Trevor

Keep in mind it's not as easy as it sounds.  You need to be able to work with all types of clients even if you aren't attracted to them.  Also consider your personal safety, not only sexually (STDs) but also clients that might decide to be violent.  As others have said you also need to be able to provide a fantasy for the client.  

My best hires so far for 2025 were the men at the annual Company of Men Palm Springs gathering in April.  I hired about 4-5 of them throughout the weekend: some in a group and some separately.  My room is already booked for next year's gathering... Just waiting for the dates to officially be announced.

His profile dates to 2020, yet he is only 19? 🙃 His reviews are certainly less than stellar.

Way back he was openly using meth. Remember when he faked his own death? He was a mess back then. 

Thank you for saying this.  Too many times I have a client say they feel they are entitled to "this or that" just because they paid.  Paying doesn't give you full control of my body, it gives you the time to spend with me and whatever we agree upon during that time.

I saw Jon Ramsey last October — SWEETEST guy, banging hot physique (whatever his age LOL), and a passionate kisser. He was eager to show me a good time, and skilled at it. The chemistry wasn’t quite there, so wouldn’t repeat; but I would still give him (and the experience) 👍🏻👍🏻

His? Or the children's life he ruined?
Oh no a fucking perv had what was coming to him how horrible /s
Hopefully he rots in jail or the other inmates do what they usually do with child molestors.

I hired a provider and he came to my hotel.  His profile said "No" to smoking.  After he walked in he proceeded to pull out his vape pen and take a long hit.  I told him very pointedly to not do that as I don't like it and there is charge for anyone caught smoking or vaping in a room.  
Well.
He went on a rant about how I did not understand the science of vaping, how it is 180 degrees different from smoking, that whatever I see exhaled is ONLY water vapor - absolutely nothing more - and that he had the right to vape whenever and wherever he pleased.  He proceeded to then pull out his vape pen again and blow it in my face and say "see only water vapor".    My response was very straightforward "See, there is the door, leave."
 
Smoking and vaping are two of the key reasons that I pretty much never kiss a provider....just bad oral hygiene is the other.  Its also why I keep altoids near me at all times and a unopened toothbrush....if your breath can peel the paint off a wall, you need to down the entire tin and/or go brush very well.

So I just had the opportunity to meet him and it was everything people are saying here. Very nice, intelligent, communicable and incredibly sexy. I love the fact that he wasn't "watching the clock" and made the experience amazing. I'll be looking forward to having another chance to meet up. For anyone who is still reading this strand - believe me completely worth it!

Thank you for saying that!!
I will happily line up to receive this particular tip of the hat.  And I’ll happily accept that label, among others, as being central to my sexuality.  
There are many avowed breeding enthusiasts out there, and we’re extremely lucky to live at a time when we can enjoy that with reasonable comfort and safety.  Many of us who came up in the 80’s or 90’s have fastidiously avoided that kind of thing for years on end and still feel the power of that taboo.  
But if you do your homework and invest time and effort in the necessary precautions, it can be an act that brings two men closer than any other.  And it can be a truly meaningful thing to provide, in either direction.  
And if you’re squeamish about hearing that from a provider, then condoms are still a very sensible option.  Still available at a pharmacy near you. 

Just as a frame of reference here for this conversation:  I've had a grand total of one experience ever where a client has asked that a condom be involved, and that was last month.  With prep and doxy pep and regular testing, I've tested positive for an STI a grand total of zero times since I started escorting.  
The fact of the matter is that the tools for safety have evolved, enabling escorts to be more generous with our bodies than we used to be.  No, it's not risk free.  Yes, it's a calculated risk for all parties.  Yes, it's incumbent upon all of  us active escorts and clients  to educate and protect our own selves.  The best escorts - when asked - will put on a condom.  The best escorts - when asked - will have a frank conversation about safety if bare sex is your preference.  
All that said, if you're engaging in sex with escorts - or anyone really - you have choices to make as to how to protect yourself.   It could be prep and doxy pep.  It could be condoms.  It could be abstaining altogether.  Or - as suggested above - it could be staying home and jerking off to Only Fans.  

Hello,
I don’t have an ad. Please DM me here - will share pics, chat etc to see if we’re a fit.
Thank you.

It depends on the provider.  Some providers have other jobs, some providers don't want their families to know so they go by a pseudonym.  Keep in mind that providers are performers/entertainers providing a fantasy for their clients.  Knowing their real name and knowing more about them could kill the fantasy.

I’d actually love to hire!  
Unfortunately, it’s financially counterproductive for me.  I do very much love the work and the time I spend with clients.  But the financial aspect of it is a real factor.  Rent, groceries, etc. 
Also, if I’m being honest, my life such as it is doesn’t allow for a lot of time to indulge in my own personal recreational sexual pursuits.  
I'm sure it would be an amazing experience for me, and probably make me better at what I do.  But sadly not practical for me anytime soon. 

He founded Candyman Entertainment in 2006. When he was 11. Apparently.
https://rentmasseur.com/JasperVanDean
 

There used to be a meetup during MAL weekend (MLK Weekend) in DC.  It's sort of fallen apart.  It would be great to do that again.
Keenan

First this Monday is International Sexworkers Day and I'd like to recognize and thank all the sexworkers we have here.  You provide us cients a service many times putting your health and safety secondary to allow us as clients to enjoy your beauty and to fulfill a need.  I'd personally like to recognize my favorite escort, Keenan Smith.  He goes out of the way to make sure I always have a great time and is truely a provider if you haven't had a chance to experience to setup a session with.  With that said which provider would you like to thank and recognize.
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I love this thread already.  So much of this forum is dedicated to complaining about providers and criticizing providers and warning about providers...
Thank you @sky for offering the opportunity to put some positivity out there!
As a provider, I don't get the chance to hire, but I want to take the opportunity to recognize @Simon Suraci.  He's a natural community leader.  And he's always willing to offer an empathetic ear and thoughtful advice.  Providers can often be competitive, or even just protective of the details of what they do.  This guy has far too much generosity of spirit for that.  Most of my friends know that I'm a sex worker, but few of them actually understand.  Simon is always willing to offer that understanding. 
Also, if you have a real RentMen membership, then you need to peruse his photo gallery.  He's very generous with erotic images of himself, and they are fully EYE POPPING.  I would never reduce another provider to his sex parts, but...  Simon's are truly 360 degrees beautiful.
If I were to hire, I'd hire him.
Happy Sex Workers' Day!
 
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I'll just leave this here because it's the most pathetic thing ever 
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First of all, I just would like to say that the OP's fantasy is a little more common than most would think...  I've been told many times that it would be so cool to meet at a bar and have me come in a bit later, sit down next to, strike up a conversation and after a few drinks leave together...  not necessarily around someone's friends, but just people in a bar in general...  it's a fantasy I've heard many times and it get it.... 
Here's where my story comes in.... years ago someone that Zeb Atlas and I used to travel together with threw  a 50th birthday party for his partner.....  he flew out like 12 of their closest friends to Las Vegas and put them all up in hotel rooms for a weekend.. he had the clever idea to hire two male strippers to "entertain" this dozen. His partner knew about us and the travel but he didn't want anyone else to know just how "familiar" we were... in fact we were told to pretend that we knew no one...  I remember Zeb and I waiting in the bar  downstairs  at the Wynn waiting for the green light 🚦 ( a text to cum up )  everything went according to plan and this particular suite had a massage room, and we took each and everyone of his guests in there to give private...... even the few shy ones got an opportunity to be not so shy 🤣  I think the whole ordeal lasted two +  hours. Everybody was super happy and the wonderful part of the story is that years later he came clean to every single person that was there....  after he retired, I suppose he felt a bit more comfortable coming clean.  He says those that were in attendance still talk about that night years later and my dear friends now hubby says it's probably his most memorable birthday 🎉 party 🎈 The funny part was that a few of them said they had a recognized us from the Internet 🛜  😜

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