Keeping track of time

[+ V-Vhitner]

Whose responsibility is it to keep track of time?

If we’re having fun and run over the hour or prescribed time, is it assumed the client automatically pays for the additional time - and at rack rate?

 

Sometimes my providers are totally unfussed and are happy to run over at no charge. Others are emphatic about strict time keeping...

I hate to ruin the possibility of gratis overtime by hashing it all out at the beginning. But I also hate to leave things unclear and risk the need for an awkward conversation and/or find myself on the hook for a huge bill. (feel free to wordplay that - I’ve left myself wide open) (again))

 

If this is well-covered on previous threads, my sincere apologies. I’m still somewhat new

[Rudynate]

I assume that it's my responsibilty. To me, two hours means two hours. Often, when I take note of the time, the provider says I can relax and not rush off.

[jawjateck]

Your chosen professional for the evening usually ends the meeting. Unless we amend the agreement, I hold to the original terms, but include a tip for an extended good time.

[+ V-Vhitner]

I assume that it's my responsibilty. To me, two hours means two hours. Often, when I take note of the time, the provider says I can relax and not rush off.

How do you remind yourself without breaking the mood? I tend to keep my attention undivided.

[+ V-Vhitner]

Your chosen professional for the evening usually ends the meeting. Unless we amend the agreement, I hold to the original terms, but include a tip for an extended good time.

But I’ve had providers say “We go three hours - you pay three hours! Me not cheap.”

[jawjateck]

But I’ve had providers say “We go three hours - you pay three hours! Me not cheap.”

 

Generally, I'm time-conscious and check in if I think we are going long, but that type of "pro" is a scammer. My response: "we scheduled a 2 hour meeting for xxx. You ignored our agreement. Not my problem."

[+ quoththeraven]

Whose responsibility is it to keep track of time?

If we’re having fun and run over the hour or prescribed time, is it assumed the client automatically pays for the additional time - and at rack rate?

 

Sometimes my providers are totally unfussed and are happy to run over at no charge. Others are emphatic about strict time keeping...

I hate to ruin the possibility of gratis overtime by hashing it all out at the beginning. But I also hate to leave things unclear and risk the need for an awkward conversation and/or find myself on the hook for a huge bill. (feel free to wordplay that - I’ve left myself wide open) (again))

 

If this is well-covered on previous threads, my sincere apologies. I’m still somewhat new

It's the escort's responsibility, imo. He's the one with the experience and the one guiding the session.

[Rudynate]

How do you remind yourself without breaking the mood? I tend to keep my attention undivided.

 

I don't care if the mood gets broken. Unbroken moods are overrated. But, as I've said before, I'm a fairly easy client.

[Rudynate]

It's the escort's responsibility, imo. He's the one with the experience and the one guiding the session.

 

The escort is guiding the session? I always experience it as a cooperative effort.

[+ quoththeraven]

The escort is guiding the session? I always experience it as a cooperative effort.

In the sense that an enjoyable encounter is cooperative, yes, but this is about the business side, not the personal. To me it makes more sense for the person in the business of providing companionship in time increments to keep track of the time.

[Rudynate]

In the sense that an enjoyable encounter is cooperative, yes, but this is about the business side, not the personal. To me it makes more sense for the person in the business of providing companionship in time increments to keep track of the time.

 

 

It seems such a small thing, checking the time once or twice. It astonished me that anyone wants to assign it to one party or another as their job.

[rvwnsd]

[BluDay]

I consider it to be the ultimate responsibility of the escort, after all, I shouldn't be able to think about a clock . However, I do my best to get an eye on when we start so that when time wraps up, I'm not too surprised.

[The Phoenix]

I’m usually the one who keeps track of time. I don’t want my clients to do that. I’d rather they not think of the time at all—it gets them all in their head, worrying about using the time just right. So I try to find that balance of being mindful of time without being a clock-watcher, because the latter is just plain rude and affects the dynamic in a way I don’t like.

[+ azdr0710]

I'm usually the clock-watcher at these meetings.....if you want it done right, do it yourself!.....one of the first things I do when checking in to a room is make sure the clock is correctly set and in full view from the bed! .....

[TruHart1]

Whose responsibility is it to keep track of time?

If we’re having fun and run over the hour or prescribed time, is it assumed the client automatically pays for the additional time - and at rack rate?

 

Sometimes my providers are totally unfussed and are happy to run over at no charge. Others are emphatic about strict time keeping...

I hate to ruin the possibility of gratis overtime by hashing it all out at the beginning. But I also hate to leave things unclear and risk the need for an awkward conversation and/or find myself on the hook for a huge bill. (feel free to wordplay that - I’ve left myself wide open) (again))

 

If this is well-covered on previous threads, my sincere apologies. I’m still somewhat new

Its different for me as I'm never a clock watcher but then i realize not all escorts are like me .I always tend to spend extra time than the time the client hired for. Most times the clock goes over because were having a good time, they enjoy the extra time and thats what makes them hire you again, versus an escort immediately rushing a client once the clock hits an hour. But i would say its an escorts decision to monitor the clock because a client won't cut time short if he's enjoying his time. So don't rush the time however dont let someone stay over for hours and assume they will pay you because most likely the client brought enough money for the time you originally scheduled for, ultimately its about finding a happy medium.

As a client, I am always careful about time with a new hire, noting the time on a nearby clock, though most escorts do tend to be very good at keeping track of the time without seeming like clock-watchers. With my regular repeat escorts who have become favorites, I am much more relaxed, having usually gotten to know how they are about time. I'd say the majority of my favorite regulars are NOT clock-watchers. If we go over the agreed on time, nothing is said and the fee remains the amount for the time agreed on.

 

That being said, every escort is unique. I have met a few clock-watchers but the majority of escorts I've hired tend to be happy to ignore the clock for a reasonable amount of time, usually going over by only 15 or 20 minutes, much like [uSER=12155]@Dominiking[/uSER]. A few of my favorite regulars know exactly how to work me up so I finish a bit over the halfway point or so of our session and then cuddle or softly converse with me until our time is finished. Then they gently disengage, clean up, get dressed, offer me a shower, etc. which indicates that our time is complete.

 

Of course, a few of my favorites really do not care about time at all. One special escort always falls asleep with his head on my chest after we both finish, and we end up taking a short nap for 30 or 45 minutes in addition to our session time, usually before going out together for a nice meal after. Another enjoys getting together off the clock for shared meals or just exploring his city when I visit his area. Of course, I pay for all our meals and make sure to hire him on-the-clock multiple times during my visit, too.

 

A few of the by-the-book clock-watchers I have hired again, if they were exciting enough, but most only once. My favorites tend to not be hung up on caring about being paid for the extra time and often we let the love-making and socializing after or before run its natural course with no thought of the time involved. Each escort is as unique as their individual personality, though!

 

TruHart1