Asian-friendly masseurs in LA

[Monarchy79]

Please tell me this is satire. You're addressing racism with racial generalities? Could you be any more time deaf?

Please tell me this is satire. You're addressing racism with racial generalities? Could you be any more time deaf?

 

Just as “time deaf”, as you are.... didn’t you previously post how “boring”, white men are? Sounds like a generalization to me... ?

[EastbayMike]

Yes, and I also admitted to my own racism regarding the statement.

[Monarchy79]

Yes, and I also admitted to my own racism regarding the statement.

As someone who has received a lot of racism in my own life, I think you are somewhat reaching with your use of the term “racist“..... and forgive me, but it’s hard to take the idea of racism seriously when the reasoning is because someone has a “type”, that they will or will not give a massage to ...lol

 

Racism is such a deeply-rooted institutionalized construct that has ruined and altered so many lives for generations, that it’s hard for me to take these “massage-racists” allegations seriously. Why? Because it doesn’t matter...

 

When I think of racism, I think of the linkages to prison populations with the criminal justice system, in which the bureau of federal prisons makes billions off of cheap prison labor.

 

When I think of racism, I think of the history of the socio-economic disenfranchisement of people of color, in business, real estate, education, and even the disparities of how our credit is reported.

 

So although I appreciate and respect your enthusiastic abborhence towards racism in this discussion.... please ask your self... is this really important?

 

There are issues with race that extend far beyond this that people never seem to want to address, which makes this forum topic quite ironic. Lol

 

So for me, as a black man, I’m more concerned with being shot by the cops, having a white woman call the cops on me for sitting in a Starbucks, racism on the job, and my overall state of well being in this country...

 

I could care less whether some dude prefers to massage me or not.

[+ Balthazar]

Although I've had positive experiences with additional LA masseurs, here are some that indicate openness to various races, body types, etc. in their ads. I have some other masseurs in mind that I believe would be accepting of Asian men, but I would just be guessing based on my experiences (I'm Black).

 

Clint

https://www.masseurfinder.com/massage-therapists/8402/

 

Mark

https://www.masseurfinder.com/massage-therapists/1521/

 

Eddie

https://www.masseurfinder.com/massage-therapists/7643/

[MsgFantasy]

I've already PMed the original poster my recommendations, so I don't feel too bad about steering the discussion off topic.

 

I'm Asian, I'm not hung, and I'm around 30 pounds overweight. I've hired 4 L.A. area masseurs in total so far mostly based on rate and whether or not they can do outcall to my location. I've had good experiences with 2 of them, and I don't want to hire the other 2 any more because their extras were too much. Therefore, it's absolutely inaccurate to say most masseurs in L.A. are anti-Asian. Honestly, as someone who immigrated here from China, I don't understand how people, who grew up here, can live their life seeing every obstacle they encountered as a result of racism. That's a big turn-off for me in a man of color, actually.

 

Granted, most of the men I've been with are white, but that's after growing up in China seeing millions of skincare commercials about whitening, hearing how other older Chinese people complimenting white skin, big eyes, and tall noses. Maybe the beauty standards I grew up with are racist, but it wasn't my fault, nor was it any white person's fault. It also f**ked me up too, I have small eyes and wide nose, so I had to grow up thinking I'm ugly. Coming to America makes me realize that there are people who appreciate how I look, and I also learned to appreciate the beauty of people with darker skin: I've had encounters with Latino, black, and mid-eastern men. Therefore, you can call people racist, or you can give them a chance to learn and appreciate you. It's always hard to be refused, but as long as I still have a type, I can't bring myself to blame others for not being into me. Yes, you can always argue masseurs shouldn't discriminate, but we are not talking about masseurs that work out of your chiropractor's clinic, are we?

Edited December 28, 2018 by MsgFantasy

[RunnerGuy]

Sorry guys, I meant to write I am South Asian (autocorrects to Southeast when I reply via my phone).

 

It encompasses a lot of groups, but Indian is the largest population in the world and the States.

 

Funny that the conversation of Southeast Asians came up, because I had a conversation with a Filipino friend and said that even among Asians there is a ranking in the gay community.

 

Filipinos who have Spanish blood are at the top because they pass for Latino and mixed race. Then the "brown boys" aka the Vietnamese and Thai for reasons stated by other posters. They also seem to be more hung. Then the East Asians -- usually Koreans because they are taller and have more square Western features, followed by Chinese and Japanese. Then South Asians on the bottom.

 

Unless you are Northern Indian with a fair complexion and light eyes. They are revered on the continent and why you seem them in Bollywood.

 

I don't see very many Indians, Pakistanis, Nepalese out. It might be internalized fear and cultural stigma. But also knowing you are not seen as attractive hurts. I have one Indian friend who is out. He has a beautiful dark hair and brown skin. The most dazzling white smile. Many people think he is Cuban. And when he tells some suitors he is Indian they change their opinions about him. Nothing has changed from when they thought he was Cuban versus Indian. That, to me, proves racism exists.

 

It's why a masseur asked me if I am Muslim (there are actually lots of Muslims in India) but it is none of his business and immaterial to the massage. Another said he was glad I didn't smell like an Indian. Out of the dozen or so LA masseurs I've gone to, I would say two were outright rude, and two seemed to have "issues." So that's one third -- not a good percentage. The rest -- the majority -- have been wonderful.

Edited December 28, 2018 by RunnerGuy

[jdjd46]

I’m Asian and have been getting massages for over a decade in LA. Here is a list of guys who are currently advertising that I’ve been to personally, who have had no issues with me being Asian... many of them have gotten very sensual:

 

Anthony: https://www.masseurfinder.com/massage-therapists/35730/

 

Phil: https://www.masseurfinder.com/massage-therapists/8562/

 

 

Randy: https://www.masseurfinder.com/massage-therapists/35784/

 

Ahmed: https://www.masseurfinder.com/massage-therapists/16950/

 

Clint: https://www.masseurfinder.com/massage-therapists/8402/

 

Stefano: https://www.masseurfinder.com/massage-therapists/6920/

 

Anthony: https://www.masseurfinder.com/massage-therapists/932/

 

Clark: https://www.masseurfinder.com/massage-therapists/26848/

 

Daniel: https://www.masseurfinder.com/massage-therapists/16820/

 

Jack: https://www.masseurfinder.com/massage-therapists/5772/

 

Ethan: https://rentmasseur.com/EncinoMan

 

I would also say that if you are just looking for a therapeutic massage most therapists in healing section would be fine. I am also an average looking Asian guy... not one most would think is super attractive.

Edited January 2, 2019 by jdjd46

[+ sync]

I’m Asian and have been getting massages for over a decade in LA. Here is a list of guys who are currently advertising that I’ve been to personally, who have had no issues with me being Asian... many of them have gotten very sensual:

 

Anthony: https://www.masseurfinder.com/massage-therapists/35730/

 

Phil: https://www.masseurfinder.com/massage-therapists/8562/

 

 

Randy: https://www.masseurfinder.com/massage-therapists/35784/

 

Ahmed: https://www.masseurfinder.com/massage-therapists/16950/

 

Clint: https://www.masseurfinder.com/massage-therapists/8402/

 

Stefano: https://www.masseurfinder.com/massage-therapists/6920/

 

Anthony: https://www.masseurfinder.com/massage-therapists/932/

 

Clark: https://www.masseurfinder.com/massage-therapists/26848/

 

Daniel: https://www.masseurfinder.com/massage-therapists/16820/

 

Jack: https://www.masseurfinder.com/massage-therapists/5772/

 

Ethan: https://rentmasseur.com/EncinoMan

 

I would also say that if you are just looking for a therapeutic massage most therapists in healing section would be fine. I am also an average looking Asian guy... not one most would think is super attractive.

 

That is a very impressive listing...especially Daniel: https://www.masseurfinder.com/massage-therapists/16820/

Yummy, yum, yum!

[AC Kreamer]

Sorry guys, I meant to write I am South Asian (autocorrects to Southeast when I reply via my phone).

 

It encompasses a lot of groups, but Indian is the largest population in the world and the States.

 

Funny that the conversation of Southeast Asians came up, because I had a conversation with a Filipino friend and said that even among Asians there is a ranking in the gay community.

 

Filipinos who have Spanish blood are at the top because they pass for Latino and mixed race. Then the "brown boys" aka the Vietnamese and Thai for reasons stated by other posters. They also seem to be more hung. Then the East Asians -- usually Koreans because they are taller and have more square Western features, followed by Chinese and Japanese. Then South Asians on the bottom.

 

Unless you are Northern Indian with a fair complexion and light eyes. They are revered on the continent and why you seem them in Bollywood.

 

I don't see very many Indians, Pakistanis, Nepalese out. It might be internalized fear and cultural stigma. But also knowing you are not seen as attractive hurts. I have one Indian friend who is out. He has a beautiful dark hair and brown skin. The most dazzling white smile. Many people think he is Cuban. And when he tells some suitors he is Indian they change their opinions about him. Nothing has changed from when they thought he was Cuban versus Indian. That, to me, proves racism exists.

 

It's why a masseur asked me if I am Muslim (there are actually lots of Muslims in India) but it is none of his business and immaterial to the massage. Another said he was glad I didn't smell like an Indian. Out of the dozen or so LA masseurs I've gone to, I would say two were outright rude, and two seemed to have "issues." So that's one third -- not a good percentage. The rest -- the majority -- have been wonderful.

Not to be a reverse racist, but I think south asian guys are hot!

[BuddyWorker]

Totally agree with @sync https://www.masseurfinder.com/massage-therapists/16820/ Daniel is yum! “Had him” while both of us were visiting Boston.

[jdjd46]

Also... for the most part, masseurs are accepting of Asians. Just because they don’t want to have sex with you doesn’t mean you can’t have a good experience. You can’t go into a session hoping to get a more sensual experience unless it was discussed prior. And if it was discussed prior and the masseur doesn’t ask about my ethnicity, I assume it doesn’t matter to him.

 

On a few occasions when they did ask and I let them know I’m Asian... they mentioned they weren’t really into Asians sexually but can still give me a great massage. I personally don’t think it’s racism. They’re not baking me a cake or providing me legal guidance. There has to be some level of mutual comfort to get more intimate.

 

And as I’ve mentioned before... there have been numerous times when the masseur wanted to go further than I did, but I was the one who wasn’t interested. I politely asked him to stop and he continued the massage. It’s all about mutual respect and communication.

Edited January 3, 2019 by jdjd46

[P2p676]

Totally agree with @sync https://www.masseurfinder.com/massage-therapists/16820/ Daniel is yum! “Had him” while both of us were visiting Boston.

Would you be willing to pm me with some more details? He’s really cute!