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I wonder if it could be that they don't like the word 'pro' (as in the oldest profession, not pro meaning professional). That he said 'but thanks for the compliment' implies to me that he was reacting to one particular aspect of your communication not the overall message.

It’s possible, i suppose. I actually did consider that for a moment. The context of e-mails often leaves something unintended

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Hmm, you gave a compliment to a fellow escort and he "...just threw up in [his] mouth a little..." What an asshole. I give compliments to colleagues all the time and they say "thank you."

 

There's no telling why he responded that way. Frankly, I can't fathom why anyone would give that response to a compliment. He lists PNP as an interest, so maybe the drugs have addled his brain and caused him to have tummy issues that cause random acts of vomiting

 

Regarding comments about you being a "gay stereotype," if being in a loving committed relationship has become a gay stereotype then hooray!!

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yeah...his profile is LucasStrom posted in San Diego. Much love to you, my friend. Thanks for the support ❤️
Just to save everyone some time......

 

https://rentmen.eu/Lucasstrom

 

Funny enough I’m about to go on a trip to San Diego....and he was on my short list

 

Not anymore.....

 

Well, the above behavior....plus......

 

https://m4m-forum.org/threads/lucas-strom-411.126177/

 

Looks like you “men” are aging a thousand times better than this “boy”!

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Our communication with clients and other pros is overwhelmingly positive. We stay nicely booked and have hundreds of fans page subscribers. However, we do have some hate mail every once in a while. We’ve had the predictable ones in the past ranging from disgust that we “flaunt” our relationship to criticism for being gay stereotypes. This one today, though, surprised me as I made initial contact to give a compliment to another escort and maybe some encouragement. His response was to ask if we wanted to book him. When I answered “no, just giving a compliment to another pro”, his response was “I just threw up in my mouth a little, but thanks for a compliment.”.

 

It’s always disappointing since we are just having fun and know we aren’t for everybody any more than everybody is for us. However, I don’t think I’ll ever understand it. I’m of the persuasion that nothing-nice needs nothin said. Why do some feel the need to lash out? Thoughts? Maybe some here feel disgusted by us, too? I have thick skin, so I’d be interested in your take.

 

I recall from my therapist: if you didn't have malicious intention, you are not really at fault.

 

How someone responds to your compliment says a lot more about him than it does about you.

 

So both of you are not at fault: you only meant to send encouragement. Continue being kind and nice because the world has so little of it. :)

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Hmm, you gave a compliment to a fellow escort and he "...just threw up in

 

Regarding comments about you being a "gay stereotype," if being in a loving committed relationship has become a gay stereotype then hooray!!

Lol

Just to save everyone some time......

 

https://rentmen.eu/Lucasstrom

 

Funny enough I’m about to go on a trip to San Diego....and he was on my short list

 

Not anymore.....

 

Well, the above behavior....plus......

 

https://m4m-forum.org/threads/lucas-strom-411.126177/

 

Looks like you “men” are aging a thousand times better than this “boy”!

Well, thanks for this. Makes me feel a little better reading the comments. He’s going to have a rough life if this is the path he’s choosing.

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Regarding comments about you being a "gay stereotype," if being in a loving committed relationship has become a gay stereotype then hooray!!

 

I guess we’ll own the stereotype!! Lol! Thanks, my friend!

 

 

Continue being kind and nice because the world has so little of it. :)

 

Couldn’t agree more!! ❌⭕️

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Our communication with clients and other pros is overwhelmingly positive. We stay nicely booked and have hundreds of fans page subscribers. However, we do have some hate mail every once in a while. We’ve had the predictable ones in the past ranging from disgust that we “flaunt” our relationship to criticism for being gay stereotypes. This one today, though, surprised me as I made initial contact to give a compliment to another escort and maybe some encouragement. His response was to ask if we wanted to book him. When I answered “no, just giving a compliment to another pro”, his response was “I just threw up in my mouth a little, but thanks for a compliment.”.

 

It’s always disappointing since we are just having fun and know we aren’t for everybody any more than everybody is for us. However, I don’t think I’ll ever understand it. I’m of the persuasion that nothing-nice needs nothin said. Why do some feel the need to lash out? Thoughts? Maybe some here feel disgusted by us, too? I have thick skin, so I’d be interested in your take.

 

Not to belabor the point, but this is on my computer and I thought that I would share with you guys. Seems apropos here.

 

http://2.bp.blogspot.com/-R_tRktEZGvk/USPS5k1DKVI/AAAAAAAAK5U/pM6JjPtyNRg/s1600/There+comes+a+time.jpg

 

All the best...

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Our communication with clients and other pros is overwhelmingly positive. We stay nicely booked and have hundreds of fans page subscribers. However, we do have some hate mail every once in a while. We’ve had the predictable ones in the past ranging from disgust that we “flaunt” our relationship to criticism for being gay stereotypes. This one today, though, surprised me as I made initial contact to give a compliment to another escort and maybe some encouragement. His response was to ask if we wanted to book him. When I answered “no, just giving a compliment to another pro”, his response was “I just threw up in my mouth a little, but thanks for a compliment.”.

 

It’s always disappointing since we are just having fun and know we aren’t for everybody any more than everybody is for us. However, I don’t think I’ll ever understand it. I’m of the persuasion that nothing-nice needs nothin said. Why do some feel the need to lash out? Thoughts? Maybe some here feel disgusted by us, too? I have thick skin, so I’d be interested in your take.

 

With that attitude he won't last in the market, he also would be lucky to mature as graceful as the 2 of you are doing.

 

Hopefully he'll lean eventually that networking and getting tips from those who have been escorting for years could be helpful.

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Not to belabor the point, but this is on my computer and I thought that I would share with you guys. Seems apropos here.

 

http://2.bp.blogspot.com/-R_tRktEZGvk/USPS5k1DKVI/AAAAAAAAK5U/pM6JjPtyNRg/s1600/There+comes+a+time.jpg

 

All the best...

Love it! Thank you

Hopefully he'll lean eventually that networking and getting tips from those who have been escorting for years could be helpful.

Thanks for the support and compliments. We had great guys here help us out, too. Will definitely stick to this forum for that!

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Marshall McLuhan offered some insightful observation on how the then new medium of television impacted society. Today, we have so many more platforms. We tend to behave with a modicum of social grace in the presence of others. One can be alone when posting or tweeting. It may be that when we communicate via social media the absence of another's presence and the brevity of the message drive down the standards of decency.

Having said that, I think Tyler, Ace & Benjamin give evidence that they are as classy as they are hot!

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Marshall McLuhan offered some insightful observation on how the then new medium of television impacted society. Today, we have so many more platforms. We tend to behave with a modicum of social grace in the presence of others. One can be alone when posting or tweeting. It may be that when we communicate via social media the absence of another's presence and the brevity of the message drive down the standards of decency.

Having said that, I think Tyler, Ace & Benjamin give evidence that they are as classy as they are hot!

Thanks fellas. Appreciate the support from you guys. Life is too short to go around being a dick all the time, right? But I think there is definitely power in anonymity for those who like to make themselves seem more than they are. It is a shame that social media brings that side of humanity out in some people. But, it's there, nonetheless. Best to you all XOXO

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