Question - overseas holidays

[Myriadz]

Hi,

 

I just wanted to ask. What is usually the norm for an arrangement if I'd say would like to fly an escort from the US to the Maldives or a resort island somewhere for a few nights?

 

Of course the flights and lodging would all be covered but how does one calculate or negotiate dollars the time spent? Of course it's almost like a working holiday right?

 

I'd like to raise the discussion with one of my faves who we love to spend time together and he'd like to visit these places as well..

 

Thanks for any advice.

[hypothetically]

Hi,

 

I just wanted to ask. What is usually the norm for an arrangement if I'd say would like to fly an escort from the US to the Maldives or a resort island somewhere for a few nights?

 

Of course the flights and lodging would all be covered but how does one calculate or negotiate dollars the time spent? Of course it's almost like a working holiday right?

 

I'd like to raise the discussion with one of my faves who we love to spend time together and he'd like to visit these places as well..

 

Thanks for any advice.

 

It is almost like a working holiday...but it’s not.

 

There is no “norm” per se. However, if he is a regular/fave of yours, simply communicate to him that you would be handling accommodations, etc. and it would be awesome if the two of you could come to a mutual agreement per - negotiated rate for his time for x amount of days.

 

At MINIMUM, you should expect to pay his weekend rate. Whether he agrees to this is solely up to him but if you intend to throw out a number, it should not be less than his weekend rate. Period.

[Rudynate]

Hi,

 

I just wanted to ask. What is usually the norm for an arrangement if I'd say would like to fly an escort from the US to the Maldives or a resort island somewhere for a few nights?

 

Of course the flights and lodging would all be covered but how does one calculate or negotiate dollars the time spent? Of course it's almost like a working holiday right?

 

I'd like to raise the discussion with one of my faves who we love to spend time together and he'd like to visit these places as well..

 

Thanks for any advice.

 

 

That's funny-working holiday. The escort is available more or less 24/7 and he's on holiday.

[+ BenjaminNicholas]

Hi,

 

I just wanted to ask. What is usually the norm for an arrangement if I'd say would like to fly an escort from the US to the Maldives or a resort island somewhere for a few nights?

 

Of course the flights and lodging would all be covered but how does one calculate or negotiate dollars the time spent? Of course it's almost like a working holiday right?

 

I'd like to raise the discussion with one of my faves who we love to spend time together and he'd like to visit these places as well..

 

Thanks for any advice.

 

Unless otherwise discussed, when you engage an escort for any amount of travel, he is not on personal vacation. Don't kid yourself.

 

He's working. He's with you. He's on the clock.

 

We do not have the answer you're looking for. This needs a one-on-one discussion with the escort in question.

[Myriadz]

Thanks for all the responses. I was asking of course as a feeler mostly. It's always tough if the price is too high then it gets awkward doesn't it?

 

I guess there's no real answer to this then.

[MscleLovr]

If it helps @Myriadz , I did this several times with various guys a few years ago.

 

I outlined my travel plans (including flight times and number of nights away) and described the destination, the hotel I had in mind and the local activities I envisaged. I was always clear about what I expected by way of companionship and regular physical intimacy.

 

If they were interested in the trip, my approach was to say I’d pay for all the travel costs, the hotel and meals etc and then I’d ask what they would want as a fee for their time. I was pleasantly surprised at how reasonable the amounts suggested were.

 

I suggest you only travel with your ‘fave’ if you’ve dated him regularly and have had successful overnight dates together. Bear in mind that “a few nights” at long haul destinations with long flight-times/time-changes can easily be a week or more. It’s a long time to be away with someone unless yo know them well and you both relate easily to each other.

 

And forgive me for stating the obvious: not all resorts welcome same-sex couples; homosexual activity is illegal in various countries; and there are strong anti-gay attitudes in some places. The Maldives is one such place - I’ve no idea if you will be OK if you are very discreet.

[hypothetically]

Thanks for all the responses. I was asking of course as a feeler mostly. It's always tough if the price is too high then it gets awkward doesn't it?

 

I guess there's no real answer to this then.

 

Awkward for who?

[cany10011]

Thanks for all the responses. I was asking of course as a feeler mostly. It's always tough if the price is too high then it gets awkward doesn't it?

 

I guess there's no real answer to this then.

 

 

Unfortunately, it is dependent on the escort and how much he feels his time is worth. Or, you can propose your budget and see what he says.