A true BFE

[JamesMorris]

What makes you different than others when you are hired for a bfe

Is there a special technique that you only do during this experience

Thanks my loves

[+ ButchAtl]

Wondered about this also...I assume it varies for each escort, but is there any consensus as to what is usually expected in this experience?

[FigureSkater]

During one of my BFE experiences, the client asked to go ice skating with me to watch what I do on the ice. I would say that’s a special technique/skill that most other escorts can’t do

[Kinky Boyfriend]

The vagueness of the term certainly leads to as many different interpretations as there are clients and providers.

However, I think a general impression can be culled from our individual ones: That BFE is just as much (if not more so) about compassionate mental-emotional affection and interaction as it is about whatever else may take place.

 

For me, it means that we spend time together and there's a general ebb and flow with our physical interaction as opposed to having a laundry list of physical acts to take place. A fair amount of time could be spent hand holding, cuddling, talking about the great mysteries of life, etc --- generally behaviors one may expect in an established relationship versus what behavior one may expect from picking someone up at a bar.

[+ Avalon]

The vagueness of the term certainly leads to as many different interpretations as there are clients and providers.

However, I think a general impression can be culled from our individual ones: That BFE is just as much (if not more so) about compassionate mental-emotional affection and interaction as it is about whatever else may take place.

 

For me, it means that we spend time together and there's a general ebb and flow with our physical interaction as opposed to having a laundry list of physical acts to take place. A fair amount of time could be spent hand holding, cuddling, talking about the great mysteries of life, etc --- generally behaviors one may expect in an established relationship versus what behavior one may expect from picking someone up at a bar.

 

YES! In another thread awhile back I brought up hand holding. I see that being a BFE.

[+ Keith30309]

If you make me feel both desirable and cared about then you get an A+

[FTM Zachary Prince]

A lot of my clients say that from the moment we meet, they feel like we are long lost lovers. I have a natural talent for making people feel comfortable to be deeply intimate with me very quickly. I can’t really claim that this is something ONLY I can do, but it’s definitely something that seems to make my style of BFE very special... I kiss without reservation. Love and sex are not separate entities to me and their energy flows together when I give BFE. Now am I literally in love with all my clients? No, but perhaps for the moment, I allow myself to be energetically on that path with them. Someone who is looking for a taste of genuine intimacy can find it with me. My portals are open when I allow them to be...

[Rudynate]

I think a BFE should include generous amounts of affection.

[+ Timsbud]

When the escort treats the client like a friend - there is much more affection / mutual respect / interest in one another's lives / concern for each other's well-being and feelings / shared interests (besides the bedroom) / wanting to be together and do things that both enjoy. When to both parties, there is much more of an attraction (mentally, not just physically) that makes the underlying monetary transaction take on the aspect more of a "gift" than a "fee".

[dixietony]

During one of my BFE experiences, the client asked to go ice skating with me to watch what I do on the ice. I would say that’s a special technique/skill that most other escorts can’t do

 

I'd love that time with you. An escort and I went ice skating in Altoona, PA once. He was much better than me.