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Client here. I suppose after I've been to see an escort maybe 3 or 4 times, and with every intention in my mind of seeing him many more times after that; that is when he has become a 'regular' to me. I've had a number of regulars over the years, and have a couple of them at the moment. One of them I have been seeing since early 2018, and the other I've been seeing since early 2024. Do I treat my regular guys any differently to any of the other escorts I hire who are not regulars? Nope. The non-regulars receive the same level of respect, kindness, courtesy, and gratitude from me as my regular guys do. What is different is the dynamic that exists between me and my regular guys. What I mean by that, is things like the fact that I can have banter with my regular guys that I wouldn't be able to have with new hires. Also the way I would interact with the regular ones is like how I would interact with old friends. There is familiarity, long and well established rapport, and a general feeling of total ease and comfort. In other words, you 'know' your regular guys, and this is reflected in the dynamics during interactions. Now, this is purely anecdotal, but I also find that it isn't unusual for guys who you've been hiring for a long time (maybe once you've been hiring them regularly for many months or for more than a year), to be OK with letting you see them for a lower rate than they would charge to newer or less frequent / irregular clients. I would never expect that from any of them, but it is appreciated whenever a guy allows me to pay for a session at a reduced rate from the one that he advertises on his Sleepyboy or RentMen profile (suppose it's rewarding customer loyalty, in the same way that traditional businesses sometimes offer loyal customers discounts on products / services).

There certainly has not been a drop here in London. The going rate here is currently £200 and has been for a long while now. I've noticed an uptick in the number of those charging more (£250), but it's still only a small handful. Anything above this is extremely rare (in fact, I have not actually come across any guys exceeding this, ever; they would be narrowing their clientele to such a small niche that they'd be pricing themselves out of the market). It's actually still not all that uncommon to see guys (and yes, they're still very hot and good at what they do, they're not 'lesser' in any way) charging within the £150 - 190 range. It's not widespread, but you still see it (typically among newer guys). When you've known an escort for a long time and you've been a regular client of his for a long time, in my experience, he is often (if not usually) happy to charge you a lower rate than he advertises for new clients (the old business custom of rewarding loyalty!)

Can you see it now? I'm not sure what's happened, but I'm having trouble with my text and the colouring. Now when I switch to dark mode (which is more comfortable for my eyes), I cannot see what I've written. As long as others can see it in whichever mode they use the site, that's all that matters. EDIT: It would seem I was typing in so-called 'rich text' colour scheme. Not sure how that happened, but I have switched back to 'plain text'.

Done! I hadn't even noticed that it had gone like that because I use the site on 'dark mode', as my eyes are extremely sensitive to bright artificial light. Thank you for bringing it to my attention. I'll have to go back on all my other comments I've recently made and see if they're the same. Bloody hell.

I have been hiring since December 2006, and in all that time (blimey, it isn't far off being two decades!) I have only had about five or six overnight sessions. One of those (the first one) was an outcall and the rest were incalls at the escort's place. All times the escort and I slept together in the same bed. I would definitely not have it any other way, and wouldn't entertain the idea of an overnight session if being in the same bed to sleep together was not a possibility. I could not imagine sleeping in a separate bed as the escort, as I want the intimacy and physical closeness of cuddling up to him, but it is totally understandable if the client is accustomed to sleeping on their own and cannot sleep with someone next to them.

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Sounds delightful, though I'm a red wine person (don't like white)

Do you like Latino men? If so, I have a number of recommendations I can make to you. I would be happy to do so. I have a few regulars. They bottom for me as I'm only top, but all are versatile.

This has happened to me before a few times, when I have booked an escort for an outcall (which is not something I do too often, as I prefer incalls at the escort's place). I have agreed to meet the escort at my hotel, say, and he requested an Uber whilst he is about to make his way over to me, and didn't mention it beforehand. Honestly, no sweat. There was actually one time when the shoe was on the other foot, I was ready to leave my place for the escort's place, and realised I hadn't charged my phone for several hours. My phone was about to die, I hadn't left home until later than expected for whatever reason (I don't recall), and my session was due to start in about 20 minutes. I asked the escort if he would order me an Uber and said that I'd pay him once I arrived at his place and we were together. He ended up ordering me a Bolt that night, and I got to him on time and paid him the fare for the Bolt back. Easy. Fortunately, I knew him well by this point, so had no qualms asking for the favour.

This is where I count my lucky stars that I am an Englishman. This side of the pond, paying someone money in exchange for sexual services is perfectly legal, and I am never doing anything against the law whenever I hire. Hiring is not something that causes me any anxiety like it is for those of you over in the States. Mind you, I've hired in the US before (NYC and San Francisco), and I think that even though hiring is illegal there (?), they are such liberal places that there is no reason to worry. I certainly didn't feel anxious at all, especially when I was in California.

This all depends on how the escort prefers to do business. I have a number of regular escorts I've been seeing for several years, they know me well, and so paying at the end of the session is no issue. Often if it's someone new I'm seeing, they ask for the payment up front. That's no issue for me, I don't mind. If I see them a second time or if they become a new regular, then payment is often no longer asked for upfront, because trust has been well established. All that said, I have a couple of regulars who I've been seeing for a few years now, who still like payment to made at the start of the session (despite knowing me well); it's obviously just the way they prefer to do things. I know there are many guys on this site who say they don't approve of paying upfront, but honestly, it makes no odds to me. Many escorts here in the UK accept bank transfers now, and this is increasingly how I pay them, often before even I arrive - I just zip the cash over to them via my banking app as I'm on my way to meet them (you often learn their real names this way, though in my own personal experience, once you know an escort well or even have met him a couple of times, he has no qualms revealing his real name. I know the real names of all my regulars).

I attended one of Brandon Anthony's Naked Yoga classes whilst he was over here in the UK not too long back. It was OK but not as exciting as I thought it would be. Brandon's partner, Ivan, is absolutely stunning by the way, and both are affable chaps.

Tinned salmon, as we call it here in the UK (what the Americans call a 'can', we call a 'tin'; we refer to 'tinned food' not 'canned food'), is lovely on sandwiches. I love salmon full stop. Tinned, whole, steaks, smoked. You name it. A smoked salmon and cream cheese sandwich is very much a thing here, and is lovely. I believe the Yanks have their own version of this, but do it in the form of a bloody bagel instead. Criminal! 😂

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Personally, I haven't noticed any change in dynamics. I tend to stick to a few regular and semi-regular guys, and only occasionally hire someone new. Over many years of hiring, whilst I have indeed come across a few bad eggs displaying impertinent qualities of character, these have been far and few between. Most escorts, like people in general, are kind and respectful. I do, of course, speak from anecdotal experiences, which is all I can do.

I would generally agree with the sentiment aired here. That said, a few of the providers I've had absolutely great sessions with have been really sluggish in their communication, so being patient with them was worth it.

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Finding circumcised Latino guys might be a bit tricky, as most Latinos are uncut (circumcision is not a part of Latino culture; the penises of baby boys are left fully intact. It is the same here in Europe, where the only males who get circumcised are religious minorities such as Muslims and Jews, and those with medical conditions requiring circumcision). I always remember the first circumcised penis that I ever saw in real life, with my own eyes. He was the second escort I ever hired back in about 2007 or 2008. He advertised as Italian on his Gaydar Commercial profile, but many years later I found out that he was/is actually Brazilian, thanks to someone on here who responded to a post I made about him: I remember taking it in my mouth and can still remember how strange (in a good way!) it really felt. The head was so smooth, I couldn't get over the smoothness and how good the sensation of it in my mouth was. Ever since that day, I have had an overwhelming preference for cut cock over uncut. Being in the UK, where most men are uncut, means I don't get to experience many circumcised or 'cut' cocks, but never mind... 🥲

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I have never hosted an escort at my place, but I have had escorts come to my hotel room when I've been staying in a hotel. Most of the time I go to the escort's place. I really like it and prefer it that way.

That guy is definitely in the wrong job - he has nothing good to say about what he does at all, he’s constantly negative and on a downer about his escorting. Surely, he must be able to do something else if he hates it that much!

William Carioca, who was a Brazilian porn star who appeared in mostly straight porn (where over 50% of his scenes were DP scenes; him and another guy double penetrating a woman in both her holes, ass and pussy, simultaneously). But he also appeared in one or two gay scenes and also in shemale porn (where he was banging so-called 'chicks with dicks'). I understand he did do some escorting in Rio de Janeiro for male clientele at one point (apparently his escort ad said that he was up for anything and everything except bottoming). Like so many in the porn and escorting world, I know that he got into drugs (crack and meth) and sadly died from an O.D. a few years ago. So sad; he was absolutely beautiful.

I follow several of my regular and semi-regular guys on Insta and a few of them follow me back. I have no issue with it at all.