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Hi guys what kind of advice you guys can give me for help on escorts that are fake like they don't look like their picture. They promised you the things they gonna do but don't do it. Do I stop the session because they lie to my face? Leave when they don't look like their picture or still leave when they look a little bit but they still need to update their picture? Am pretty much tired of paying full amount and getting sucker of some of these escorts who just want to make a quick buck.

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This happened a lot to me when I use to hire backpage escorts. Not so much on rentmen. Though there are still some fakers on rentmen. I always fear they will try to rob me, if I don't give them the money. One time a guy who didn't look like his pictures, threatened me after I confronted him, by pretending to call a friend to come over and jump me, if I didn't pay him. So I just paid him, and he left. Usually if they are more unattractive than there pictures, I will pretend not to notice anything, pay them upfront, and ask for just a brief massage, so they don't think I'm suspecting anything. I don't want to risk being exploited, or robbed.

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Hi guys what kind of advice you guys can give me for help on escorts that are fake like they don't look like their picture. They promised you the things they gonna do but don't do it. Do I stop the session because they lie to my face? Leave when they don't look like their picture or still leave when they look a little bit but they still need to update their picture? Am pretty much tired of paying full amount and getting sucker of some of these escorts who just want to make a quick buck.

When I first started meeting guys I ran into a handful of situations such as you describe. I didn't end the sessions because I was 1) somewhat intimidated, and, 2) horny. I regret not immediately ending the session because none of them ever went well and I left angry at myself and frustrated.

 

The best way to deal with this is to avoid it in the first place: thorough vetting of someone you don't know and very clear communications in advance on what you expect with affirmation he understands (to be fair, no one is a mind reader and if I've not clearly expressed my interests I can't fault someone for not addressing them.)

 

There are occasionally situations that arise when things simply aren't going well... he said he liked to kiss but didn't mention it was only on the cheek... his attention drifts away and he's clearly not focused on you (e.g., his cell phone)... something beyond basic lack of chemistry.

 

This rarely happens to me now but when it does I call a timeout and explain that things aren't going well and, in a constructive way, ask if he has any suggestions. It's hard to not be angry or frustrated at this point but work under the assumption that ultimately he wants things to go well. If the situation can't be salvaged then I leave and write a fact-based review. (Assume that any review that you submit will have a rebuttal and stick to the facts.)

 

Hang in there and focus on avoiding the problem in the first place.

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This happened a lot to me when I use to hire backpage escorts. Not so much on rentmen. Though there are still some fakers on rentmen. I always fear they will try to rob me, if I don't give them the money. One time a guy who didn't look like his pictures, threatened me after I confronted him, by pretending to call a friend to come over and jump me, if I didn't pay him. So I just paid him, and he left. Usually if they are more unattractive than there pictures, I will pretend not to notice anything, pay them upfront, and ask for just a brief massage, so they don't think I'm suspecting anything. I don't want to risk being exploited, or robbed.

 

Glad you didn't get mugged looking for that diamond in the rough on Backpage.

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With a new guy I think it's necessary to either have an immediate photo sent ( 3 fingers) or Facetime or something. Otherwise set up a 5 minute outside personal view for a certain amount (say $50-$100) before going further. Way too many fake photos and very very old photos.

 

Then you have to get through whether you're compatible sexually by paying for one session.

 

I stick with regulars to avoid the hassle and if a new one falls in my lap so be it. But searching them out isn't worth it.

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With a new guy I think it's necessary to either have an immediate photo sent ( 3 fingers) or Facetime or something. Otherwise set up a 5 minute outside personal view for a certain amount (say $50-$100) before going further. Way too many fake photos and very very old photos.

 

Then you have to get through whether you're compatible sexually by paying for one session.

 

I stick with regulars to avoid the hassle and if a new one falls in my lap so be it. But searching them out isn't worth it.

Nicely stated, it is so true. I am glad to be building a bank of regulars for that reason.

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This happened a lot to me when I use to hire backpage escorts. Not so much on rentmen. Though there are still some fakers on rentmen. I always fear they will try to rob me, if I don't give them the money. One time a guy who didn't look like his pictures, threatened me after I confronted him, by pretending to call a friend to come over and jump me, if I didn't pay him. So I just paid him, and he left. Usually if they are more unattractive than there pictures, I will pretend not to notice anything, pay them upfront, and ask for just a brief massage, so they don't think I'm suspecting anything. I don't want to risk being exploited, or robbed.

Am sorry for what happened to you. That what am afraid of that they will beat me up for not paying them because they don't look like their picture or leave. Am a skinny guy and their no way I be able to defend myself.

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Hehe, well, that helps before meeting, but the question of what to do if the research still hasn’t protected you, what do you once you are at their place and they are not as advertise?

I guess I’d simply walk away if I have no attraction for the guy.

But if he is hot, I’d probably do him anyway.

 

If you started touching and he doesn’t do what he promised, well, since you pay for his time only, you owe him the fee, so get whatever you can out of the encounter (for example just bust a nut by jerking off on his chest), pay up the agreed fee and write a bad, but accurate review on daddyreviews.com.

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It's funny, comparing my experience as an escort to my experience as a client, when it came to looks I was definitely duped more by my clients than by my escorts. :)

 

Not that it bothered me much, but it was always a little anti-climactic receiving a client's facepic then seeing the reality...

 

You had clients send you fake pics? Crazy, I have never heard that one.

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Hi guys what kind of advice you guys can give me for help on escorts that are fake like they don't look like their picture. They promised you the things they gonna do but don't do it. Do I stop the session because they lie to my face? Leave when they don't look like their picture or still leave when they look a little bit but they still need to update their picture? Am pretty much tired of paying full amount and getting sucker of some of these escorts who just want to make a quick buck.

 

And you haven't even addressed 'age shaving', which many escorts do.

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