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Wow, this guy looks gorgeous. Need to whisk myself over to Las Vegas!

Last time I was at VG (middle of 2021 if I remember correctly), I had a great session with a beautiful Brazilian lad who went by the name 'Leo'. Most likely no longer there, but oh man, would I love to see him again.

I would most certainly love a game with him...

What I don't get is people being happy to part with cash just to see nude pics or pics and/or videos of people having sex. Basically it's just like subscribing to amateur porn. Not for me. I would much rather part with my cash to actually enjoy a hot guy in the flesh.

A couple of my regular guys have OF accounts but the escorting is their main gig. The OF is just something they do on the side for a bit of supplementary income.

I can't wait to sample the local talent in Brazil. That said, I actually have not hired anyone who isn't Brazilian in I don't know how long! EDIT: I'm British, and here in the UK the gay escort market is dominated by Brazilians.

As a client, my biggest red flags are very short (one or two word) answers to any queries I might have prior to booking, which suggests a reluctance to engage and just general disinterest (so why escort in the first place?).

As others have said, escorts asking to see pics of clients is not the norm (most won’t and don’t do it; they’re happy to meet pretty much anyone regardless of how they look, as long as they get paid what they ask for…..your money is what’s important to most of them, not your looks). I have a profile pic of myself on my WhatsApp anyway, so they can see what I look like when I contact them.

Sorry if this is an upsetting suggestion, but I think it’s important you consider all possibilities here. Is he from another country? If so, he could just be using you for a visa and documents to be able to permanently stay in the country. I personally know quite a number of the Brazilian escorts here in the UK who have married clients just so that they could stay here legally.

Agree. One of the reasons I ended up deleting that app from my phone is because most people on there are flakes who just want to 'sext' and have endless chat.

I personally believe most if not all men are bisexual, to some degree or another, no matter how minuscule the degree to which one is might be. I think most people who choose to identify their sexual orientation as either 'gay' or 'straight' do so based on their predominant attraction to either the same or opposite gender, respectively; but that ultimately, there is attraction to both genders in all of us (or at the very least, the possibility of attraction to both genders, whether we choose to acknowledge that or not). How one chooses to express, if indeed at all, their bisexuality is also extremely variable, and many people (if not most) probably don't realise they are bisexual since the way in which it is (or is not) expressed doesn't seem bi to them. Perhaps there genuinely are people who are 100% one way or the other, but my guess is that such people are extremely rare. I think, for most us, our sexual orientations are a sliding scale or continuum (of bisexuality). In my view, nobody chooses their bisexuality - since that bisexuality is just the natural default setting of human (and, indeed, other animal) sexuality. But what people do choose is whether or not they identify as 'gay' or 'straight'; a choice they make based upon their predominant attraction to whichever gender.

I love it both ways, but my favourite is to be the one doing the rimming. Having my tongue licking and digging deep into a hot guy's hole is just insanely erotic for me, and drives me wild.

His height pretty much matched mine (which, I think, is about 5'8ish).

I've wondered whether this is the case, too.

You're right. A lot (even perhaps most, I have to say) of the Brazilian escorts currently working the gay escort scene in London are into playing with chems (usually 'Tina' and 'G'). I think they tend only to use if the client also uses, though. All the escorts I've been with who use chems have always respected my decision not to partake, when they offered me. I have never felt pressured or rejected because I decline the offer to do chems. And most have been OK with not taking any chems themselves whilst they are with me, though I have no problem with them using if they want to, as long as they don't mind me not using.

This made me chuckle 😂 So true though.

Here in the UK, escorts typically charge between £150 - £200; with £200 being most common. This has been the case for quite some time now, and despite a cost of living crisis that continues to worsen and a rate of inflation that has been forcing even relatively well-off people to feel unsettled, this price range has continued to hold. You'll encounter the odd one here and there who charges more than £200, but that is rare; between £150 - £200 is the norm. The last few guys I have hired over the past few months have all told me that business in the UK (specifically in the capital city London) is a bit quiet. They aren't getting as many new clients now as they do in more typical (better) economic times, but their regular clients are continuing to see them. So, I suppose the rate is being held despite the problems of lower demand and higher inflation in order to retain their regulars, many of whom doubtless like their overnight sessions ('overnight' typically being anywhere between 8 and 12 hours max, usually costing between £1,000 - £1,300).

Gabrielteixeeira - Pornstar Performer, Rentboy, Gay Massage in Amsterdam, Netherlands | RentMen RENTMEN.EU Pornstar Performer & Rentboy in Amsterdam, Netherlands - Gabrielteixeeira: GabrielTeixera Met him whilst he was here in the UK a couple weeks back, and absolutely loved him. He was the best guy I've hired in a very long time, I just loved every single moment with this guy and would recommend him to anyone as one of the best if not the best escort I've hired in all my years of hiring. He seems to be one of those escorts who frequently travels around from country to country. He's currently in Amsterdam and I'm very much hoping he returns to the UK one day soon.

It really does vary. Sometimes I will have three sessions in a single month or sometimes only one or even none. Sometimes I'll have a consecutive run of several months where I hire (at least once a month) for every month. Then I might go through a period of a couple or so months where I don't hire at all. Or I might hire one month and then not for the next four or five. With me it really is extremely variable and without any kind of consistent pattern.

I've never had an escort offer me a freebie session on initial contact or meeting, but I have had a couple of them offer me freebie sessions after an initial session that I paid them for, presumably because we had such a good connection that they were happy to see me for "fun" rather than as a "client". There is a Brazilian escort in London who I met initially as a paying client, and who I have subsequently had many hot sessions with and not had to pay. We have become friends and will once in a while meet up for coffee, go for walks in a park, have a few drinks in a bar or just have a nice afternoon or evening together chilling at his place. I don't pay for any of this, as we are friends. I only paid for the first session I had with him. As cringey as it may very well sound, it is a beautiful friendship and he has become one of the most special people in my life with a very special place in my heart. I imagine this kind of thing happening between a client and escort is very rare.

Yes, it is very sad indeed. It might sound daft to some, but I often think about Andrew all these years later. I have hired many, many escorts over the years since I first started hiring in 2006, but he holds a special place in my heart because he was the first one I hired. Apparently by the time he died, he had drastically cut down on the drug use (but obviously not stopped completely) and had a boyfriend with whom he had a stable and happy relationship. I made this post about him on here:

The first escort I ever hired was a gay porn star. His porn and escorting alias was 'Andrew Dean'. He did scenes for the porn company Euocreme. I first hired him in December 2006, so almost 17 years ago. Blimey, how time flies! This was in the days before RentMen and Sleepyboy, when a website called Gaydar was the place to go to find gay escorts in the UK (they also used to advertise in the back pages of the gay print press, which I don't think is a thing anymore). Gaydar is where I found his profile, on the so-called 'Commercial' page they had on that website, which contained all the London-based escorts profiles. I hired him twice. The first time I hired him was an incall session at a room he was renting in a shared flat in Barbican, central London. The second time I hired him (which was sometime in early 2007), was an outcall session where he came to me for an overnight at a hotel close to Victoria station. Both times were great. He became involved in the parTy scene/chemsex world and died from an overdose of G in 2008.

I've just spent a week in New York City with my friend (it was my first time visiting). One night, my friend and I hired a hot Latino (mixed race Brazilian) escort for a threesome. We both enjoyed him so much, that we asked him back to our apartment for a second session on our final night in the city, before I went back home to England. @SubNick feel free to PM me for details.

I have been seeing "Enrik" since March 2018. He's one of my favourites and I'd like to echo what you say - I can highly recommend him, he never disappoints. Not only is he extremely handsome, but he has an extremely down to earth personality and is one of the friendliest people I've ever met. He is an absolutely fantastic bottom for me, and I have always loved my sessions with him. He also gives the most relaxing massage ever.

Thanks for letting me know - I'll have to see him again very soon!