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I've just realised that you can click to see which forum members have answered each question. I didn't know you could that.

Not really sure I've noticed an uptick, but I do see the odd one every now and then claiming to be "straight". If they genuinely are straight, they're not likely to provide a good and enjoyable service. I suspect, however, that most are not in actual fact "straight".

I would surmise that it is very rare that "only a massage takes place" at VG 😂 And I concur. I hope VG is around for many years to come.

I'm relatively new to this site (I joined in July this year), so I don't know who 'Daddy' was. I feel like I've missed out on a lot.

This is a really great post and a fascinating idea, thank you very much @JoeMendoza. Wow. First of all, I'm surprised that I'm not the only one who had his first hire when he was below 21 (I was 18 when I hired my first escort). So far, two of us have clicked the 'below 21' option and I'd be very interested to know who the other person is (though they may not wish to say for reasons of anonymity). I honestly thought I was the only person in this whole forum to have hired an escort when I was so young. And someone has clicked that they've been hiring for '46 - 50 years'. That's amazing.

I hope you get to go see your regular, favourite guy very soon. As to whether you should take it on trust from an ad that says the escort is fully vaxed, this is totally personal. It is up to you of course. My regular go-to lad is fully vaxed, and I haven't asked him for proof because I trust him. He's a lovely person who would not lie, and he has a very good reputation as an excellent and popular provider in London, so he wouldn't risk damaging his reputation by lying. I have no doubt he'd show me proof of his fully vaxed status if I requested it, but I don't want to make him think I'm wary by asking. I trust him. If you meet a guy for the first time whose ad doesn't mention anything about being vaxed, I think it is absolutely a reasonable request to ask for proof, and I think I would do so. It's awesome that you turn 81 on the 26th; I hope you have a lovely day mate x

Yes very true, @MscleLovr. Thanks for adding some additional info with regards to the law here on prostitution/escorting, for the benefit of our friends abroad. @MscleLovris right. Prostitution is legal here so long as it isn't "publicly solicited". Pimping, trafficking and brothel running are all against the law (though the police seem to have turned a blind eye to Villa Gianni for all these years - I suppose because it operates under the facade of being a massage parlour).

Despite being a Millennial, I actually don't pay my escorts by credit card, haha. I always pay with cash. But I am thinking about paying my regular (and favourite) escort by PayPal, as I think he prefers that over cash. And I agree with you that just because someone uses escorts, doesn't mean they cannot get laid otherwise. I'm not unattractive and I currently look young for my age (or so most people including some of the escorts I see tell me), and I do sometimes get laid for free in the saunas, whilst cruising or meeting someone off the apps. But my favourite way to get laid is with an escort. Escorts provide a sexual experience that most free hookups simply won't and can't provide. I use escorts because I want to, not because I have to. And I think that's true for a lot of people regardless of their age.

I'm so fortunate to live in the UK, where paying someone money in exchange for sexual services is perfectly legal. I couldn't imagine experiencing the anxiety of being 'busted' each time I engage in this most enjoyable hobby.

Do you say this based on negative experiences you've had with escorts who've asked for payment up front, or is that just something you've surmised to be the case? I ask with all due respect. I've met up with many escorts who've asked for payment up front, and most of them (admittedly not all) have delivered a very professional service and a very hot, horny, enjoyable session. Whilst I personally would much rather pay at the end of a session as opposed to at the start of a session, I'm not automatically hostile to an escort who requests the latter. EDIT: I'm talking about payment on arrival, not about paying a deposit (or the full rate) prior to meeting, which is something I have never done and never would do.

I'm not sure where you've been when you've been over here, but this is not a description of the UK that I live in. Sure, there are plenty of impoverished areas in much of the larger towns and cities but that's the case elsewhere in Europe - and the rest of the world, indeed.

And may I ask why not!?

While I absolutely do not like his bush at all, I think he's one handsome lad.

It's really nice reading the different ages all you ...ahem....mature gents started hiring 😊 Believe it or not, I started hiring when I was 18. Yup, you read that correctly. I was 18-years-old when i hired my first escort. I've been hiring ever since. I'm now 33.

"A country is considered Latin American if it was or is still ruled by a country that speaks a Romance language — Spanish, French, or Portuguese — and its population also speaks it" (from Google).

But not literally 😂

Haha! Maybe he takes viagra, closes his eyes and thinks of a woman while he's fucking you/being fucked by you and gets off purely on the sensation? Then again, that'd still be a really shitty experience.

But he knows he can make way more money from gay men who have a silly "straight" fantasy and are willing to pay through the nose for it.

Bloody hell, are they really his rates? Another "straight" man taking gay men for fools. Mind you, guys like this are obviously very aware that there are plenty of gay men out there with more money than sense.