Alex93108

Anyone have an update? Now that the jail is open ( no pun intended ) I plan to be in Oz later this year . rentboyaustralia is overwhelming 😱 , I am familiar with sleepy boy in the UK , rentboyaustralia is at another level

So an update What he essentially gave me was an overnight plus almost two days. Lots of off the clock time. I just went with the flow . He spent the day at my hotel hanging out at the pool . Before dinner we even went to the local mall, and did a bit of shopping, but I wasn't pressured into buying him anything. It was all quite lovely and nothing bad happened. At the end of the day it boils down to chemistry and trust. There was lot of that. I haven't had that many overnights but what truly makes a great overnight is having a provider who can fill in the gaps, keep up the pace and essentially keep me the client entertained and delighted throughout. I was tired the first night, which he respected, but when morning came he made sure that I wasn't bored. I am by nature a very accommodating/compromising person, and I was interested in what he wanted to do as well, which was odd, because he was very much focused on my needs, what made me happy, what I wanted to, even during the off the clock hours. I wanted this to be something he enjoyed as well, even though it was about me, I wanted him to enjoy himself. I think he appreciated that. For me, a mark of a good relationship / connection, it the ability to hang out with someone with gaps in the conversation/ long moments of comfortable silence. There was lots of that. At breakfast, after a long period of silence, he asked me what I was thinking. I said to him. "I must be incredibly lucky to be here with you - at this very moment". His smile back could melt anyones heart. I made a promise to see him again soon. It was incredibly gratifying and healing to have this gorgeous, handsome and cute Latino boy spend two days with me, plus and overnight.

Agree on the above. If I had any advice, I would try to get them fresh ( i.e a new arrival ) before Vauxhall and Soho changes them and they get into chems ( as it happens) . Paris is also a huge market for Brazillians too ( since they can enter visa free) . I would be keen to try a new arrival. Anyone know a new arrival? I'm genuinely surprised how so many can enter Britain so easily and get past the Border Force, and stay in Britain for 6 months "working", but good for them. Border force can sometimes give me, a genuine frequent visitor a hard time, when the e-gates don't work. Sidenote: I remember a lot of things, and I distinctly remember boarding the plane back feeling disappointed over my appointment with Enrick as I left London. The universe works in strange ways sometimes. My flight back to New York was delayed by just over 3 hours, due to non weather reason, which qualified me for delay compensation ( since it was long haul) of £300. Normally I have to chase BA for this, but they elected to deposit the funds into my account without much of a fight. So there - £300 I wasn't expecting, fell from the sky - presumably to pay me back, not whole, but most. A wrong was righted in the end. Funny how that all works out.

This. Thank you! I've had many junk trainers at Equinox ( pretty boys with insta accounts) . They even have a group one which is drool worthy. I did get real results with a remote trainer based in LA that came recommended to me, but got bored of the workouts.

Speaking of Enrik, I had him come see me last year in London. I wasn’t physically attracted to him but I was intrigued nonetheless by a glowing recommendation I received, and booked him. Normally I much prefer equal or a bigger , more muscular guy than me to be a top. It’s much more fun that way, to me, unless there is some kind of connection to compensate for this. I found him to be energetic and fun but what annoyed me the most, was that he arrived late and left early – about 45 minutes into 2 hour session, at outcall London rates. He also tried to upsell me during the session for extra services. I declined. I was surprised because most Brazilians working guys I have had the pleasure of meeting with locally in Brazil are consummate professionals , with a good work ethic , skilled at their craft and proud of the work they do ( most of the time ) Enrik was my first Brazilian hire outside of Brazil. The actual session wasn’t bad at all - it was just short of what we agreed ( time wise) and not what was I expecting. It was a little disappointing but sometimes you get a hit, sometimes you get a miss. That's the nature of this hobby. I did like him personally . A charming boy from Minas. We had a nice chat before and during the session ; I have been to the town there his from and I suspect he has a type, and I wasn’t it. I spoke to him in my broken Portuguese too ( which surprised him) and we had a nice bonding chat about his life in Britain as well, but I suspect, he’s better at bottoming and it helps if you’re his type also. In hindsight I should have booked him to bottom ( and watched the clock ) The real professionals ( in Brazil) don’t care who the client is and provide consistent service, and are grateful for your company. He is human though, we all are, so let’s not judge him too harshly. Suffice to say, your experience may vary.

I am down to two meals a day, a small light breakfast, and lean dinner. Happy to do the excursive too. Just need a point in the right direction.

I am having a sort of mid life crisis if you will ( mid 40s) and I would like to drop down to 15-18% body fat. I am currently at 28%. I am have big frame, broad shouldered. I don't mind doing the work, changing my habits. If you be nice if members could provide me with some direction. I could hire a trainer for this but prefer to do my research and get this done right. I live in NYC, though I travel at lot ( the UK and California primarily). Lead a very active lifestyle, I walk, climb mountains, and have access to places like the Equinox for workouts, and I also have a job that's is flexible. I know a lot of OF models have been using apps like Fitbod to design their workouts, which I am doing. Any guidance would be appreciated. thanks.

I think we should not delude ourselves in thinking that this could turn out to be just like Julia Roberts in Pretty Woman . That only happens in the movies . My line in the sand is : At best it’s lovely but for me personally I would not want it to turn into a seeking arrangement situation, which some people might be open to , I’m in my mid 40s i might think differently about this when I am older. I think everyone ( if presented with this situation) should figure out before hand what their boundaries are and not be deluded that it could turn into Pretty Woman . I am super comfortable with this now

With inflation at 10% and gas/petrol at 1.89/1.99 a liter, Try £250. The rates tend to vary I have noticed only if 1) You have +44 number 2) You are attractive. Not all punters/johns are ugly btw. Provider might ask for a pic or find out what you look like from WhatsApp profile etc. If you are handsome / younger, expect a lower rate. £200 is the low end now. The lower end rates tend to be outside London ( Bham and Manc is £150), on Sleepyboy or hunqs. Some of those guys are not attractive, well to me at least. I haven't hired in London in a while, but this is from my collective for the last 2 years. I am there quite often.

Bank branches are useless. The best place, if you can make it there is the Bank of England in the city of London. Tube stop : Bank There's a lovely museum there too. They will take anything - they have to, except Scottish Pound notes. You need to go back to Edinburgh for that if you have any. I go back and forth almost every other month, so I got rid of mine last year actually. But to be honest, I hardly ever use cash, except to pay providers.

Best explanation I have heard so far. Spot on

Good point with "shopping". I'll be leaving my credit cards in the hotel then, and carrying limited cash on me. Apple pay can be turned off

I do strongly suspect there may a sugar daddy element to this. . And I suspect he has other clients he does this with also, sort of a "courtesy promotional time" to build a bond, loyalty and repeat business with clients he likes. It works. Or maybe he just enjoys my company? I don't know. He's not overly flirty and fake, interactions with him are, for the most part I can tell, genuine. I try not to appear to be grand or wealthy ( but I do like nice stuff) and I go out of my way not to put on airs. Though I am US based, a large part of my family lives in the UK and we have adopted English habits of not standing out, being humble etc, which doesn't always work in places like Miami or LA, but that's how I was raised. When I was with him, I stayed at a 4 star place, but you can easily tell how much a person is worth by their clothes and processions. In my case, the things I had in my room would probably tell him I was someone who was at least, while not necessarily wealthy, certainly comfortable.

There should be a comp make up session based on terms and conditions suited to you, including flying to your town, if appropriate, plus an upgrade or gift of some sort. A handwritten note to you apologizing, bordering on a love letter. If the Four Seasons ran an escort business, that's how it would be done

@Jamie21- is this UK based and by phone number? I wish I could check my rating

I thought I would post this to the forum, just to make sure I am handling this correctly. There's a provider ( who does not live in my home city) but rather a city I plan to be travelling to soon who I have met before for a long session. We got on well together immensely, and since he enjoys my company, he offered to spend time with me ( off the clock) , beyond our session. He just wants to hang out, talk to me, and be in my presence, and spend a leisurely day in his town doing activities we both enjoy. It's incredibly flattering that this beautiful boy, 15 years younger than me, wants to do this. 1) My first reaction was to confirm that this offer was indeed "off the clock". It was. I even went on to define when the clock starts and when its off 2) I assume there would be a general expectation that I would pay for meals etc, and purchases made while we were together off the clock which I am fine with. I don't anticipate anything bad to happen. 3) I have suspicion a larger tip than normal is expected of from me, which I don't mind. For a guy that hardly tips, the last time I met him, he actually told me "Jetlow - you gave me too much money". I never thought I would hear a provider tell me that. I actually enjoyed my time with him as well, we had such great chemistry, but I am all to conscious that this is a provider / client relationship. I just want to make sure I am being fair to him. If anyone has pointers of how to best handle off the clock situations, I would appreciate it. I think I am being fair and proper to him, which is what I would like to do.

I was at a restaurant yesterday and the tactic used here in serbia ( as soon as they hear my accent is ) service is not included . whatever . It’s been used twice with me . I tipped in one occasion but not the other. on the low end Im inclined to ignore that speech again. Neededless to say , providers did not get tipped but I did my rounding up , which is what I do outside the US

speaking as an american who travels a lot , i’m often embarrassed at my fellow country men , not only in terms of dress in places like Paris and Milan , but also demeanor and ignorance . The blame most certainly goes both ways

As as rule, I adhere to the following. 1) I only ever tip in the United States, because not to tip is considered rude, and a wages of service providers is built into the American tipping culture. For "providers" - I round up. So if the festivities are 250, I might give 300, only if it was "good and exemplary". If it was just ok, the dude is getting 250. 2) In the UK, almost all restaurants now will include a discretionary service charge. It used to be 5%. I've seen it as high as 12.5%. If it was high and I thought total bollocks ( to steal their phrase) I have asked them to remove it. I do not tip in the UK. I may round up, but to smaller amount. This applies to hires. What I did learn from friends from smart circles in England is one should always tip with paper notes as opposed to coins. Either give paper notes or give nothing at all. So the bellman that fetched my suitcase would get a £5 at least, but never a £2 in coins ever. 3) In mainland Europe, as soon as they hear me speak, or worse, the machine picks up that I have an American / US dollar credit card, I'm expected to tip. I do no tip in France either, or Italy for that matter, and never in Germany. In Paris, I might leave a euro or two for good service at the cafe. I follow the UK rule, never tip only if its good. In france, a euro or two euro coin is acceptable at the cafe. 4) Latin America has been ruined by the American tipping culture. I generally try avoid tipping in Brazil, but in Mexico as soon as they see me they almost expect it. I don't tip in Latin America. I only ever tipped once in Latin America, a provider I thought was phenomenal, the rest got their quoted rates, rounded up slightly. 5). Tipping in Japan is rude, and some professionals ( including creatures of the night) might consider it insulting. You can give your entertainer/companion/host/urisen a drink or gift. I never ever tip in Japan. If you liked the service, consider upgrading - i.e turning a 1 hour into a 3 hour or buying an expensive drink, rather than a tip. 6) I don't tip in Asia either or Africa. Though in Kenya - again because of Americans they expect it as soon as they see me. Don't tip here either. I don't care how big it was. 7) I also don't tip in the middle east. Just because I'm from the US, doesn't make me a tipping machine, people should not expect it. If you read this far, I only tip in the United states, not anywhere else. I consider myself well travelled, and culturally aware, rather than cheap

From the OF era Paul Wagner . [ Such a beautiful man - I would be so nervous) Rhyheim Shabazz. [ I have had BWC, I think it would only be fair for me to have BBC. And if you are going to have BBC, why not have the Best BC that is also a Big BC ] Disco Dick ( he was working for a while but stopped). Naughty and yum at the same time. I wish I caught him in his early days

I don't know what it is. Looks too rocky to be coke ( which I have seen before) and from movies. This was rocky. Who knows. Back to regular scheduled programming.

By contrast I had another overnight ( probably my worst) , in Brazil that went something like this. We agreed to meet around 10pm. He texts me the day of to tells me that he is going to a birthday party and that he can arrive only at 1am. * THIS IS A HUGE RED FLAG* -. If anyone changes the time on me, I will cancel ( and you should too) because either you're the second act, and he's spent, or something else is going on. In this case it was the latter. He arrives a 1:30am. Now I was staying the nicest hotel in a major Brazilian city, ( when I mean nice, its the best hotel in the city I was staying at). Most 5 star hotels in Brazilcan be had for around $100-250 US, this was multiple more than that. It was a treat to myself and my travel agent managed to get 1 night free out of multi night stay. So the effective rate for was less. So the dude shows up at this classy joint, all jumpy. After some chit chat, he tells me he worked in London for 6-8 months, then asked to do "chems" [ gee, i wonder where he got that habit from] . I said, I don't mind if you do - as long as it doesn't interfere with my enjoyment. For a Brazilian, his English was ok, I guessed he picked it up from London, along with other bad habits. Since I am in the UK frequently, we chat about that for a while. For those of you familiar with nice hotels - there is no bloody microwave in the room. What was I supposed to do? Call the concierge and ask for one? "Hi - this is Mr. Jetlow. My hooker needs to cook his meth, can you send a microwave or heating plate to my room please? " . I don't think so. So he then snorts the thing. and festivities begin - except its evident that he can't get hard, hes not into the appointment or into me at all. What a turn off. He tires for an hour - asks for a drink ( which I provided) , then asked to leave. But not before asking for his fee, prorated of course. A real hustler. I just wanted him gone It was supposed to be an overnight - it turned out to be an hour plus. Win some lose some. I was surprised, normally Brazilians are rather professional practitioners. What I learned from this is : The next time I'm in Brazil , I am going to ask the guys if they have EVER worked in London, because if they have and they are now back in Brazil, chances are they are RUINED. My best Brazil hires in Brazil are the ones who have never seen Vauxhall or Soho. Because once they have its DONE, because they have probably done that scene for 6-8 months, on chems, and totally SPENT. The best ones are the ones who aspire to go to London and are 1 or 2 years into the art, and have yet to hit the British isles or places like Paris. I have more than once instance to prove this theory to be true.

He's based in Panama City, Panama. PM for details.

My last overnight went like this: Meet at 10pm. Sex Round 1 Sex Round 2 Talk + Sleep 12am-1am at this point. Wake up 7am-8am Sex Round 3 Sex Round 4 Sex Round 5 930am. Breakfast - which he asked for, I provided 1030 - Chit chat back in the room. He leaves, with thanks. Yes - he slept naked with me. Yes we cuddled. And yes, I'd probably hire him again - dependent on my urge, opportunity and what my budget is like

I can indeed confirm in London they do. They see my +1 number on WhatsApp and suddenly the lads are asking £250-300. When I got a local +44 0777 🙂 number ( not for this, but for other more personal reasons) I noticed it started at £200. Anyway - this was probably 2-3 months ago. I haven't hired in Europe in a while. And when they ask me where I'm staying I get generic - i.e near Kings Cross lol . Or republique in Paris etc by the Gare - until interest has been confirmed and the rate agreed. Always. Saying "meet me at Le Meurice" is probably going to cost you. Duh I believe in paying fairly, but no one wants to be taken for a ride - even if a ride is involved.