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I’ve come to the conclusion that he has some serious “issues.” Which is unfortunate because he looks great and comes across in other venues as being a great guy. 
 

Several years ago, after a lot of poor communication on his end, we had an appointment set up to meet (when he lived in NYC). Confirmed, but he would only give me the street address, not the apartment. Said he would tell me when I got there. I should have known better. I showed up at the agreed upon time and address, and he ghosted me. No apology, no explanation. In hindsight, for all I know, he gave me a fake address, though for what reason, I have no idea. I vowed that would be the last time that happened—he lost his chance to gain a client. 
 

However, many years passed, and he was like the one “regret” I had in not hiring.  Despite how he ghosted it me, he was one of only a few that have that extra level of attraction for me, that makes me want to try again. I can say I’ve come across maybe 3-4 men at most who could do that. The rest, I don’t care how hot you are, if you treat me like that, I’m done. And I’ve stuck with that decision, and never regretted it. 
 

But like I said… his ad pops up again, in Florida. I decide, maybe another chance. Even if I have to travel there, for this one time, it could be worth it. I reach out (not mentioning our prior incident). Bad communication delays on his end. But after some preliminaries, he tells me he wants to know my RM profile. Which I rotate on occasion (along with cells for my hobby—for privacy concerns), so it wasn’t the same one from years before. Within 12 hours he’s ghosted me and blocked my profile. I have no idea what set him off. My profile was bare bones (mostly physical description), we hadn’t discussed what I wanted to happen during the session yet, or anything like that. And I had sent 1-2 followup texts in the 12 hours. I’m thinking, how does he set up clients when he’s just blocking people for literally no obvious reason?

Fast forward, and again his ad is back. I was already planning a Florida trip, so I thought, let me reach out one more time. Maybe I’ll get lucky. Again, very delayed response via text, but finally I get him in an actual conversation. Discussed what I wanted, there was one thing he’s not into, which I said OK, we set up a time to meet and a time for me to send an Uber to pick him up, and where. He asks for my RM profile, which this time had literally nothing in it. A little while later, out of the blue, he contacts me and tells me he’s changed his mind. I asked him why, and he claimed he’s not into one of the things I wanted to do, despite earlier not only agreeing to it, but making a point to tell me how good he was. I offer to take that off the list, but again… he ghosts me and blocks me. We had an appointment set up, we had had the conversation on how the session was to go, were in agreement, then… nope. And what I wanted was mostly vanilla. Nothing wild or weird. 
 

I don’t know what sets him off. But he has obvious issues around this activity. I just don’t know if he’s like this all the time, or just in these instances. I have no idea what his problem is, but I don’t see how he ever meets anyone and gets these 5 star reviews. Maybe they just are dinner dates. Or maybe they are hot like him. No idea. 

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@RamPoundAss you definitely went above and beyond what I would even contemplate doing. Don't feel bad.  I recall that, a long time ago, I engaged him in a RM chat conversation about a meet up in NYC.  For some inexplicable reason he blocked me as well.  I like to think of myself as someone who is tactful and polite in my communications with escorts.  So, don't take it personally!

The new ad, with name change, is up.  Location Milan, Italy.

I have no clue what is going on with him, but he seems stressed about being an escort.  To say the least.

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3 hours ago, BaronArtz said:

@RamPoundAss you definitely went above and beyond what I would even contemplate doing. Don't feel bad.  I recall that, a long time ago, I engaged him in a RM chat conversation about a meet up in NYC.  For some inexplicable reason he blocked me as well.  I like to think of myself as someone who is tactful and polite in my communications with escorts.  So, don't take it personally!

The new ad, with name change, is up.  Location Milan, Italy.

I have no clue what is going on with him, but he seems stressed about being an escort.  To say the least.

I do sort of take it personally, even though I was polite and respectful. LOL I just can’t figure out his game. 
 

As I said, he’s the exception in terms of second chances. Others never got a second chance. 

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@RamPoundAss one thing you said about an early attempt to meet with this escort I disagree with and that is when he gave you his street address and not his apartment number in advance. I find that pretty standard for a first time meeting and I have often followed those directions with no untoward results. In fact that happened to me last week and I had even met this provider 4 years ago in another city. This time it was at his hotel and I texted him from the lobby and he responded immediately with his room number. 

Now in your case things turned out differently and I understand that. But I would not take it that a provider being cautious abput his exact location when a client may ghost him  is fully understandable and does not constitute a red flag in my experience.

 

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3 minutes ago, Luv2play said:

@RamPoundAss one thing you said about an early attempt to meet with this escort I disagree with and that is when he gave you his street address and not his apartment number in advance. I find that pretty standard for a first time meeting and I have often followed those directions with no untoward results. In fact that happened to me last week and I had even met this provider 4 years ago in another city. This time it was at his hotel and I texted him from the lobby and he responded immediately with his room number. 

Now in your case things turned out differently and I understand that. But I would not take it that a provider being cautious abput his exact location when a client may ghost him  is fully understandable and does not constitute a red flag in my experience.

 

I have had it work out… I met with Mathianis and he didn’t give me his apt number until I got there. Maybe to protect privacy in case I was playing games and not serious. And I had a recent instance where I met someone, and he had to come get me from the lobby because you had to punch a private code into the elevator to get to his floor. So, it’s not always a sign something is amiss. But it’s also an easy way to ghost someone. 

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I checked out his RM ad and he has a very long track record of over 100 5 star reviews going back to 2016. I would say you and he are just not compatible and leave it at that.

Obviously his business is not going to suffer if he doesn't agree to see you. In your place I would just move on. There are so many others to choose from. 

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2 minutes ago, RamPoundAss said:

I have had it work out… I met with Mathianis and he didn’t give me his apt number until I got there. Maybe to protect privacy in case I was playing games and not serious. And I had a recent instance where I met someone, and he had to come get me from the lobby because you had to punch a private code into the elevator to get to his floor. So, it’s not always a sign something is amiss. But it’s also an easy way to ghost someone. 

How was Mathianis? He is another guy with loads of 5 star reviews. Just never het back to NY where he is based I believe.

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1 minute ago, RamPoundAss said:

As a bottom. I can’t speak to his topping skills. Though he does seem to want to please, unlike many others who are indifferent. So…

I see Sebastian lists as a top. Was that the real issue between you and him and his reluctance to meet?

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Just now, Luv2play said:

I see Sebastian lists as a top. Was that the real issue between you and him and his reluctance to meet?

I doubt it, because we never even got that far in one of the conversations. And depending on what else we could do, I may have made an exception for him and not required it. 

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