Another newbie question

[John444]

As a newbie i have a couple of questions. If someone prefers to be contacted by text what is an acceptable and discrete message to send indicating my interest?

 

Can i ask some to contact me via an email or is that too inconvenient?

 

I know....really basic. Thanks in advance

 

John444

[+ Just Sayin]

how about "hi, this is X; what is your schedule on Tuesday?"

[David1024]

As a newbie i have a couple of questions. If someone prefers to be contacted by text what is an acceptable and discrete message to send indicating my interest?

 

Can i ask some to contact me via an email or is that too inconvenient?

 

I know....really basic. Thanks in advance

 

John444

Always start out with a basic greeting and how you found his contact info. A good starting point is

 

“Hey xxx, my name is John and I found your profile on Rentmen (or wherever). I would be interested in meeting you, are you available on (day/time)? Thanks and I look forward to hearing from you.”

 

Once you get an OK for his availability, be specific about the time, location (his place, your place, hotel, etc) and for how long. You should find that the communication flows from there.

 

Some guys actively use the email feature on RM, but it’s less than reliable. You can ask about using email, but the initial inquiry by text is usually a good starting point.

[John444]

how about "hi, this is X; what is your schedule on Tuesday?"

Thanks!

[John444]

Always start out with a basic greeting and how you found his contact info. A good starting point is

 

“Hey xxx, my name is John and I found your profile on Rentmen (or wherever). I would be interested in meeting you, are you available on (day/time)? Thanks and I look forward to hearing from you.”

 

Once you get an OK for his availability, be specific about the time, location (his place, your place, hotel, etc) and for how long. You should find that the communication flows from there.

 

Some guys actively use the email feature on RM, but it’s less than reliable. You can ask about using email, but the initial inquiry by text is usually a good starting point.

v

Thanks for taking the time. I appreciate it.

[Epigonos]

It has taken me a while but I have finally become comfortable texting. It has become my principle means of communicating with a potential hire.

I never hire an escort for one hour. I ALWAYS hire for lunch or dinner (the escort's choice) and then a couple of hours of play time. In my first text I greet the escort, note the above type of arrangement I am looking for and ask if he is interested in that type of get together. In this first text I also ask him what his rate would be for the above. If he responds positively I get down to specifics in my next (second) text. I tell him exactly what I would like to do, I tell him my age and describe myself physically and finish the text again asking him if he is OK with my personal information. If I get a second positive response then my third text sets-up a specific time and place. At this point I ask him to call me at his convenience. This system seems to work very well for me but we each must decide individually what works for us.

Good luck, relax and have fun

Edited June 20, 2018 by Epigonos

[John444]

It has taken my a while but I have finally become comfortable texting. It has become my principle means of communicating with a potential hire.

I never hire an escort for one hour. I ALWAYS hire for lunch or dinner (the escort's choice) and then a couple of hours of play time. In my first text I greet the escort, note the above type of arrangement I am looking for and ask if he is interested in that type of get together. In this first text I also ask him what his rate would be for the above. If he responds positively I get down to specifics in my next (second) text. I tell him exactly what I would like to do, I tell him my age and describe myself physically and finish the text again asking him if he is OK with my personal information. If I get a second positive response then my third text sets-up a specific time and place. At this point I ask him to call me at his convenience. This system seems to work very well for me but we each must decide individually what works for us.

Good luck, relax and have fun

This is great. Thanks so much!

[510guy]

If it is someone I have never contacted I always start with "Hi (name), may I ask questions about your massage?"

 

The reason may include name is he may have a different site with different name. How courteous someone is on text helps me decide if I want to book. If he comes off as a jerk after a couple of basic questions I move on.

[+ JEC]

Great advice so far, key points...be specific, be direct and be concise, there are lots of creeps and flakes txting these guys all day long and wasting their time. They will know you are “legit” and you will therefore be most likely to get their attention if you follow these rules.

 

My first txt is usually “hello is this (name) from RM? Jack here. Very interested in your profile “. I like to confirm I have the right person/number before giving a lot of other details away.

 

Also if you want maintain your privacy set up a google voice account for this purpose - keeps all this separate from your “real” cell number. You can download the google voice app to your phone and txt from there.

 

Have fun

[+ bashful]

I like to confirm I have the right person/number before giving a lot of other details away.

 

Very good idea. A coworker all of a sudden started getting texts about wanting to meet. Started blocking. She finally texted one back to ask how they got the number. Person said Craigslist. She called CL, and they said ad would be taken down. Texts stopped that day.

[+ poolboy48220]

I second the notion of starting with something innocuous, in case the number's wrong. "I'm poolboy, I saw you'd be in Detroit for a few days, would love to meet up. Do you have any time open?"

[+ jeezopete]

Some good suggestions here. I always have this fear of texting the wrong number, so I try to get a simple first message through without too much information just in case.

[+ Pensant]

It has taken me a while but I have finally become comfortable texting. It has become my principle means of communicating with a potential hire.

I never hire an escort for one hour. I ALWAYS hire for lunch or dinner (the escort's choice) and then a couple of hours of play time. In my first text I greet the escort, note the above type of arrangement I am looking for and ask if he is interested in that type of get together. In this first text I also ask him what his rate would be for the above. If he responds positively I get down to specifics in my next (second) text. I tell him exactly what I would like to do, I tell him my age and describe myself physically and finish the text again asking him if he is OK with my personal information. If I get a second positive response then my third text sets-up a specific time and place. At this point I ask him to call me at his convenience. This system seems to work very well for me but we each must decide individually what works for us.

Good luck, relax and have fun

That’s very much like my protocol. The voice reveals so much. Thank God I have a deep sexy voice, or so they say.

[+ 7829V]

It has taken me a while but I have finally become comfortable texting. It has become my principle means of communicating with a potential hire.

I never hire an escort for one hour. I ALWAYS hire for lunch or dinner (the escort's choice) and then a couple of hours of play time. In my first text I greet the escort, note the above type of arrangement I am looking for and ask if he is interested in that type of get together. In this first text I also ask him what his rate would be for the above. If he responds positively I get down to specifics in my next (second) text. I tell him exactly what I would like to do, I tell him my age and describe myself physically and finish the text again asking him if he is OK with my personal information. If I get a second positive response then my third text sets-up a specific time and place. At this point I ask him to call me at his convenience. This system seems to work very well for me but we each must decide individually what works for us.

Good luck, relax and have fun

Do they usually adjust their rate based on your type of arrangement? lunch/dinner + play time?

Also, what if there's no connection / chemistry when you are having lunch/dinner? Do you still proceed with playtime?

[Epigonos]

7829V in answer to your first question some do and some don't. Depending on the guys total rate I decide whether or not I am willing to meet. Many escorts discount their fee for multiple hours and some don't charge for the meal time, it simply depends on the escort.

In response to your second question I have never had a problem in that area. When I'm spending the amount of time and money I am on these types of arrangements it behooves me to make damn sure there is a connection/chemistry. As I see it connection/chemistry is a two way street so I am as responsible as the escort to see that it happens. Thus far I have fortunately always found some topic that the escort and I can discuss. Also I spend a considerable amount of time vetting the escorts I'm intending to hire to make sure we can develop a connection/chemistry.