make you a cheapskate, it means you want one hour. You’re overthinking.

All very good points. I guess it does not matter. As you said, I probably put too much stock into him being pleased with the encounter. I will keep that in mind.

 

Thank you for your kind response.

[+ pdxleo]

In the end, my money is being spent for my pleasure- if the providers find that activity pleasing, more's the better, but for him, it's his job and he gets to decide how to handle his business, not my concern IMHO

[rvwnsd]

I don't think the issue is with the escort you hired or escorts in general. I think the issue yours and your attitude toward yourself.

 

...he might have better clients later that day/night....

This assumes that you are a lesser client? Why do you think you are not as good as other clients?

 

...But him faking it left me wondering how I should tackle hiring again....

So this has gone from

... I'm pretty sure he faked his orgasm...

to "he faked his orgasm" in a matter of minutes.

 

It seems to me that you have to ask yourself what you want from a session and clearly articulate that to the next escort you contemplate hiring.

[+ IronMaus]

 

I completely understand that cumming isn't guaranteed. I also get that he might have better clients later that day/night. But him faking it left me wondering how I should tackle hiring again.

 

How seriously do you take 1 hour meetings with new clients? Are they looked down on? Am seen like a cheapskate when I book for just one hour? Or am I overthinking this?

If for some reason I can't get off, I'll own it. I want to cum every time with my clients - otherwise we wouldn't feel as satisfied. For me, getting off is and should be mutual. If my client is satisfied (because they don't always cum either) and I haven't cum, and he says don't worry about it, I could take that opportunity. That being said, don't forget to mention cumming to your escort! Even if he hadn't planned on faking it, he may remember you want to see it and show off for you.

[+ IronMaus]

 

I completely understand that cumming isn't guaranteed. I also get that he might have better clients later that day/night. But him faking it left me wondering how I should tackle hiring again.

 

How seriously do you take 1 hour meetings with new clients? Are they looked down on? Am seen like a cheapskate when I book for just one hour? Or am I overthinking this?

If for some reason I can't get off, I'll own it. I want to cum every time with my clients - otherwise we wouldn't feel as satisfied. For me, getting off is and should be mutual. If my client is satisfied (because they don't always cum either) and I haven't cum, and he says don't worry about it, I could take that opportunity. That being said, don't forget to mention cumming to your escort! Even if he hadn't planned on faking it, he may remember you want to see it and show off for you.

[Trick]

I like the sight, smell, and taste of cum. I like playing with it on the provider’s belly before I lick him clean. On top of that, I find it very hot to see him having an orgasm. That being said, I wouldn’t hold it against the escort if he doesn’t get off. What I’d hate is him faking it. I’ve seen the quick condom disposal myself. I do appreciate escorts who put effort into satisfying my cum fetish.

[Trick]

I like the sight, smell, and taste of cum. I like playing with it on the provider’s belly before I lick him clean. On top of that, I find it very hot to see him having an orgasm. That being said, I wouldn’t hold it against the escort if he doesn’t get off. What I’d hate is him faking it. I’ve seen the quick condom disposal myself. I do appreciate escorts who put effort into satisfying my cum fetish.

[+ BenjaminNicholas]

If for some reason I can't get off, I'll own it. I want to cum every time with my clients - otherwise we wouldn't feel as satisfied. For me, getting off is and should be mutual. If my client is satisfied (because they don't always cum either) and I haven't cum, and he says don't worry about it, I could take that opportunity. That being said, don't forget to mention cumming to your escort! Even if he hadn't planned on faking it, he may remember you want to see it and show off for you.

 

This. 100%.

[+ BenjaminNicholas]

If for some reason I can't get off, I'll own it. I want to cum every time with my clients - otherwise we wouldn't feel as satisfied. For me, getting off is and should be mutual. If my client is satisfied (because they don't always cum either) and I haven't cum, and he says don't worry about it, I could take that opportunity. That being said, don't forget to mention cumming to your escort! Even if he hadn't planned on faking it, he may remember you want to see it and show off for you.

 

This. 100%.