My neighbour wants to hire me?!

[Guest]

Hey guys!

 

Slightly unusual situation. A guy from The building next door to my flat wants to book me in. He is literally a minute walk from

My building. Which would mean we would shop at the same supermarket and get on the same busses and so on.

 

My question is what would you do? Would you accept the booking or decline because of how close he is to your home?. I also live with my mum so it could be a bit awkward!

 

Let me know what you all think I should do?

 

Thanks x

[+ VictorPowers]

Go for it. If you feel like you’re compromising your anonymity with how close you live to the client, then steer away. Otherwise, casually running into a local client can and will happen from time to time. It doesn’t need to be awkward in the slightest.

[Kris Parkes]

I've done similar before, it's a guy around the corner. Honestly I had never seen him before, and have not yet run into him in the hood. I also have had it happen with a distant coworker when traveling abroad for a company meeting. HA!

[MikeBiDude]

It’s fine...I had a similar situation with a young man living in my small gated community. Proved to be a lot of fun. You just have to be able to be discreet when you see the gentlemen in local everyday life.

 

Now....if the hottie frat boy right next door would JUST show up on Grindr!

[LJNYC83]

That person would be in the running for my favorite client ever. I’ve traveled far for some. Traveling around the corner would be amazing.

[LivingnLA]

It’s fine...I had a similar situation with a young man living in my small gated community. Proved to be a lot of fun. You just have to be able to be discreet when you see the gentlemen in local everyday life.

 

Now....if the hottie frat boy right next door would JUST show up on Grindr!

 

The joys and risks of Grindr.

[LivingnLA]

Hey guys!

 

Slightly unusual situation. A guy from The building next door to my flat wants to book me in. He is literally a minute walk from

My building. Which would mean we would shop at the same supermarket and get on the same busses and so on.

 

My question is what would you do? Would you accept the booking or decline because of how close he is to your home?. I also live with my mum so it could be a bit awkward!

 

Let me know what you all think I should do?

 

Thanks x

 

If you feel the client can maintain discretion as well, then go for it! It's certainly convenient. But, if you're living discreetly and worrying about how you might explain running into him at the pub, then maybe not.

 

To use @MikeBiDude's example above about a hookup, I've hooked up with people in my neighborhood too. One was completely fine and knew how to remain completely discreet when we'd run into each other in public settings. Another guy did not and I had to end things firmly with him.

 

Having sex for money is more complex than a hookup since it's a criminal activity in many places, but the same rules of discretion apply for those of us who cannot be outed. If the client and you are completely out, then there's not really an issue because people will assume you met at the pub, gym, or some other activity. They won't even think about escorting unless the age difference is substantial. Good luck!

Edited June 28, 2018 by LivingnLA

[cany10011]

Whoo... i don't know. I once hired some one that plays violin in the subway nearby and it is awkward sometimes running into him. It isn't a hire i would repeat... so it is awkward for me. The urban maxim about not shitting where one eats....comes to mind.

[+ Travis69]

If you refuse him he may get pissed and cause trouble for you. I would see him.

[biggerbilly]

What a lucky guy. I’d kill to have someone I can hire 5 miles away, let alone a street corner away.

[+ JEC]

I’d like to have a provider I likes that close

[marylander1940]

Hey guys!

 

Slightly unusual situation. A guy from The building next door to my flat wants to book me in. He is literally a minute walk from

My building. Which would mean we would shop at the same supermarket and get on the same busses and so on.

 

My question is what would you do? Would you accept the booking or decline because of how close he is to your home?. I also live with my mum so it could be a bit awkward!

 

Let me know what you all think I should do?

 

Thanks x

 

Why not?

 

He'd be just another client. Here in DuPont escorts run into their clients constantly and no drama about it.

[marylander1940]

What a lucky guy. I’d kill to have someone I can hire 5 miles away, let alone a street corner away.

 

In any big city and you'll have plenty of choices nearby.

Edited June 28, 2018 by marylander1940

[biggerbilly]

Move to any big city and you'll have plenty of choices nearby.

You’re right, I don’t know what I’m thinking. Moving to a big city is very easy and very affordable!

 

 

 

 

[marylander1940]

You’re right, I don’t know what I’m thinking. Moving to a big city is very easy and very affordable!

 

 

 

 

 

That's where the escort$ are....

 

I’d like to have a provider I likes that close

 

Where are escorts based in Boston? Back Bay?

[+ poolboy48220]

So nobody's going to ask how you manage to be an escort while living with your mother?

[JayJonathan]

So nobody's going to ask how you manage to be an escort while living with your mother?

 

Lol. I missed that comment when I read the original post. I’ve been at an escort/ masseur’s home before when a partner or roommate showed up, but their mom walking in would be a new one!!

[+ Tarte Gogo]

So nobody's going to ask how you manage to be an escort while living with your mother?

He is only doing outcalls of course. Like so many escorts.

[Guest]

Thanks guys so much for your comments and advice! I was thinking of texting him back and explaining how I feel and see what he comes back with. I’ll then go with my gut feeling! I can see the advantages and disadvantages but something’s telling me theres plenty of other fish out there and why should i risk meeting someone literally a minutes walk from my door? Just in case he turns out to be a scary shark or something!

 

Thanks again for all your comments!

X

[Bearofdistinction]

I’d like to have a provider I likes that close

 

I used to have a delightful hot kinky gentlemen caller who literally lived 1/2 block away -- I wish I knew where he moved to --- lots of fun --- nice guy -- and since he could literally crawl to my house always used incall as his pay schedule ---- If anyone knows where Roman Holiday (aka Steve - he was also a personal trainer and worked thru Ballys) landed Id love to see him again!

Edited June 28, 2018 by Bearofdistinction

[MiamiLooker]

Hey guys!

 

Slightly unusual situation. A guy from The building next door to my flat wants to book me in. He is literally a minute walk from

My building. Which would mean we would shop at the same supermarket and get on the same busses and so on.

 

My question is what would you do? Would you accept the booking or decline because of how close he is to your home?. I also live with my mum so it could be a bit awkward!

 

Let me know what you all think I should do?

 

Thanks x

If he doesn't end up hiring you and he saw you on the street, he wouldn't recognize you?

[LaffingBear]

Admittedly sideways, paranoid reply:

 

No opinion regarding any awkwardness, neighborhood encounters, etc.

 

Someone who is comfortable enough to approach a neighbor with such a proposition might be someone who has done it before.

 

Go on any porn website and search for "neighbor"or "grindr".. incredible how many hidden-cam vids will be returned by the search. One might say thats true of any encounter... but there seems to be some extra attraction to recording neighbors.

 

I'm edging toward the belief that all clients, rentguys, and hookup app-users, should invest in and carry hidden and wifi camera scanners.

[+ g56whiz]

I also live with my mum so it could be a bit awkward!

 

If running into him on the block could be awkward you may want to reconsider your career choice.

[+ JEC]

That's where the escort$ are....

 

 

Where are escorts based in Boston? Back Bay?

Only the extremely wealthy can afford Back Bay, or frankly most neighborhoods in Boston

[Gadfly22]

Only the extremely wealthy can afford Back Bay, or frankly most neighborhoods in Boston

How's Dwohchestuh (Dorchester to normal people ) these days? When I lived in the area 20 years ago it wasn't exactly the best neighborhood.